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Women and anyone with a cervix

314 replies

Zillyzillyzillymouse · 22/01/2026 17:09

Women and anyone with a cervix is written in my weekly magazine. What absolute rubbish is this? It gives me the rage.

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Cyclebabble · 22/01/2026 18:26

Seems okay to me? Mostly it will be women who have a cervix but a small number of trans men might also. I think the language is fine so long as it states women first.

TheignT · 22/01/2026 18:27

MinestroneMacaroni · 22/01/2026 17:45

The word women is inclusive of ALL women. It’s exclusive of men, who don’t have a cervix so no, YANBU. Even women who don’t think they are women, are women. I don’t think we’re doing them any favours by indulging their fantasy.

But not all women have a cervix.

Gilead · 22/01/2026 18:28

Dragonasaurus · 22/01/2026 17:54

I’m assuming your friend is a transman? Definitely not male!

of course India Willoughby (transwoman) famously declared having a cervix along with an offer to show it to anyone who didn’t believe it….. 🤷‍♀️

Definitely male. Sorry you’re not comfortable with it.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 22/01/2026 18:28

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:10

I am the mother of a trans man and he has a cervix.
Are you posting to start yet another rage bait post?
People have cervix's and their cervix is nowt to do with you.

She is a woman. Nobody actually believes she is a man.

TheignT · 22/01/2026 18:30

Surely anyone with a cervix is the logical thing to say. Saying women need cervical screening is including those of us who no longer have a cervix.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 22/01/2026 18:31

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 22/01/2026 18:28

She is a woman. Nobody actually believes she is a man.

Edited

I do.

viques · 22/01/2026 18:32

JHound · 22/01/2026 18:00

??

What does any of that have to do with acknowledging them in a way that does not erase women.

Well , and there was me trying to be equitable and generous and acknowledge that sex based health issues apply to both sexes.

Next time I will just leave people to wallow and die in the pit of their own ignorance and unreasonable prejudice.

Flounce . Slams door. Comes back, slams door louder.

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:34

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 22/01/2026 18:28

She is a woman. Nobody actually believes she is a man.

Edited

Well actually yes they do.
You probably have walked past many trans men and women and not had a clue they are trans. Nor should you as it really is none of your business.

2dogsandabudgie · 22/01/2026 18:35

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:16

It is not nonsense, believe me no one actually sits down and thinks "oh, I might just change my gender today".
If you had any idea of the sheer hard work it is for the trans community then you might be able to stop clutching your pearls and look at the real world.

Of course it's nonsense. You cannot change sex.

MarvellousMonsters · 22/01/2026 18:35

Murriams · 22/01/2026 17:12

It really doesn't bother me, im baffled by people's rage at inclusive language

If you have a cervix, you are a woman. End of.

Men don’t have a cervix, no matter how much oestrogen they take, or how big their breast implants are. And women can’t become men even if they have a mastectomy and no matter how much testosterone they take.

Whilst there are women who don’t have a cervix anyone with a cervix is a woman.

Is that clear enough?

lifeturnsonadime · 22/01/2026 18:37

TheignT · 22/01/2026 18:30

Surely anyone with a cervix is the logical thing to say. Saying women need cervical screening is including those of us who no longer have a cervix.

One of the problems with that is women for whom English is not the first language may not understand that applies to them and also women with low cognitive ability may not know it applies to them either.

The word woman is universally understood and changing the messaging in the way you suggest could mean that minority groups miss out on important health screening.

Most people who are offended by the use of the word woman used in this context are genderists. Trans men know they are woman and should seek out the appropriate healthcare.

2dogsandabudgie · 22/01/2026 18:39

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:34

Well actually yes they do.
You probably have walked past many trans men and women and not had a clue they are trans. Nor should you as it really is none of your business.

But that isn't the problem. I don't care what anyone looks like, but object to a man or woman expecting me to believe that it's possible for them to change sex.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 22/01/2026 18:40

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:34

Well actually yes they do.
You probably have walked past many trans men and women and not had a clue they are trans. Nor should you as it really is none of your business.

I mean, I disagree. But even if a woman dressed as a man walked past me and I didn’t notice she was a woman, it still does not make her a man.

She is, and always will be, a woman.

Catwalking · 22/01/2026 18:41

Are you sure ‘My Weekly’ still exists? 🤔

viques · 22/01/2026 18:46

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:34

Well actually yes they do.
You probably have walked past many trans men and women and not had a clue they are trans. Nor should you as it really is none of your business.

And I have walked past trans identifying women and clocked them as TIW in an instant. Who cares. This thread is about the importance of using clear language when talking about health issues especially those particular health issues which only apply to either men or women.

LordofMisrule1 · 22/01/2026 18:49

God this again. You must live a charmed life.

This phrasing includes everyone with a cervix. Hope that helps.

LordofMisrule1 · 22/01/2026 18:51

This thread is about the importance of using clear language when talking about health issues especially those particular health issues which only apply to either men or women.

Exactly, it's crucial in healthcare to be clear.

Aluna · 22/01/2026 19:05

LordofMisrule1 · 22/01/2026 18:49

God this again. You must live a charmed life.

This phrasing includes everyone with a cervix. Hope that helps.

I find being referred to as a “person with a cervix” deeply offensive and “misgendering”.

LordofMisrule1 · 22/01/2026 19:14

Aluna · 22/01/2026 19:05

I find being referred to as a “person with a cervix” deeply offensive and “misgendering”.

Ok great, it said 'women and people with a cervix' so you weren't misgendered. Others were included beyond just you.

lifeturnsonadime · 22/01/2026 19:17

LordofMisrule1 · 22/01/2026 19:14

Ok great, it said 'women and people with a cervix' so you weren't misgendered. Others were included beyond just you.

All of the others included are also women,

In order to have a cervix that is essential. I find it mind boggling that having delusions regarding her sex makes a woman incapable of understanding that if women need a smear test that includes them! Yet they say it's not mental illness!!!

Ohthatsabitshit · 22/01/2026 19:26

Isittimeformynapyet · 22/01/2026 17:42

😂 How dreadful to see someone modelling reasonable behaviour!

If only it extended to everyone.

frecklejuice · 22/01/2026 19:36

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 22/01/2026 17:21

My boyfriend has a cervix. He’s a trans man.

They are including trans men. This is a good thing.

Your “boyfriend” doesn’t have a cervix, your girlfriend who identifies as a man has a cervix. Only females have a cervix.

Illegally18 · 22/01/2026 19:38

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 22/01/2026 17:21

My boyfriend has a cervix. He’s a trans man.

They are including trans men. This is a good thing.

Gosh that's funny!

frecklejuice · 22/01/2026 19:41

Ginburee · 22/01/2026 18:10

I am the mother of a trans man and he has a cervix.
Are you posting to start yet another rage bait post?
People have cervix's and their cervix is nowt to do with you.

“He” has a cervix 🤣 Omg can you not see how ridiculous that reads? You are the mother to a woman because only women have a cervix.

Gilead · 22/01/2026 19:57

I cannot believe how petty and spiteful this is.