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Hair too long for age? Chop it off!?

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Skippydoodle · 27/03/2026 16:13

Interested in opinions. Please be patient while image is in review. I’m 52, is this inappropriate, will I end up looking like a witch 😊?

Hair too long for age? Chop it off!?
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Bookmarkers · 28/03/2026 17:53

Here’s mine. Just too ā€˜does its own thing’ to have short.

Hair too long for age? Chop it off!?
MyFairLady22 · 28/03/2026 18:02

I think you have lovely hair. Such a wonderful colour and even though you may not ā€œdoā€ much with it, you could, if you wanted to!

Keep it. I have long hair now, after years of short styles. I get compliments often.

MyFairLady22 · 28/03/2026 18:08
  1. Love my hair. Most of the time, it’s under a cap. It’s not hard work. Don’t dry it, just leave it be. It IS poker straight though and I always wanted curls 🤣
Hair too long for age? Chop it off!?
Bookmarkers · 28/03/2026 18:15

MyFairLady22 · 28/03/2026 18:08

  1. Love my hair. Most of the time, it’s under a cap. It’s not hard work. Don’t dry it, just leave it be. It IS poker straight though and I always wanted curls 🤣

Lovely! You straight haired people don’t know how lucky you are.

Apollonia1 · 28/03/2026 18:46

I’m 54 and have similar length hair.
I’ve always had long hair, but two years ago the hairdresser cut off 10 inches!! I was horrified and the shorter hair didn’t feel like me. I’ve spent two years growing it back, and now realize that almost waist-length (with layers) is my favorite style on me.

bittertwisted · 28/03/2026 18:47

Beautiful hair

MyFairLady22 · 28/03/2026 19:50

Bookmarkers · 28/03/2026 18:15

Lovely! You straight haired people don’t know how lucky you are.

šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚ā˜ŗļø I wanted Farrah Fawcett… never going to happen!

Skippydoodle · 29/03/2026 08:14

Bookmarkers · 28/03/2026 17:53

Here’s mine. Just too ā€˜does its own thing’ to have short.

Absolutely gorgeous curls šŸ’•

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Tamtim · 29/03/2026 08:17

Your hair is gorgeous, don’t cut it. Who decided women shouldn’t have long hair after a certain age? My grandmother had very long hair most of her adult life right up until she died. It was always gorgeous and in beautiful condition.

Dragonscaledaisy · 29/03/2026 08:21

It's beautiful and a perfect length to style in so many ways, if you wanted to. As long as hair is in fabulous condition, long hair looks great at any age.

IloveJonBonJovi · 29/03/2026 08:34

You have gorgeous hair

Empress13 · 29/03/2026 08:36

You have lovely hair and age is but a number but if I were being picky I’d just chop a couple of inches off but that’s just my preference. Same with KM’s hair I think it’s just a tad too long

Notsosweetcaroline · 29/03/2026 08:57

Gosh I’m mid fifties mines Same length, it has never occurred to me I should have it cut off due to my age, how odd.

Notsosweetcaroline · 29/03/2026 10:12

Mine, mid fifties, it’s staying and I see no reason to go short. Lots of older women have long hair now. It’s genuinely never occurred to me I should cut it off.

Hair too long for age? Chop it off!?
EBearhug · 29/03/2026 11:00

I am at a conference and there are plenty of older women with long hair.

summitfever · 29/03/2026 11:01

I’m jealous of how thick it is. Keep it as long as you can

beethecrackon24995 · 29/03/2026 11:15

Don't be daft op. Do what makes you happy..you don't have to follow code. I'm 61 with hair past my waist 😊 I get positive comments when I wear it down.

MyFairLady22 · 29/03/2026 18:52

I don’t think it’s a thing anymore. A few years ago, I got divorced. My hair dropped out in handfuls to the point where my lovely hairdresser started suggesting different styles. It’s the only time I really considered having it cut but stuck a hat on it and hoped for the best ! I’m 63 now. My picture above shows me looking (fairly) stress free and with my hair 75% restored.

OP, do what you’re happy with. It is just hair; it will grow back but don’t let age be the deciding factor.

Disturbia81 · 30/03/2026 12:34

Notsosweetcaroline · 29/03/2026 10:12

Mine, mid fifties, it’s staying and I see no reason to go short. Lots of older women have long hair now. It’s genuinely never occurred to me I should cut it off.

Gorgeous!
I’m intending to keep mine long and will just wear my halo extentions when I want a thicker look.

toomanydicksonthedancefloor1 · 30/03/2026 12:38

Your hair is beautiful, I would show it off with pride if it was mine! Looks lovely and healthy.

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