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AIBU to think this is a bit nuts? Trans woman is being praised online for still working at 37 weeks into her "simulated" pregnancy

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CalmGreenEagle · 21/01/2026 11:44

I have just read on Facebook about this transgender woman, Gabrielle Darone, aged 32, who simulated a pregnancy last year in order to address "gender dysphoria about not being able to carry a child". She wore a fake belly and simulated morning sickness, breathing difficulties, tiredness and other symptoms. She blogged about her experience and received a lot of praise online for still continuing to work at 37 weeks into her "pregnancy".

AIBU to think this is just crazy? Wearing a fake belly and pretending to have pregnancy symptoms is absolutely NOTHING like the real difficulties that women who are actually pregnant have to go through. Sometimes I think I am on a different planet.

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ThatWildMintSloth · 21/01/2026 11:51

Very Gilead!!

TheSlantedOwl · 21/01/2026 11:53

Such a fucking insult to women.

TheFairyCaravan · 21/01/2026 11:53

I can’t say I what I think otherwise I’ll get banned.

Balloonhearts · 21/01/2026 11:54

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TheDandyLion · 21/01/2026 11:55

Did they pay maternity leave?

W0tnow · 21/01/2026 11:55

That sounds kind of….pervy.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 21/01/2026 11:55

Why are people going along with this nonsense?!?!

ASeatNextToMe · 21/01/2026 11:55

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Ffs, it’s madness.

SlayBelle · 21/01/2026 11:56

It was even worse than that.

He simulated a still birth and then went on breastfeeding sites asking to breastfeed someone else's baby because it would help him with his grief.

It's all on Reddit if you google.

CalmGreenEagle · 21/01/2026 11:56

I am obviously a bit late to the party. I just found out it was actually 5 years ago when this happened and it gets worse. Darone took drugs to stimulate "contractions" by pretending to give birth, then wanted to take drugs to induce lactation and asked in a FB group for breastfeeding mothers if someone could "lend" their baby to her so she could indulge her breastfeeding fetish. Jesus wept.

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LavenderBlue19 · 21/01/2026 11:56

I mean yes, obviously that is batshit.

graceinspace999 · 21/01/2026 11:57

She needs to see a psychiatrist.

The people praising her are virtue signalling and enabling her by pretending to believe this is a pregnancy.

How far can she carry this on? Will she give birth to a doll?

FOJN · 21/01/2026 11:57

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I think indulging someone else's delusion is a bigger sign of mental illness but tbh the amount of pandering we're expected to do to avoid being called hateful would make anyone feel like they're going mad.

CalmGreenEagle · 21/01/2026 11:57

SlayBelle · 21/01/2026 11:56

It was even worse than that.

He simulated a still birth and then went on breastfeeding sites asking to breastfeed someone else's baby because it would help him with his grief.

It's all on Reddit if you google.

I've just read up on a lot of the extra details that I'd missed.

I'm normally quite supportive of trans rights but this person is so clearly mentally ill it is hard to not conclude that there is something seriously wrong with them.

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graceinspace999 · 21/01/2026 11:57

She needs to see a psychiatrist.

The people praising her are virtue signalling and enabling her by pretending to believe this is a pregnancy.

How far can she carry this on? Will she give birth to a doll?

He.

ASeatNextToMe · 21/01/2026 11:58

graceinspace999 · 21/01/2026 11:57

She needs to see a psychiatrist.

The people praising her are virtue signalling and enabling her by pretending to believe this is a pregnancy.

How far can she carry this on? Will she give birth to a doll?

He and him.

Overtheatlantic · 21/01/2026 11:59

He belongs in jail.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 21/01/2026 11:59

graceinspace999 · 21/01/2026 11:57

She needs to see a psychiatrist.

The people praising her are virtue signalling and enabling her by pretending to believe this is a pregnancy.

How far can she carry this on? Will she give birth to a doll?

He.

Dollymylove · 21/01/2026 12:00

There used to be institutions whereby people could be cared for. Now they walk among us

Genxhausted · 21/01/2026 12:01

A very mentally unwell man. Should be working with a psychiatrist and not be in work while experiencing such serious delusions.

Jumimo · 21/01/2026 12:01

Madness.

SquatBetty · 21/01/2026 12:02

Absolutely fucking ridiculous - why are these people indulged?

SooticaTheWitchesCat · 21/01/2026 12:04

Absolute insanity!

angelos02 · 21/01/2026 12:06

Apart from the madness of this, who is paying for this? I hope it's not the NHS/taxpayer.

Orangemintcream · 21/01/2026 12:08

This person is mentally unwell and needs psychiatric treatment. There is no 2 ways about it.

They should not be indulged by people on social media but unfortunately there’s tons of absolute nutter on the internet and they find each other.

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