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Husband licks his dinner plate after eating

227 replies

letmeeatcakes · 17/02/2026 19:34

Not every meal and only when we have our family dinner but sometimes when he has finished eating he will pick his plate up and lick it clean!! I find this totally gross and have told him but this time i told him he was worse than a dog. My daughter thinks my comments were callous!! AIBU and just let him do this if it makes him happy? Only does it at home!

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EdwinStarrTheBackStreetsNSoul · 17/02/2026 20:21

That made my stomach flip..🤮
As said in Doric dialect NE Scotland.
Gads min!!

Talkingtomyhouseplants · 17/02/2026 20:27

I flipping love licking the plate - all the nice sauce just sitting there, can’t let it go to waste. Obviously not at restaurants or in polite company but I think it’s fine when you’re just at home.

tinyspiny · 17/02/2026 20:28

That is gross

ViciousCurrentBun · 17/02/2026 20:30

I would put his dinner in a trough in the garden.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/02/2026 20:31

If it upsets you he shouldn't do it.

If you don't mind if you can't see, he shouldn't do it where you can't see.

He's an idiot if he carries on. These things give you the ick.

Ohfudgeoff · 17/02/2026 20:32

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 17/02/2026 19:41

Did he do this before you got married? If he did, why did you marry him!!?

LTB 😆

abracadabra1980 · 17/02/2026 20:34

He has children-they need to learn from a better role model with more emotional intelligence.

BubbleFree · 17/02/2026 20:35

My dogs would look ashamed if they were caught trying to lick a plate. I’d find plate licking revolting and couldn’t sit and watch that, he’d be told in no uncertain terms how disgusting he is. I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who has manners like this.

TheFairyCaravan · 17/02/2026 20:37

That’s absolutely disgusting.

How the hell are you still married?

PersimmonsAreNotTheOnlyFruit · 17/02/2026 20:39

That is feral. I could not stay married to someone with such appalling table manners.

Merseymum1980 · 17/02/2026 20:40

I had a friend that did this after ribs. Ive never eaten ribs since yuk

Metalguruisitu · 17/02/2026 20:41

Mine drinks the last milk out of his cereal bowl! I have told him if he’d done it when we first met there woukd have been no 2nd date!

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 17/02/2026 20:43

My partner's XW and her family do that even in restaurants. It's absolutely vile.

Sophieispissedoffnow · 17/02/2026 20:46

What’s wrong with that?

Muffsies · 17/02/2026 20:48

Sophieispissedoffnow · 17/02/2026 20:46

What’s wrong with that?

Exactly, it's cute. He loves his dinner!

SliceofTosst · 17/02/2026 20:48

My dh asked me if I'd mind if he licked his plate when there was loads of sauce once. As he asked I didn't mind. Still does it now but has good table maners with others or out and about so don't mind.

Nofeckingway · 17/02/2026 20:48

Just say No

Sophieispissedoffnow · 17/02/2026 20:49

Muffsies · 17/02/2026 20:48

Exactly, it's cute. He loves his dinner!

Wouldn’t like him farting in my presence but licking plate is fine with me.

Moonlightfrog · 17/02/2026 20:52

I do this sometimes ….luckily I don’t have a partner…maybe that’s why?

I think there’s a time and a place. If you don’t like it then he probably shouldn’t do it in front of you.

OhDear111 · 17/02/2026 20:53

Is he a dog in disguise? Yuk. Total yuk. Does his mother know he does this? What sort of upbringing has he had? I’d never have married him. Ugh!

HugoThatway · 17/02/2026 20:53

I occasionally lick my plate but I wouldn't do it in company.
The cat is disgusted by it.

FieryA · 17/02/2026 20:53

I think you were humiliating calling your husband a dog in front of your daughter. I am sure posters wouldn't take that kindly if genders were reversed- they would call it verbal abuse.
Why can't he eat the way he wishes in his own house? He doesn't do it always and doesn't do in public. I think you are extremely rude.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 17/02/2026 20:54

That’s disgusting.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 17/02/2026 20:54

HugoThatway · 17/02/2026 20:53

I occasionally lick my plate but I wouldn't do it in company.
The cat is disgusted by it.

How does the cat show its disgust?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 17/02/2026 20:55

Oh no, that is disgusting.