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Racism in uk

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Charltonstrek · 18/03/2026 10:30

Im finding the level of racism here in the UK to be very unsettling and it seems to be getting worse and im finding it depressing as I have a Muslim partner and I wonder if there is a future here for him. Ive mostly witnessed this on social media with some very derogatory comments anybody else or am I too sensitive

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nomoreforks · 18/03/2026 21:08

I think you are right OP although the biggest thing I have noticed on SM is the level of hatred towards Jewish people (not Israelis).

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 21:14

nomoreforks · 18/03/2026 21:08

I think you are right OP although the biggest thing I have noticed on SM is the level of hatred towards Jewish people (not Israelis).

Why does OPs distress not be supported in its own right. Why do you feel the need to suggest that Jews have it worse.

If an OP on another thread was talking about domestic violence, would it be necessary to say 'that's sad however some husbands are even worse than yours!'

nomas · 18/03/2026 21:18

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 21:07

It's interesting that's MN deleted my post which was no way anti semitic! I had pointed out that the thread was being detailed by @Bringemout for suggesting that Jews (according to her evidence) get more hate crime than Muslims and I suggested that it wasn't a race to the bottom. I am unsure why my post was deleted tbh! Every statement isn't anti-semitic and such accusations are designed to shut people down.

I don't know why whenever there is anything said about the islamophobia that someone will soon enough come along and say 'hang on, you don't have it as bad as the Jews!'.

That’s what I thought, I was here for the start of the thread and I don’t remember you saying anything anti-Semitic at all.

Hoardasurass · 18/03/2026 21:20

nomas · 18/03/2026 20:42

Asylum seekers do want to work, living on £9.95 a week is not a life.

I'm not saying that it is however for those who come here legally and jump through the ridiculously expensive system to get idl its a real kick in the teeth

Firstbornunicorn · 18/03/2026 21:28

Pineneedlesincarpet · 18/03/2026 16:58

But its Jewish people that are suffering racism in this country. Not Israelis.

Yeah, I also think it's racist to conflate the actions of Israel with the Jewish people, in much the same way it would be racist (or, more likely, sectarian) to conflate the actions of the Italian government with all Catholics.

But there is a lot of "this person thinks Neyanyahu should stop bombing preschoolers, so they are anti-Semitic" in the media, to be honest. Which I also think is anti-Semitic, so the argument eats its own tail.

Clavinova · 18/03/2026 21:50

Spidey66 · 18/03/2026 21:03

I don’t know if there’s an increase in racism generally or whether SM is making it more obvious and people feel more confident (not sure if that’s really the best word but can’t think of a better term) expressing their views online.

as an example….a report came through on my FB feed about a young guy who was missing. The police were concerned because he was vulnerable and didn’t have essential medication. He also happened to be Black. Some of the comments were vile….
’he doesn’t look vulnerable’
’probably just off the boats’
’have they checked the posh hotels?’
’I hope there aren’t any Taylor Swift events’
’Hope he’s gone back to Africa’

Another one on YouTube….a group of people were trying to enter hotels being used to asylum seekers ‘because we’re funding this as taxpayers so we have the right to enter the premises’.

I made several objections to these comments, the first one I said this guy could well be British, his family could have been here for generations. The essential medication could be insulin or anticonvulsants, he could be vulnerable because of mental health issues, a learning disability or whatever. The second example I said hospitals and schools are also funded by taxpayers but you don’t have the right to wander into a delivery room or operating theatre. People are entitled to privacy ffs. I’ve said things like ‘My parents were Irish, should I be sent to Ireland even though I’ve never lived there, or can I stay in the UK cos I’m white?’ I’ve also said ‘Cliff Richard was born in India, should he be living in the UK and be a British citizen?’ (According to them ‘being born in a stable doesn’t make you a horse’ so all Black people need to go back to Africa, cos of course that’s where all non white people come from.Confused But no I’m a bleeding heart liberal.

I’ve just stopped looking at the videos and/or the comments.

im nearly 60 and have lived through the NF, police racism, racist shows like the Black & White Minstrel Show etc etc and you’d hope people would learn but it seems that too many people have been influenced by the likes of Trump, Farage and Tommy Robinson and the far right appear to have taken over.

I’ve said things like ‘My parents were Irish, should I be sent to Ireland even though I’ve never lived there, or can I stay in the UK cos I’m white?’ I’ve also said ‘Cliff Richard was born in India, should he be living in the UK and be a British citizen?’ (According to them ‘being born in a stable doesn’t make you a horse’ so all Black people need to go back to Africa, cos of course that’s where all non white people come from

I've just looked up Cliff Richard's time in India. Interestingly;

The Webbs knew no home other than India but it was the mid-40s and independence for India was looming. The only question was ‘when’.

