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Has anyone ever actually been turned on by a dick pic?

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:08

Genuinely curious if this has ever worked outside of very specific, pre-arranged circumstances. Like is there a secret success rate no one talks about, or is this just the digital equivalent of throwing spaghetti at a wall and hoping it flirts back?

I have never found a dick pic arousing, other than one occassion where the person made slightly more effort for the photo than just a POV shot of their nob. Solicited or unsolicited it just feels like im looking at a penis, and so what

It feels like we’re watching the longest-running group project where no one wants to admit it’s failing. I feel like women typically put a bit more effort into nudes??

Have you ever been turned on by a dick pic?

Idc if im being unreasonable dick pics are just not it

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:47

MyCrushWithEyeliner · 09/04/2026 21:12

No! Once I was sent one that made me feel sick (It was unhygienic) 🤢

I like them inside me (the clean ones!) but I don’t want to look at them.

I have this same affliction, that sometimes I wish I was either blind or a lesbian

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:48

Steeleydan · 09/04/2026 21:13

So was the penis stood up as well or just him stood up!!🍆🤣🤣

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They were both stood up hahahaha

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:48

Muttley1968 · 09/04/2026 21:17

I’d tell them I would add it to a file on my laptop with everyone elses pics. Then ask him if he would like a copy of where he ranks on the “size” graph I’d created. *don’t really have said file thank god

Omg why is this a completely genius idea

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:50

Dancingintherain09 · 09/04/2026 21:14

Apart from the miraculous event that the man god himself Henry Cavill sends me one, then absolutely not. But sadly Henry is too nice and too hot to need to do that (and unfortunately taken). So no, I'll take a hard pass at looking at the gangly underwhelming chipolata freely displayed 🤮

You know I think he would also be my only exception. Him and Jason Mamoa cos you just know he's packing

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Dancingintherain09 · 09/04/2026 21:51

worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:50

You know I think he would also be my only exception. Him and Jason Mamoa cos you just know he's packing

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I may make an exception for Jason Mamoa too, cos well....do I need to explain that 😆

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:52

BauhausOfEliott · 09/04/2026 21:15

I realise that on Mumsnet it’s considered depraved and abnormal for women to actually like looking at naked men and that the prevailing view is “Eww, willies, gross, teehee, men are so disgusting” but personally I greatly enjoy a dick pic. There’s definitely an art to taking a good one.

Not unsolicited, obviously - that’s an entirely different matter. I’ve received a couple from random strangers and that was foul.

But from the right man, and when it’s the right kind of photograph, I love a picture of a hard-on. I ask my OH to send them to me.

Each to their own, of course, but I’ve never been able to relate to the idea of finding a body part unattractive when it’s associated with sex, really. If I enjoy touching it, sucking it and having it inside me, I’m going to enjoy looking at it too.

I feel like my brain is just broken because I actually get the same arousal from looking a chicken goujon, no word of a lie

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Loloblue · 09/04/2026 21:53

Yes but it was attached to the body of an Adonis and / or we were sexting 🤷‍♀️

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:54

bunnyvsmonkey · 09/04/2026 21:20

I think if men really wanted to snare a woman with a single photo they'd need to put on a Mr Darcy outfit and send a pic of them climbing out of a lake.

Now THIS would have my ass in an Uber in seconds

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Cherryicecreamx · 09/04/2026 21:54

I'm as straight as can be.. BUT I think women's pictures are far better generally! We can dress it up in lace and silk or whatever takes your fancy! We can take a somewhat erotic picture.
They want us to be impressed but it really does nothing for me. I would find how good a man's body is more attractive than what's beneath their shorts.

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:56

Hollycoco · 09/04/2026 21:22

They fall into two camps:

  1. Men who just don’t understand what turns women on. They personally would love a close up pic of boobs/ass/lady parts………. and so presume it would also drive most women wild. Don’t consider that women don’t think and feel the same way they do. Lazy and low effort.
  2. Know that most women would be shocked and not turned on by it, but it’s a power play. Attempt at dominance.

Agree and this is why I just lose all respect for men who send them randomly (when not partnered)

Like im supposed to respect a man for trying?? Trying to what? Make me want to put caustic soda in my eyes? I think not

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 21:59

Conkersinautumn · 09/04/2026 21:23

I always assumed they are a (lazy?) version of sitting around in a grubby mack waiting to flash passers by.. It was a problem from time to time at the girls school I attended. This sort of crime seems less in the news(or did i disproportionately notice this as a young teen?). Maybe it is just as prevalent, maybe because men that get off on it don't even have to work as hard or commit to 'all weathers' to be predatory?

Oooh this is an interesting point! Tbf, if i got a choice in which way i had to be subjected to view a penis unconsensually it would definitely be over the Internet and not when I'm walking to tesco

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Teanbiscuits33 · 09/04/2026 22:01

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 09/04/2026 20:12

Obviously I am in a minority here 😆

For those who do find men attractive, is it purely the pic you don't like or cocks per se?

If you haven’t asked for a dick pic or don’t already have an established flirty dialogue with someone, then it’s repulsive. Not liking unsolicited dick pics is not a measure of whether a woman is attracted to men or not.

