What on earth? In my post you quoted, I heavily implied I'd had one night stands, I've also explicitly said in a post just above that I've had many one night stands in my mis-spent youth, and you'll notice in my post a bit further above, quoted by Barnbrack, that I said 'our' several times, implying that yes, I was one of those people. What is it with people's terrible reading comprehension?
I was in my teens in the early 00's, and throughout my mid to late teens, engaged in many one night stands and casual sex, something my friends continued to do into their early twenties, and as I said....
"It's a mixed bag, and most of my friends could also attest that it was a mix of crap sex, coercion (not that we would've labelled it such at the time), outright rape, mediocre sex, and thrilling sex, with at least several of them contracting STIs. Also, most of the women I knew experienced something that would these days be labelled rape at least once (and this was in the early 2000's).
And very few of the women I was friends with at that time (younger women, notably) really prioritised our own pleasure or orgasms over performing for a man - and pretty much none ever climaxed during a one night stand, even if the man put in an enthusiastic effort. The thrill of it, and the cache of doing something wild and 'liberating' and 'empowering' was the thing that most women seemed to be getting out of it, not real, intense, sustained pleasure complete with orgasms."
I'm not sure what 'live my own life' is meant to mean. Obviously, I am living my own life. I asked a question of you, as not using dental dams puts you at risk of contracting herpes. You're lucky that you didn't!