Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

This “what were you like in the 90’s” trend has made me realise one thing

131 replies

EdinaTheConfessor · 19/03/2026 21:00

How much I hate Iris by the Goo Goo Dolls.
I mean (controversial) I always have. But now I hate it even more.
There I said it.
Am I being unreasonable?

OP posts:
AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 20/03/2026 10:14

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 19/03/2026 22:34

Yes, that is what it makes me think of - self harm. Do people really play it at weddings? The lyrics aren’t exactly romantic are they? I’m baffled.

At one point the most played first dance wedding song was I'll be watching you by The Police, even though it's actually about stalking. Apparently Sting found it hilarious that the couple's never realised what the lyrics meant.

MsRinky · 20/03/2026 10:20

It's a right dirge and I have no recollection of it from the 90s. I also have a distinct lack of photographs other than a couple of blurred snaps from disposable cameras, which is just as well. Memories beat evidence!

Echobelly · 20/03/2026 10:24

YANBU, and given all the awesome music they was in the 90s, to soundtrack that meme with such a dull piece of MOR!

They could have had Nirvana, Primal Scream, Underworld...

UnctuousUnicorns · 20/03/2026 10:28

Devilsmommy · 20/03/2026 10:12

Oh my god consulate menthols. I'd completely forgotten those. My uncle used to smoke them 😂 I started on the b and h gold😅

Berkeley Menthols if I were feeling broke couldn't get Consulate. 🚬 😂

Whosthetabbynow · 20/03/2026 10:30

I got married in ‘98 and I don’t remember the song from that time at all! Just watched on YouTube and of course I know it. Don’t mind it. Wouldn’t be in my list of favourites. Prefer more upbeat stuff from all decades although Unfinished Sympathy is probs the best of the 90s plus Oasis, of course

Lovesplasticstraws · 20/03/2026 10:30

Marlboro menthols had white filters and have been known to be lit at the wrong end.
Happy days.

NooNakedJacuzziness · 20/03/2026 10:30

I loathe all the clips that have a bleeding awful version of Let it Be playing, some rough voiced slowed down abomination. Why do they all choose the same song anyway??

TheRuffleandthePearl · 20/03/2026 10:35

NormasArse · 19/03/2026 23:53

I fostered a baby when that Aerosmith song came out. He was so tiny and fragile (5weeks early). He was on 1 1/2 hourly feeds, so I used to have the music channel on low when I fed him during the night, and that became our song. I dreaded him going; I absolutely adored him.

Anyway, he’s a 26 yr old pain in the arse now ( never left us 🥰) , but I still get teary when I hear that song.

Awww this is lovely.

OrlandointheWilderness · 20/03/2026 10:36

zurigo · 20/03/2026 07:34

God I miss the 90s! Those of us who lived through them never realised how good we had it (plus, I was young and gorgeous 😆)

Everything is so fucking depressing now!!!!

I realise that's not the point of this thread. I don't mind the song. But I really hate 'Sit Down' by James and 'Tubthumping' by Chumbawamba - if either of those intensely irritating songs comes on the radio I instantly turn it off.

With you on this. 😂

UnctuousUnicorns · 20/03/2026 10:36

Lovesplasticstraws · 20/03/2026 10:30

Marlboro menthols had white filters and have been known to be lit at the wrong end.
Happy days.

😂 I seem to recall Consulate having a ring of little turquoise spots to indicate the filter end. Pure class.

TheRuffleandthePearl · 20/03/2026 10:39

Loved the 90s but I feel Iris has become bigger now than it was even then. Dont mind it tbh. Music just felt so much more eclectic then - there was a genre for everyone.

AlexiaH · 20/03/2026 13:19

tequilam0ckingbird · 19/03/2026 21:37

it's awful and I hated it back in the 90s too.

I can't decide whether or not it's worse than Aerosmith's Don't Wanna Miss a Thing 😷

Yessss!! I’m with you on that one! I hate the Aerosmith one more 🤣

WonkyMirror · 20/03/2026 13:24

I hate it too, but the one that takes my most hated song is True by Spandau Ballet, ruined the 80’s!! Absolute dirge both of them.

Grapewrath · 20/03/2026 13:24

I was abroad a lot in the 90s so never really heard it until 2001.
Weirdly I was in a really intense situationship and was having a meltdown about it… I put on some music without realising that my friend left the city of angels CD in my Walkman (lol) and the first song I heard was Iris, for the first time .
It was as though it had been written about that exact situation/ even some of the words said in conversations earlier that day. It was so weird.
Anyeay it’s not a song or band I’d often listen to but I love that song, for that moment in time

Grapewrath · 20/03/2026 13:27

My worst one ever is Angeis by Robbie Williams I fucking hate it

Lovesplasticstraws · 20/03/2026 13:36

You're Gorgeous by Babybird. Absolutely loathe it and all the pastiches of it that were around.

Dersie · 20/03/2026 13:39

Far too ballady, not enough indie for me, hated it then, and even more so now. Lead singer was quite fit though.

DoubleDoubleDown · 20/03/2026 13:46

@ThatCyanCat- You were right!. I knew quite a few of their songs. I really enjoyed the show and I'll be adding some songs to my playlist.

Thechaseison71 · 20/03/2026 14:03

EdinaTheConfessor · 19/03/2026 21:00

How much I hate Iris by the Goo Goo Dolls.
I mean (controversial) I always have. But now I hate it even more.
There I said it.
Am I being unreasonable?

Very It's a great song

EdinaTheConfessor · 20/03/2026 14:10

I can’t believe YABU is winning. I’m bloody not!

OP posts:
Oblivionnnnn · 20/03/2026 14:44

Oh it’s that Mumford and Sons song that’s trending just now that’s doing my head in. In fact it’s giving me A SWIRLING RAAAAAAAAGE.

FirstCuppa · 20/03/2026 14:47

You've all reminded me of some classic 90's pop/rock and I also realised I routinely deliberately changed words! So, and I realise some of this is not PC so apologies, we would sing Asians instead of Angels for Robbie's song and any others (City of Asians etc etc), You're Gormless instead of gorgeous, Just a Little Thrush instead of Crush.

UnctuousUnicorns · 20/03/2026 15:14

FirstCuppa · 20/03/2026 14:47

You've all reminded me of some classic 90's pop/rock and I also realised I routinely deliberately changed words! So, and I realise some of this is not PC so apologies, we would sing Asians instead of Angels for Robbie's song and any others (City of Asians etc etc), You're Gormless instead of gorgeous, Just a Little Thrush instead of Crush.

That's reminding me of the James Blunt spoof:

You're gullible, you're gullible, it's true.
You saw my face, on a CD case,
And you knew just what to do.
Now you own a coaster too.

😅

Dersie · 20/03/2026 19:44

Far too ballady, not enough indie for me, hated it then, and even more so now. Lead singer was quite fit though.

UnctuousUnicorns · 20/03/2026 19:47

Dersie · 20/03/2026 19:44

Far too ballady, not enough indie for me, hated it then, and even more so now. Lead singer was quite fit though.

You just said that! ☝️