Nationalist tensions were at their peak and Turner in his biography mentions an incident where Cliff’s mother was heckled on the street during the ‘Direct Action’ called by the Muslim League. “Go back to your own country, white woman!” someone shouted at her.

https://www.livehistoryindia.com/story/snapshort-histories-making-of-modern-india/cliff-richard

Britain and Ireland have what is known as the Common Travel Area (established in the 1920s) which allows British and Irish citizens to move freely, live and work in either country.

MissyB1 · 18/03/2026 22:06

KatiePricesKnickers · 18/03/2026 19:43

3,000 people, the VAST majority Muslims, in the center of London, celebrating the end of Ramadan. Why?
It’s a religious celebration, not a political display. Why not in mosques or at home?

So what? How did it hurt you?

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 22:23

I worked elsewhere in Europe with refugees in the past and the number of Iraqi’s claiming to be Christians fleeing persecution makes me think Iraqi isn’t a good place to be a Christian. I wasn’t convinced they were Christian tbh more using any excuse to get out of living in tough conditions in Iraq, but they were bloody lovely, intelligent, jolly people so I didn’t really care.

SugarC · 19/03/2026 06:33

I also find many people spouting "we are a christian nation" and "we are under threat from muslims" - I also ask those individuals "when was the last time you stepped foot inside of a church or got involved in a compassion project?" (such as feeding the homeless, helping the less fortunate etc) the answer is nearly always the same.
The only way you will keep your traditions alive is to live them yourself and to encourage others. True believers (who have read scripture) live like Jesus. A lot of the radical right would have Jesus deported if he ever came back.
I have never met a Jewish or Muslim person who wasn't kind. Maybe I have just been lucky? You get bad eggs in all groups of people.

nomas · 19/03/2026 06:56

Clavinova · 18/03/2026 21:50

I’ve said things like ‘My parents were Irish, should I be sent to Ireland even though I’ve never lived there, or can I stay in the UK cos I’m white?’ I’ve also said ‘Cliff Richard was born in India, should he be living in the UK and be a British citizen?’ (According to them ‘being born in a stable doesn’t make you a horse’ so all Black people need to go back to Africa, cos of course that’s where all non white people come from

I've just looked up Cliff Richard's time in India. Interestingly;

The Webbs knew no home other than India but it was the mid-40s and independence for India was looming. The only question was ‘when’.

Nationalist tensions were at their peak and Turner in his biography mentions an incident where Cliff’s mother was heckled on the street during the ‘Direct Action’ called by the Muslim League. “Go back to your own country, white woman!” someone shouted at her.

https://www.livehistoryindia.com/story/snapshort-histories-making-of-modern-india/cliff-richard

Britain and Ireland have what is known as the Common Travel Area (established in the 1920s) which allows British and Irish citizens to move freely, live and work in either country.

Can you not understand that they were a subjugated people rising up against British rule?

It’s a shame when innocents are caught up in conflict.

teletubbyy · 19/03/2026 07:06

It’s because immigration is out of control that racism seems to have become more prevalent. How many young men are we going to keep letting into this country for them to just sell drugs, sign on and then assault young girls ? I have no issue with immigrants who come here and work, who put into the country, who make an effort to speak the language. My issue is with these men that come here to abuse the system and then break the law.

nomas · 19/03/2026 07:56

teletubbyy · 19/03/2026 07:06

It’s because immigration is out of control that racism seems to have become more prevalent. How many young men are we going to keep letting into this country for them to just sell drugs, sign on and then assault young girls ? I have no issue with immigrants who come here and work, who put into the country, who make an effort to speak the language. My issue is with these men that come here to abuse the system and then break the law.

Blaming it on immigration just excuses racists.

You can campaign against immigration without being racist.

Naunet · 19/03/2026 08:11

Busybeemumm · 18/03/2026 21:14

Why does OPs distress not be supported in its own right. Why do you feel the need to suggest that Jews have it worse.

If an OP on another thread was talking about domestic violence, would it be necessary to say 'that's sad however some husbands are even worse than yours!'

If women post about misogyny, we're usually told 'not all men'. Apparently that means its all ok. Funny how that's never used in any other setting. Not all whites, so its all ok people.

