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Has anyone ever actually been turned on by a dick pic?

406 replies

worldshottestmom · 09/04/2026 20:08

Genuinely curious if this has ever worked outside of very specific, pre-arranged circumstances. Like is there a secret success rate no one talks about, or is this just the digital equivalent of throwing spaghetti at a wall and hoping it flirts back?

I have never found a dick pic arousing, other than one occassion where the person made slightly more effort for the photo than just a POV shot of their nob. Solicited or unsolicited it just feels like im looking at a penis, and so what

It feels like we’re watching the longest-running group project where no one wants to admit it’s failing. I feel like women typically put a bit more effort into nudes??

Have you ever been turned on by a dick pic?

Idc if im being unreasonable dick pics are just not it

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PermanentTemporary · 11/04/2026 19:39

Yup I like them. I’m obviously the problem. But even I only like them as part of an interaction, not completely out of the blue.

OriginalSkang · 11/04/2026 20:54

Ive been soliciting for dick pics this very day!

From a particular person that is, not random dicks

worldshottestmom · 11/04/2026 21:38

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 11/04/2026 16:31

Yuck. And it’s knob, with a K.
A ‘nob’ is usually a toff or some sort of aristocrat.

I'd argue that it's nob, without a K.
I would use knob for a door knob, a knob of butter.
I've never heard anyone actually use nob to mean aristocrat etc, but I'm aware that's the formal use of the word.
But for 'nob' the slang word for a dick, there isn't any official spelling for it. But everytime I've seen it written, it's 'nob'.

I never thought I would be debating over the spelling of the word nob, but life continues to surprise me

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gannett · 11/04/2026 21:48

Carla786 · 11/04/2026 16:13

I must say I think it's a bit sad that so many women think male genitalia are ugly, just as it would be sad if forums of men were agreeing that vulvas were ugly.
Otoh so many men certainly don't help with this disgusting dick pic obsession..

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I agree with this. I like cocks, I like looking at cocks. It's one thing to not specifically get turned on by a cock visually but I find it incredibly weird that so many supposedly straight women seem repulsed by them.

As for dick pics, not all dick pics are the same. Unsolicited ones are grim conceptually and tend to be unfortunate visually. Solicited ones, or ones from someone you're sleeping with, can be fine things indeed, though a full nude is infinitely preferable to just the dick. (An artfully/erotically posed full nude would be the dream of course, though one I've only received a handful of times in my life.)

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 11/04/2026 22:30

Ileithyia · 11/04/2026 19:33

People actually ask for them??

Well, it went like this. "Do you want me to send a dick pic?" "Yes please!" I probably would have asked if he hadn't offered.

GlitteryRainbow · 11/04/2026 22:57

Ileithyia · 11/04/2026 19:33

People actually ask for them??

Yes, why do you find that so odd?

TheAngryPuxie · 12/04/2026 00:08

Men's genitalia are repulsive to me. I'm not gay, but please.

ElenOfTheWays · 12/04/2026 00:16

It's like flashing it's not supposed to turn you on, it's supposed to intimidate you.
They're getting off on imagining your shock when you receive it

Of course, mostly this doesn't happen either except in their heads.

OriginalSkang · 12/04/2026 10:24

ElenOfTheWays · 12/04/2026 00:16

It's like flashing it's not supposed to turn you on, it's supposed to intimidate you.
They're getting off on imagining your shock when you receive it

Of course, mostly this doesn't happen either except in their heads.

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So if I'm sexting my 'friend' and somewhere along the way there is a dick pic, he's only doing it to shock me?

Ileithyia · 12/04/2026 14:55

GlitteryRainbow · 11/04/2026 22:57

Yes, why do you find that so odd?

Well, because they look so grim in pictures. I’m very happy with them in real life, but not photos.

Wolverine23 · 12/04/2026 14:59

TwistedWonder · 09/04/2026 20:15

With a lot of men it’s not even sexual it’s a power and domination thing.

But no I don’t know any woman who loves seeing a photo of a dick. It’s absolutely grim

Exactly this and the answer is no.

CoffeeCantata · 12/04/2026 15:21

HRTQueen · 11/04/2026 16:57

^ this

unfortunately porn has also lead men to believe, as thy would rather believe porn than reality, that women love to see a dick

like we all love anal sex, being slapped and choked, gagging on their dick, partner spaffing over our face

while I was old a number of men, majority would send a dick pic I reported a few to bumble how have we got to this when men just don’t give a fuck if we feel disrespected

Brilliant post.

Yes - it's the influence of porn on men which has changed so much. I read on here (because I've led a very happily sheltered life) about women who feel co-erced into activities they aren't comfortable with. It's watching porn which makes men think they can expect Ms Average to perform like a professional porn star.

I think porn has perverted sexual relationships in many ways. And it makes men imagine that women are turned on by the sort of things porn actresses pretend to be turned on by. They are pretending - it's their job to flatter male egos and make them think that women are just gagging for it all the time, just as they are, from any flabby, sweaty old scrote who asks.

CoffeeCantata · 12/04/2026 15:24

Carla786 · Yesterday 16:13
I must say I think it's a bit sad that so many women think male genitalia are ugly, just as it would be sad if forums of men were agreeing that vulvas were ugly.
Otoh so many men certainly don't help with this disgusting dick pic obsession..

Can't help it - sorry.

I think genitalia are ugly. I am turned on by faces first, then bodies - but no-one would get far with me if they weren't a decent person with an interesting personality, however gorgeous they are.

