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Despite his villainous behaviour, anyone feel a teeny bit sorry for Andrew?

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busymomtoone · 19/02/2026 21:55

Before I get totally flamed, I despise his attitude, and the things he appears to have done - particularly the subsequent lying and apparent determination to shield/ hide misdemeanours. However, seeing the photo of his release today looking a broken man after such huge public downfall , plus thinking of him going back to an empty house on his birthday with no family support - even though I initially felt he deserves every indignity and consequence - there’s still a teeny part of me that just can’t help feeling just a little bit sorry for him. If it’s true that he was taken to a brothel at age 11 , whilst it would in no way excuse abusing others , it means he has also been a victim of abuse. Additionally it seems the Queen and his entourage have never ever said no to him in his whole life- so to reach his 7th decade before any consequences hit makes me question how resilient he will be able to be. Obviously main sympathies are always rightly with any victims , but even the most hardened and perpetual criminals often retain family support, he seems to have nobody. ( albeit if his own making ) or am I just being too soft?!

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ThiagoJones · 21/02/2026 08:14

FairKoala · 21/02/2026 07:49

It doesn’t look like a boob unless your boobs have felt butterflies attached

There are no felt butterflies

Notmenothere · 21/02/2026 09:00

FairKoala · 21/02/2026 07:49

It doesn’t look like a boob unless your boobs have felt butterflies attached

There are no butterflies attached. Those are the child’s hands.

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 09:00

Namechangedforgoodreasons · 21/02/2026 06:32

The way Andrew talks, or the way other Epstein friends/associates talk? If the latter, is he included in the conversations? I hold Andrew in contempt and have no wish to defend him, but I am not comfortable with the lynch-mob rush to blame him for the words or actions of others unless we know for sure that he knew about them and continued his friendship regardless.

Why was that woman paid off?

Womaninhouse17 · 21/02/2026 09:04

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 09:00

Why was that woman paid off?

Exactly. You don't hand over £12 million for no reason. I can see that it would avoid awkward scrutiny and publicity but even so...

WineBeforeWhine · 21/02/2026 09:28

simpsonthecat · 20/02/2026 21:28

Who is bullying?

It’s all over social media. Cartoons, even a meme saying his family will be sad about the car accident next week. Etc
Im not defending him, just saying his mental state may need keeping an eye on.

IdentityCris · 21/02/2026 09:31

BlimeyOReillyO · 20/02/2026 09:16

He’s thick? Really? I thought he had a PHD and served in the RN?

PhD? Where do you get that from?

FolioQuarto · 21/02/2026 09:36

Nope. He made choices and only has himself to blame.

If there is any evidence that any of his family or staff suspected his behaviour and enabled it rather than reporting him then they also deserve what should be coming to them.

FourCheese · 21/02/2026 09:38

I understand where you’re coming from op. The level of media attention is unprecedented, it’s not just national news but global. On a personal level, it’s got to be overwhelming to be hated by everyone.

However, he knew he was a prince when he was doing wrong things and associating with a sex offender (and allowing the sex offender to take compromising photos that implicated him).

He thought he was above what is expected of normal people.

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 09:41

FourCheese · 21/02/2026 09:38

I understand where you’re coming from op. The level of media attention is unprecedented, it’s not just national news but global. On a personal level, it’s got to be overwhelming to be hated by everyone.

However, he knew he was a prince when he was doing wrong things and associating with a sex offender (and allowing the sex offender to take compromising photos that implicated him).

He thought he was above what is expected of normal people.

I don't think it's unprecedented given that it's a member of the Royal family that's been arrested

FourCheese · 21/02/2026 09:43

scottishgirl69 · 21/02/2026 09:41

I don't think it's unprecedented given that it's a member of the Royal family that's been arrested

Well no, I’m speaking about how it feels for him. And I clearly mention he would have known this would happen.

Discoated · 21/02/2026 09:44

FourCheese · 21/02/2026 09:38

I understand where you’re coming from op. The level of media attention is unprecedented, it’s not just national news but global. On a personal level, it’s got to be overwhelming to be hated by everyone.

However, he knew he was a prince when he was doing wrong things and associating with a sex offender (and allowing the sex offender to take compromising photos that implicated him).

He thought he was above what is expected of normal people.

Anything involving the BRF generates huge global media interest. See also, Diana, Harry, Meghan.

