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AIBU to think this is a bit nuts? Trans woman is being praised online for still working at 37 weeks into her "simulated" pregnancy

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CalmGreenEagle · 21/01/2026 11:44

I have just read on Facebook about this transgender woman, Gabrielle Darone, aged 32, who simulated a pregnancy last year in order to address "gender dysphoria about not being able to carry a child". She wore a fake belly and simulated morning sickness, breathing difficulties, tiredness and other symptoms. She blogged about her experience and received a lot of praise online for still continuing to work at 37 weeks into her "pregnancy".

AIBU to think this is just crazy? Wearing a fake belly and pretending to have pregnancy symptoms is absolutely NOTHING like the real difficulties that women who are actually pregnant have to go through. Sometimes I think I am on a different planet.

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PensionMention · 08/03/2026 06:28

@FairKoala it was classed as a mental illness till the World Health Organisation changed that in 2019.

Ihatetomatoes · 08/03/2026 09:13

PurpleAxe · 08/03/2026 02:31

These men are sick fucks. And anyone who indulges or supports them is complicit, and should be viewed with suspicion and contempt.

The Green Party support trans women are women.

Ihatetomatoes · 08/03/2026 09:22

Tonissister · 08/03/2026 02:56

YABU to think it's only a bit nuts. It's full on whacko.
Which women get praised for continuing to work at 37 weeks?
What sort of weird kick fo others get from supporting and indulging these creepy cosplay frolics?

They are creepy sick individuals and yet they are praised by some. The world has gone mad. Time for rational, logical and factual sex based reality to return. Trans identified folk might feel they are the opposite sex, they aren't.

NotnowMildrid · 08/03/2026 09:30

Publicity stunt for other nutters.

WildMintPanda · 08/03/2026 09:35

I don't worry too much about this or that being praised online. A lot of people say a lot of crap online. And there are bots and so on.

Viviennemary · 08/03/2026 09:38

It's sad. But no point in getting into a froth about it. All this gnashing of teeth over this sort of thing is a bit pointless IMHO. Its like women with those weird fake babies. Let them get on with it.

TFImBackIn · 08/03/2026 09:55

graceinspace999 · 21/01/2026 11:57

She needs to see a psychiatrist.

The people praising her are virtue signalling and enabling her by pretending to believe this is a pregnancy.

How far can she carry this on? Will she give birth to a doll?

Why are you using female pronouns to refer to this highly disturbed man?

TheKeatingFive · 08/03/2026 10:01

Viviennemary · 08/03/2026 09:38

It's sad. But no point in getting into a froth about it. All this gnashing of teeth over this sort of thing is a bit pointless IMHO. Its like women with those weird fake babies. Let them get on with it.

It's more than that though. There are men indulging in these fantasies and expecting to be given support and sympathy, as if they were actual women going through it.

We need to just shut down this kind of nonsense.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2026 10:06

Viviennemary · 08/03/2026 09:38

It's sad. But no point in getting into a froth about it. All this gnashing of teeth over this sort of thing is a bit pointless IMHO. Its like women with those weird fake babies. Let them get on with it.

It’s nothing like that, because this is a man with a sexual fetish.

ThatCyanCat · 08/03/2026 10:44

Viviennemary · 08/03/2026 09:38

It's sad. But no point in getting into a froth about it. All this gnashing of teeth over this sort of thing is a bit pointless IMHO. Its like women with those weird fake babies. Let them get on with it.

Oh hi, Viv.

Flyingwithwings9 · 08/03/2026 15:25

Severe mental illness regardless of how it presents itself is to be pittied & subsequently treated where possible.

PurpleAxe · 09/03/2026 01:30

Ihatetomatoes · 08/03/2026 09:13

The Green Party support trans women are women.

And should thus be viewed with suspicion and contempt.

Was my statement unclear?

Notalotanota2026 · 09/03/2026 01:33

FOJN · 21/01/2026 11:57

I think indulging someone else's delusion is a bigger sign of mental illness but tbh the amount of pandering we're expected to do to avoid being called hateful would make anyone feel like they're going mad.