LassiKopiano24 · 19/03/2026 08:13

KatiePricesKnickers · 18/03/2026 20:57

Why would I want to visit a mosque? Or any religious building? Religion is really a relic of the Middle Ages, or earlier.
I don’t see Hindus, Jews or Christians occupying the capital city’s most prominent square.
Then again, Hindus, Jews and Christians are not trying to convert the world to their faith, by any means necessary.

A lot of people will now wake up and open their eyes to the growth of Islam.

Just say you don’t like Muslims and be done with it your hatred for them is really shining through.

I’m in London and live alongside and work with many Muslims, not one has ever tried to convert me in 30+ years.

Who cares if they were gathered together in Trafalgar Sq, do you object to China Town which is just around the corner?

Hoardasurass · 19/03/2026 08:18

nomas · 19/03/2026 07:56

Blaming it on immigration just excuses racists.

You can campaign against immigration without being racist.

You cant campaign against immigration without being called a far right racist whether you are either far right or racist or not.
When everyone who questions or campaigns against illegal immigration is smeared with the same brush it drives people towards racism and the far right as they can see ordinary non racists like themselves smeared as far right racists so they start to listen to the people who are rightly called far right and/or racist assuming that they are also being wrongly smeared. All to soon being called far right and/or racist become meaningless in the same way that transphobia has become a meaningless word as everything is transphobic

Dollymylove · 19/03/2026 08:19

Lugol · 18/03/2026 20:12

Yes. And the same in France. I have spoken to people who have lived in France for 20 years and don't speak French.

And they are ignorant as fuck.

Same with anyone who moves to a country that is not their language and don't bother to learn it.

I bet they have to pay for their own interpreters though don't they !!

Naunet · 19/03/2026 08:20

nomas · 18/03/2026 20:42

Asylum seekers do want to work, living on £9.95 a week is not a life.

Its a better life than they had, or they wouldn't be coming here, would they? How much more do you think British tax payers should be doing for them? Paying them £50 a week? £100? And that's on top of the dental bills (funny how I've not been able to get an NHS dentist for years, nor has anyone in my family), health care, food, housing, legal costs, phone bills. We really are a bunch of bastards arent we?

inamarina · 19/03/2026 08:21

nomas · 18/03/2026 19:51

This is hilarious. People accuse Muslims of not integrating and when Muslims put on event inviting all communities to share food, you still moan.

How exactly is a massive display of your own culture/ religious beliefs in a host country automatically a sign of integration?

CharSiu · 19/03/2026 08:22

I experienced racism growing up as a Chinese kid in an area where myself and 4 others were the only kids out of a thousand at our school who were not white.

It’s pretty obvious to me that anti Muslim rhetoric rose after 9/11 and then after 7/7.

There is also the oppression of women being expected to dress a certain way.

When my Dad arrived as an immigrant he wasn’t an asylum seeker and had papers that clearly showed who he was. He also arrived with plenty of money to open a restaurant, no hand outs received.

It’s all about economics for me and really that’s at the root of many concerns about immigration. I do not like the rise in asylum seekers. Guilt tripped white Liberals are always the most pro asylum seekers supporters. My MIL is like this, she lives in an incredibly rich part of Surrey and is never going to have to worry about an HMO being next to her. White guilt will destroy the West because as a knee jerk response it has fuelled the rise of the Right, not Conservatism the actual extreme right.

5128gap · 19/03/2026 08:25

teletubbyy · 19/03/2026 07:06

It’s because immigration is out of control that racism seems to have become more prevalent. How many young men are we going to keep letting into this country for them to just sell drugs, sign on and then assault young girls ? I have no issue with immigrants who come here and work, who put into the country, who make an effort to speak the language. My issue is with these men that come here to abuse the system and then break the law.

No, I think immigration is an excuse. How many illegal immigrants are actually young men on benefits who sell drugs and assault young women? And even if it was the reality, how does that explain the anti Muslim sentiment we are seeing directed at Muslims in general?
On this thread alone we've had people moaning about Muslim children having a day less education because they celebrate Eid. Tall stories objecting to women swimming in burkas and toddlers in hijab, which funnily enough only anti Muslims ever seem to see. We've had calls to ban Muslim women from covering their hair, to prevent Muslims congregating peacefully in public. Communities call 'ghettos'. People falsely accused of not speaking English and stats disproving that ignored. Positive accounts of Muslim communities ignored. People claiming that there's a conspiracy with the government to ban people from religious freedom and force convert us all to Islam.
None of this is due to a genuine concern about immigration. Its Islamophobia that these individuals have kept under wraps until the immigration issue emboldened them to reveal themselves.