FourCheese · 21/02/2026 09:45

Discoated · 21/02/2026 09:44

Anything involving the BRF generates huge global media interest. See also, Diana, Harry, Meghan.

I know.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 21/02/2026 09:51

BunfightBetty · 20/02/2026 21:47

Yes, this.

Andrew deserves this, by the sound of it, but why is it that the only two high profile people being investigated are British?

Why aren't the Americans investigating their people? Trump etc seem to be feeling immune.

They're being investigated for offences committed in British law/things that are contrary to the interests of the UK. And in the course of those investigations, the searches of paperwork, emails, call logs and the like may reveal other information and evidence that could expand the range of people.

A way of looking at it would be that they've provided two handy weak spots - first Mandelson and then, possibly through something in his investigation, they've found things that made it feasible to arrest AMW and do the same.

Once it leaps over to Chinese interests, then the bit people are talking about - the sexual behaviour, foul though it is - will fall by the wayside due to the implications for national security.

Pepperlee · 21/02/2026 09:52

Notmenothere · 21/02/2026 09:00

There are no butterflies attached. Those are the child’s hands.

My eyes aren't the best but I can see the hands.

Discoated · 21/02/2026 10:04

Pepperlee · 21/02/2026 09:52

My eyes aren't the best but I can see the hands.

The butterfly comments are ridiculous.

Government considers removing Andrew from royal line of succession. This should be a priority now.

TheKeatingFive · 21/02/2026 10:07

Discoated · 21/02/2026 10:04

The butterfly comments are ridiculous.

Government considers removing Andrew from royal line of succession. This should be a priority now.

This is quite the move. When was the last time this happened?

Notonthestairs · 21/02/2026 10:13

Discoated · 21/02/2026 10:04

The butterfly comments are ridiculous.

Government considers removing Andrew from royal line of succession. This should be a priority now.

They won’t introduce legislation to remove Andrew from the line of succession until the police investigation (and any court case) is concluded. I imagine that is months/years away.

topcat2014 · 21/02/2026 10:15

I have genuinely turned republican over this, and I've been monarchist all my life. I'm fed up of being one of the little people.

Just kick them all out and elect Tony Blair instead and be done with it :)
(You know he'd put his hat in the ring..)

topcat2014 · 21/02/2026 10:17

In much the same way as Matt Hancock (the affair bit) stopped me seeing the best in politicians. I felt a bit sorry for him during covid as I thought he was hard working / genuine. (he's just a bit younger than me).

I'm not going to spend the rest of my live being as naive an gullible.

topcat2014 · 21/02/2026 10:17

If they cut Andrew off presumably the ones below him go as well?

Pedallleur · 21/02/2026 10:17

Article in The Guardian today in which it says that Charles tried to stop the Trade Envoy role as it was 'a disaster waiting to happen'
PhD??? Maybe Doctor of Privilege.

BoxingHare · 21/02/2026 11:11

topcat2014 · 21/02/2026 10:15

I have genuinely turned republican over this, and I've been monarchist all my life. I'm fed up of being one of the little people.

Just kick them all out and elect Tony Blair instead and be done with it :)
(You know he'd put his hat in the ring..)

Not enough people would vote for him for a start.

In an ideal world, former PMs would be barred from applying.

A presidency shouldn't be seen as the "next step" for power hungry people.

BeanQuisine · 21/02/2026 11:41

He would have cheered up once he got home and stuffed himself with birthday cake and gin.

"Those coppers think they're better than me," he would have mumbled, shovelling in another slice, "but they have to shine their own shoes!"

"Shine their own fucking shoes, can you imagine?" And he would have sprayed cake everywhere while bursting into weird laughter, and raising his middle finger at an imaginary "copper".

LizzieW1969 · 21/02/2026 11:55

BoxingHare · 21/02/2026 11:11

Not enough people would vote for him for a start.

In an ideal world, former PMs would be barred from applying.

A presidency shouldn't be seen as the "next step" for power hungry people.

Or any politicians at all. Imagine if we ended up with President Farage.

Rumpoleoftheballet · 21/02/2026 13:38

Strngerthings · 19/02/2026 23:23

but andrew was never convicted of it, so therefore he is not

Nor was Jimmy Saville so in your world, do the same rules apply to him?