I agree. I'm fed up of living in the Land of Make Believe!

Ihatetomatoes · 09/03/2026 14:11

PurpleAxe · 09/03/2026 01:30

And should thus be viewed with suspicion and contempt.

Was my statement unclear?

I agree with you. Anyone that spouts trans women are women and ignores sex based concerns should be viewed with suspicion.

MissAustenMadeAQuilt · 09/03/2026 14:33

CalmGreenEagle · 21/01/2026 11:44

I have just read on Facebook about this transgender woman, Gabrielle Darone, aged 32, who simulated a pregnancy last year in order to address "gender dysphoria about not being able to carry a child". She wore a fake belly and simulated morning sickness, breathing difficulties, tiredness and other symptoms. She blogged about her experience and received a lot of praise online for still continuing to work at 37 weeks into her "pregnancy".

AIBU to think this is just crazy? Wearing a fake belly and pretending to have pregnancy symptoms is absolutely NOTHING like the real difficulties that women who are actually pregnant have to go through. Sometimes I think I am on a different planet.

I agree with you and you are not being unreasonable.

However, you are buying into all this shite by saying "transgender woman" and "she" and "her".

We should always say, Man and He and His. This removes any doubt and stops us even half playing this game.

This person is a man. He is a Man. if he feels it is unfair that men cannot carry children then he should take it up with God.

But please can we stop calling men women and using female pronouns for men.

This is how they have sneaked in and we must not buy in to it by repeating nonsense.

A man is a man. There are no grey areas.

auserna · 09/03/2026 14:37

YABU to say it's a "bit" nuts. It's certifiable.

graceinspace999 · 09/03/2026 16:36

TFImBackIn · 08/03/2026 09:55

Why are you using female pronouns to refer to this highly disturbed man?

I think about nine people have corrected me on this.

The reason I used the wrong pronouns is because I was seriously ill at the time.

I felt strongly about the issue I still posted my response which, and please be fair, was not in the man’s favour.

I simply made a made a mistake.

P.S. I do think the whole trans men and trans women descriptors are confusing in themselves.

TheKeatingFive · 09/03/2026 16:43

P.S. I do think the whole trans men and trans women descriptors are confusing in themselves.

Yes they are and deliberately so

Ffobele · 16/03/2026 17:13

I'm guessing he's had the baby now? Is there an update?

YouWillNeverGuessMyUsername · 16/03/2026 18:32

Ffobele · 16/03/2026 17:13

I'm guessing he's had the baby now? Is there an update?

There's literally nothing to suggest this actually happened...

ForNoisyCat · 03/04/2026 08:20

CalmGreenEagle · 21/01/2026 11:44

I have just read on Facebook about this transgender woman, Gabrielle Darone, aged 32, who simulated a pregnancy last year in order to address "gender dysphoria about not being able to carry a child". She wore a fake belly and simulated morning sickness, breathing difficulties, tiredness and other symptoms. She blogged about her experience and received a lot of praise online for still continuing to work at 37 weeks into her "pregnancy".

AIBU to think this is just crazy? Wearing a fake belly and pretending to have pregnancy symptoms is absolutely NOTHING like the real difficulties that women who are actually pregnant have to go through. Sometimes I think I am on a different planet.

Some people do anything for a bit if attention… it’s completely bonkers.

TeaAndTattoos · 03/04/2026 09:08

It shocks me the amount of women who encourage this behaviour and think it’s absolutely fine and totally normal. While the rest of us who live in the real world think they all need mental help and for people to stop going alone with their delusions.

Ihatetomatoes · 03/04/2026 09:29

TeaAndTattoos · 03/04/2026 09:08

It shocks me the amount of women who encourage this behaviour and think it’s absolutely fine and totally normal. While the rest of us who live in the real world think they all need mental help and for people to stop going alone with their delusions.

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