Gloriia · 19/03/2026 08:25

'All to soon being called far right and/or racist become meaningless in the same way that transphobia has become a meaningless word as everything is transphobic'

This is true. Criticise something and you are immediately labelled a bigot or a 'racist' or a 'phobe'.

It is bizarre how stating that we don't want thousands of young, fighting age men entering the country illegally from places full of warped ideology and extremists means we are racist.

AllieDeCorbeau · 19/03/2026 08:30

Muslim isn’t a race, it’s a religion, first of all. Second pointing out that certain groups are having a negative impact as a whole does not mean that every member of that group is horrible. I’m sure your partner is lovely but that doesn’t mean we should ignore the problems caused by the group on the whole.

5128gap · 19/03/2026 08:46

Hoardasurass · 19/03/2026 08:18

You cant campaign against immigration without being called a far right racist whether you are either far right or racist or not.
When everyone who questions or campaigns against illegal immigration is smeared with the same brush it drives people towards racism and the far right as they can see ordinary non racists like themselves smeared as far right racists so they start to listen to the people who are rightly called far right and/or racist assuming that they are also being wrongly smeared. All to soon being called far right and/or racist become meaningless in the same way that transphobia has become a meaningless word as everything is transphobic

No, I'm not buying that. There's a massive difference between an objective concern about the number of immigrants coming into the country, the difficulties in supporting them and how viable that is, and the sort of comments we've seen on this thread alone. People have not been discussing immigrants, they've been discussing Muslims in general, applying negative stereotypes and fear mongering hyperbole.
To suggest the people calling out this as the Islamophobia it is are responsible for creating far right racists is as ridiculous as suggesting women calling out male VAWG are responsible for a rise in misogyny, and simply a way to silence anti racists. Just as the accusations of transphobia and misandry are used to silence feminists.

thisishap274 · 19/03/2026 09:11

CharSiu · 19/03/2026 08:22

I experienced racism growing up as a Chinese kid in an area where myself and 4 others were the only kids out of a thousand at our school who were not white.

It’s pretty obvious to me that anti Muslim rhetoric rose after 9/11 and then after 7/7.

There is also the oppression of women being expected to dress a certain way.

When my Dad arrived as an immigrant he wasn’t an asylum seeker and had papers that clearly showed who he was. He also arrived with plenty of money to open a restaurant, no hand outs received.

It’s all about economics for me and really that’s at the root of many concerns about immigration. I do not like the rise in asylum seekers. Guilt tripped white Liberals are always the most pro asylum seekers supporters. My MIL is like this, she lives in an incredibly rich part of Surrey and is never going to have to worry about an HMO being next to her. White guilt will destroy the West because as a knee jerk response it has fuelled the rise of the Right, not Conservatism the actual extreme right.

Totally agree with this. The immigrants of the 60's/70's have in general done really well (it was the poor white working class we felt sorry for) - how is that remotely possible in a "racist" country?

Hoardasurass · 19/03/2026 09:15

5128gap · 19/03/2026 08:46

No, I'm not buying that. There's a massive difference between an objective concern about the number of immigrants coming into the country, the difficulties in supporting them and how viable that is, and the sort of comments we've seen on this thread alone. People have not been discussing immigrants, they've been discussing Muslims in general, applying negative stereotypes and fear mongering hyperbole.
To suggest the people calling out this as the Islamophobia it is are responsible for creating far right racists is as ridiculous as suggesting women calling out male VAWG are responsible for a rise in misogyny, and simply a way to silence anti racists. Just as the accusations of transphobia and misandry are used to silence feminists.

The simple fact is even on this thread where some posters are bringing up the level of immigration and the problems its causing they are being called racist, far right reform voters etc.
Yes some of the comments are borderline anti Islam (any actual islamaphobia would have been deleted) but the accusations of racism and far right reform voters is thrown at everyone.
It might not fit with the far left narrative but its true when you lie and smear everyone who disagrees with you as phobic, bigoted, racist or far right you create a situation where those words become meaningless and drive people who would normally be left wing or centrist to the right and far right. The far left are driving the rise in racism that the far right are exploiting.
Maybe if the far left would stop all the name calling and abusive tactics and actually listened to the valid concerns of most people we could come to a reasonable solution that didn't involve open borders or removal of all immigrants. But until the far left stop all the smear campaigns and violent disorder they will keep creating the far right problems

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