If I’m getting to know a potential future romantic partner and he sends me a dick pic out of the blue, I’m immediately turned off, no matter how physically attractive I find him. It’s a bit grubby. I’m interested in more than his supposed sexual prowess, and let’s face it, I like having sex with men, but to look at, penises aren’t all that special, or any genitals for that matter 🤣

Sexual attraction is much broader than that for me.

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 22:01

FasterMichelin · 09/04/2026 21:23

Penis’s are ugly!

A turn on for me, would be a man being particularly attentive, kind, funny. Giving me a massage or making my dinner unexpectedly. Give me all of the above and I’m much more likely to be turned on.

Send me a dick pic and it will do the complete opposite.

Penises are damn ugly, preach

And same! Call my standards low (they are in the gutter) but make me a dinner and tell me im beautiful and I'm yours. Send me a dick pic and im phoning the police

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Parsleyforme · 09/04/2026 22:01

Someone sent me a photo of simply their hand in their boxers once and that was way more sexy than any of the purple knob pics I used to get when online dating. Some young guy took a shot of him holding next a toothbrush next to his dick for scale! Don’t know what went through his head.

Not sure if anyone has shared this meme but I think it’s so true

https://ifunny.co/picture/girls-sending-nudes-guys-sending-nudes-RIGv9gxm8

Has anyone ever actually been turned on by a dick pic?
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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 22:04

wheresmymojo · 09/04/2026 21:33

Random dick pics, absolutely not.

One from the object of my sexual attraction as part of sexting? Yes, absolutely.

It’s not the object per se, but the fact that they’re turned on for/by you. I mean I’m sure there’s nothing objectively wonderful about a wet vulva but obvs men find it a turn on because it means you’re turned on by them.

I think for me its moreso like, if im sexting with someone i enjoy that we are turning eachother on, but why am I seeing JUST your penis? Can you zoom out? Can I see your abs too pls

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scarpa · 09/04/2026 22:05

I'm obviously one of the minority here... I've been sent some great dick pics. Obviously I don't necessarily want one out of the blue when not expecting it, but when I am... I fancy them. I want said pictured dick. Seeing it but not having it builds anticipation. Anticipation is sexy?

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 22:05

ohwtf · 09/04/2026 21:33

Honestly it was yeaaars ago, however I am reasonably sure that if you put "man being tasered in the balls" in your preferred search engine, you'll have plenty of terrible material to laugh yer tits off whilst massively ruining your browser history 🤣

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I've just seen one and honestly its probably the greatest video I've ever seen in my life. I'm gonna show my mum

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Holidaymodeon · 09/04/2026 22:05

If it’s someone I’m in a sexual relationship with then I find them very sexy.
if it was from a stranger or someone I had not built up a sexual relationship / connection with then I would find it horrible
it’s the context for me

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 22:07

Dnmrbd · 09/04/2026 21:35

How do you feel when you see your DH's one at attention?

I dont have a DH anymore (woohoooo) but when we were together he did send a full body nude containing his penis that was very pleasant (at the time)

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DollydaydreamTheThird · 09/04/2026 22:08

ohwtf · 09/04/2026 20:10

I was mildly amused at a photo of a man being tasered in the bollocks, but not turned on per se.

🤣I need to see this. It should be the daily punishment in a life prison sentence for men who sexually abuse and rape women and children.

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 22:08

Sillycake · 09/04/2026 21:38

i love beef curtains im lesbian, but there has to be context to it and not just a snap shot of heres my beef

Interesting, I wonder if men feel the same about a random vag pic 🤔 its always been my impression that I could send them a picture of my big toe and they'd reply "i just came, you're so naughty"

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Sartre · 09/04/2026 22:09

No, they’re hideous to look at. Labias are too really but then most women don’t feel the need to take and send pics of them.

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 22:10

LeopardPrintFleece · 09/04/2026 21:46

This has made me laugh so much 🤣 I love my DP and his cock very much but let’s be honest they’re not pretty.

I used to get sent them often in my dating days. One accidentally appeared on my computer screen at work when I plugged my phone in which was a bit of a moment 🫣 My favourite response line which I think I got from MN was to say ‘oh thanks, what is it? It looks like a cock but smaller’ 😊

😭😭😭

Im not one to use MN phrases in real life but my god i am dying to use this one now

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worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 22:11

OriginalSkang · 09/04/2026 21:46

Oh, someone I know in their 60s (a very respectable woman!) received a warning video from a man in his 70s. So grim!

Idk why i thought at the age of 70 men would not be photographing their nobs, but here we are

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Carla786 · 09/04/2026 22:11

worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:08

Genuinely curious if this has ever worked outside of very specific, pre-arranged circumstances. Like is there a secret success rate no one talks about, or is this just the digital equivalent of throwing spaghetti at a wall and hoping it flirts back?

I have never found a dick pic arousing, other than one occassion where the person made slightly more effort for the photo than just a POV shot of their nob. Solicited or unsolicited it just feels like im looking at a penis, and so what

It feels like we’re watching the longest-running group project where no one wants to admit it’s failing. I feel like women typically put a bit more effort into nudes??

Have you ever been turned on by a dick pic?

Idc if im being unreasonable dick pics are just not it

I bet some recipients have - a lot of gay men probably like them because they're men. Genital pics are one of those things that pretty clearly divide the sexes.