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AIBU?

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To be annoyed at partner booking a trip…

339 replies

inkyspells · 24/02/2026 18:10

I have wanted to go away for ages but due partners work we have to wait till June for our main holiday.
Today he texts me saying he has booked 2 nights in Gran Canaria next weekend.
We don’t get there till 5pm Saturday and come home 5pm monday.
What is the point
The flights were only £40 return but still ridiculous
Aibu to be annoyed ?

OP posts:
EvangelineTheNightStar · 24/02/2026 18:11

Don’t go then?

WeepingAngelInTheTardis · 24/02/2026 18:12

Don’t go then? You sound so spoilt.

plentyofsunshine · 24/02/2026 18:17

dont go then

ErlingHaalandsManBun · 24/02/2026 18:17

Wait so he has booked the weekend for you both to go together?

If he has then YABU and a little bit ungrateful.

But if you don't want to go then don't, I am sure your partner can find someone else to take who will be grateful of a couple of nights away.

Edited to add that its not really a big deal having to wait until June for your main holiday. You sound spoilt!

Burningbud1981 · 24/02/2026 18:18

I’ll go

EvangelineTheNightStar · 24/02/2026 18:18

Burningbud1981 · 24/02/2026 18:18

I’ll go

Or me!!

Sirzy · 24/02/2026 18:18

So he knows you have been desperate to get away so he has arranged it? How awful!

EvangelineTheNightStar · 24/02/2026 18:19

Sirzy · 24/02/2026 18:18

So he knows you have been desperate to get away so he has arranged it? How awful!

Absolutely! No one said LTB yet?

TheToteBagLady · 24/02/2026 18:19

So your only full day there is Sunday?

I would be annoyed too.

ErlingHaalandsManBun · 24/02/2026 18:20

TheToteBagLady · 24/02/2026 18:19

So your only full day there is Sunday?

I would be annoyed too.

Well you would get Saturday evening, all day Sunday, Sunday evening and Monday morning. Plenty of time to have a nice weekend.

How can someone be annoyed by someone trying to do something nice for you? Beggars belief.

rubyslippers · 24/02/2026 18:21

Awww go! It will be silly and fun
youll see the sun for 48 hours
blisssss

apeaceful2026 · 24/02/2026 18:21

That sounds absolutely rubbish.

That's eight hours of flying, plus getting to and from the airport twice, and waiting at the airport......for one day in the sun.

Keenbean22 · 24/02/2026 18:21

I would be really happy!

Hollowvoice · 24/02/2026 18:21

So he knew you wanted a break and went ahead and arranged one?
LTB obvs

ColinOfficeTrolley · 24/02/2026 18:22

Id think woohoo, bring on the Sangria!! 2 nights, 1 full day. Cheap hotel, cheap food, then another morning in the sunshine?

What a lovely surprise for you.

What are you so pissed off about?

Sartre · 24/02/2026 18:22

Strange choice of destination for a weekend trip tbh. Most would do city breaks, Gran Canaria is an all inclusive week long sort of trip surely.

Cat1504 · 24/02/2026 18:23

I wouldn’t go….couldn’t be arsed with all the travelling for 1 full day

HolidayPlanningAgain · 24/02/2026 18:24

Lovely evening meal Sat, all day in the sunshine Sunday, lunch before heading back to the airport Monday.. sounds horrific 🙄
unless there is a drip feed that you don’t like flying, had a traumatic experience in Gran Canaria previously I can’t see the problem, I’d be thanking him and quickly digging through my holiday clothes to decide what I’m wearing.

TheWildZebra · 24/02/2026 18:24

I think you’ll get a lot of stick here, it sounds to me more tiring than a break.

surely a sensible thing would have been to just book somewhere in the UK where you don’t have to travel for hours and hours to get to?

seems like a kind thought, but badly planned out.

SargeMarge · 24/02/2026 18:25

Sartre · 24/02/2026 18:22

Strange choice of destination for a weekend trip tbh. Most would do city breaks, Gran Canaria is an all inclusive week long sort of trip surely.

It’s enough time for a nice late dinner on Saturday, then I’d book one if the sea kayaking trips for the Sunday, and enjoy the rest of the day exploring then Mondays you’ve time for a nice lunch before heading away. It’s a little adventure and a change of scene from home. OP is being spoilt and rude.

TwistedWonder · 24/02/2026 18:26

I’ve gone away for a day before and I’m going to Pisa on Saturday flying home late same night .

I would love a weekend abroad - hes done a lovely thing and imo you’re being a brat

Cat1504 · 24/02/2026 18:26

Keenbean22 · 24/02/2026 18:21

I would be really happy!

No offence but you must be easily pleased….or holiday deprived…..I mean 8 hours travel on Saturday and another 8 hours travel on Monday….could you be arsed? I go on lots of short breaks …but never less than 3 nights if going abroad….just not worth the hassle

NewZebra · 24/02/2026 18:27

Personally that would be way too much faff for so little time actually there, I wouldn’t be keen either.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/02/2026 18:29

I’ve just got back from Gran Canaria. It was a really nice break but i thought it was a long journey even for our 5 night break (obviously I could see how long it would be before I left, but knowing it and seeing how it feels are different)

I don’t think it would be worth the travelling for two nights.

CharlieEffie · 24/02/2026 18:29

Waiting till june for your "main" holiday- what a chore! Most people have to wait till summer for their only holiday 🙄. Well i would rather 2 nights 2 day in the sun than another raining weekend at home. Do you realise how spoilt and entitled you sound. I feel sorry for your partner, dont go and let him have a nice weekend by himself

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