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WWYD? School Incident.

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ciscowife · 10/02/2026 17:21

DS (13) is a weekly boarder. Last night he texted me “can you come and get me”. I tried to call him a number of times to see what was the matter. I decided to phone the boarding house as this is out of character for him. Was told there had been an incident and he was very upset. Drove to collect him immediately without knowing what had happened. He was in an absolute state when I got there.
He had been dragged into a bedroom by a Y13 and Y10 pinned to the bed, wrapped up in a blanket so he couldn’t move and then threatened with being water boarded, and having various liquids and things shoved in his mouth. Luckily they were interrupted by the lady who was on duty. She knocked on the door and opened it to tell them something, DS shouted for help and managed to get away but he was then chased by them. He tried to run away from the school to get away from them.
The school dealt with it quickly and we had late phone calls with deputy head followed by meetings today. The two boys have been suspended for the rest of this week which basically means they are getting an extended half term break.
We feel that this isn’t acceptable punishment because it could have been an awful outcome. Some friends who are either in boarding/teaching have said that this should be a police matter and the council safeguarding team should be informed.
So WWYD oh wise mums in the net!

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Tryagain26 · 12/02/2026 15:39

ciscowife · 12/02/2026 14:34

Sorry for not replying to you all sooner. I read all of your comments and was blown away by all the support and well wishes. It’s been a crazy week and one I hope never to repeat.
As a quick update if anyone is interested; the police have been informed (at the agreement of DS) so we will see where that goes.
DS is not now and will not in the future be boarding. He seems ok and we will keep a very close and sensible eye on him. Thank you everyone. X

That sounds very positive I hope things will be much better for your son. It sounds as though the safeguarding issues were around then boarding provision rather than the school.

TinyCottageGirl · 12/02/2026 15:44

This is not good at all, so the older child is 17/18? Very worrying behaviour and needs to be taken up with the police - you need to tell the school that's what you will be doing and I'm sure they will buck their ideas up.

OriginalSkang · 12/02/2026 15:50

TinyCottageGirl · 12/02/2026 15:44

This is not good at all, so the older child is 17/18? Very worrying behaviour and needs to be taken up with the police - you need to tell the school that's what you will be doing and I'm sure they will buck their ideas up.

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