Just being honest.

ElenOfTheWays · 12/04/2026 15:27

OriginalSkang · 12/04/2026 10:24

So if I'm sexting my 'friend' and somewhere along the way there is a dick pic, he's only doing it to shock me?

I was referring to unsolicited dick pics tbf.
If you asked for one thats entirely different. Although personally I can't imagine why you'd want to see his naked mole rat 😂
But that's up to you.

MagpiePi · 12/04/2026 15:33

Boudica70 · 11/04/2026 08:22

Hate unsolicited ones. Who wants to see that? Even worse when taken standing up, looking down, and their manky feet are in the shot too! 🤮

We had a student house next to a gay pub and one day found a dick pic Polaroid chucked over the fence into our back garden.
The guy had some of those really nerdy walking sandals on and nothing else.

Jane143 · 12/04/2026 15:52

CoffeeCantata · 12/04/2026 15:21

Brilliant post.

Yes - it's the influence of porn on men which has changed so much. I read on here (because I've led a very happily sheltered life) about women who feel co-erced into activities they aren't comfortable with. It's watching porn which makes men think they can expect Ms Average to perform like a professional porn star.

I think porn has perverted sexual relationships in many ways. And it makes men imagine that women are turned on by the sort of things porn actresses pretend to be turned on by. They are pretending - it's their job to flatter male egos and make them think that women are just gagging for it all the time, just as they are, from any flabby, sweaty old scrote who asks.

I agree. And most of the sex you see in porn is very performative, women have orgasms in a few seconds and very loudly which is not needed either. It just make us ordinary women feel inadequate

Boudica70 · 12/04/2026 16:22

MagpiePi · 12/04/2026 15:33

We had a student house next to a gay pub and one day found a dick pic Polaroid chucked over the fence into our back garden.
The guy had some of those really nerdy walking sandals on and nothing else.

Eurgh.... 🙄😣

Notalotanota2026 · 12/04/2026 16:28

I get turned on from seeing pictures of Black Dick but that's only because it takes me back to some years ago. The best sex ever. He was an extremely handsome, well endowed man from the Caribbean.

Just to note...I'm looking these pictures up on line..no one is sending me them...😅

1988J · 12/04/2026 17:58

Looking for someone to meet

Elsvieta · 12/04/2026 18:39

Yeah, don't get it. I mean, the genitals of either sex, when considered in isolation, are not the prettiest things. Literally any other part of the body looks nicer. Does it even work the other way around? Would a man see a pic of a vagina without seeing the rest of her and think, "Yes, this is a woman I want to meet"? If you're already shagging him and he sends these things because you like it, good luck to you and to him, but no, don't personally get it.

The pervs who send dick pics to people who have given no indication at all that they want them don't do it because they really think she's going to be turned on; they don't think she's going to take one look and say "Your place or mine?". It's digital flashing; designed to alarm and intimidate. The message is "I could rape you". Or "you are there for my sexual gratification and whether you're turned on is a complete irrelevance". They don't think you love it, any more than the flasher showing a schoolgirl his dick in a park thinks she's going to take him behind a tree and suck it. It means: "females, know your place".

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 12/04/2026 18:47

CoffeeCantata · 12/04/2026 15:24

Carla786 · Yesterday 16:13
I must say I think it's a bit sad that so many women think male genitalia are ugly, just as it would be sad if forums of men were agreeing that vulvas were ugly.
Otoh so many men certainly don't help with this disgusting dick pic obsession..

Can't help it - sorry.

I think genitalia are ugly. I am turned on by faces first, then bodies - but no-one would get far with me if they weren't a decent person with an interesting personality, however gorgeous they are.

Just being honest.

It is interesting how many women on this thread have said about men's faces, twinkle in eyes etc.

I just never get that. There are a few male face "types" I find unattractive, like men who have very weak jaws etc - but otherwise faces don't really figure for me at all. I've been attracted to men with boxer-looking/ old broken nose types of looks, nerdy accountant looking men with immaculately shaved chins, and a boy at school who had bad burns scarring.

For me, it's hands, shoulders, and yes cocks, just on their own. I don't find them ugly.

The more I read this thread though, the more I realise I'm in the bottom 5% of the population!

Bunny65 · 12/04/2026 20:10

Each to their own.I cannot imagine anything less erotic, especially unsolicited.

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 12/04/2026 23:19

I can assure you that the man I'm currently having sex with was not doing it to intimidate me, that's why he asked if I wanted him to send it first.

Notalotanota2026 · 13/04/2026 06:23

1988J · 12/04/2026 17:58

Looking for someone to meet

You may well be looking for someone to meet but that does not mean you can private message me, asking me obscene questions.

To make myself crystal clear; internet pictures of BBCs takes me back to fond memories of a gorgeous, Black handsome man that I dearly loved and was fab in bed..Not interested in pics from some rando on MN!

Give your head a fkn wobble! 🤣😅

OriginalSkang · 13/04/2026 09:28

ElenOfTheWays · 12/04/2026 15:27

I was referring to unsolicited dick pics tbf.
If you asked for one thats entirely different. Although personally I can't imagine why you'd want to see his naked mole rat 😂
But that's up to you.

Have you never had a sexy text conversation?

Honestly, my mind boggles on mumsnet sometimes! You can't imagine anyone enjoying sex? Do you throw up when you see one in person? Look the other way?

On mumsnet its like a race to be as sexless as possible. Just laying back and thinking of Britain. Its sad