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AIBU to think this is a bit nuts? Trans woman is being praised online for still working at 37 weeks into her "simulated" pregnancy

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CalmGreenEagle · 21/01/2026 11:44

I have just read on Facebook about this transgender woman, Gabrielle Darone, aged 32, who simulated a pregnancy last year in order to address "gender dysphoria about not being able to carry a child". She wore a fake belly and simulated morning sickness, breathing difficulties, tiredness and other symptoms. She blogged about her experience and received a lot of praise online for still continuing to work at 37 weeks into her "pregnancy".

AIBU to think this is just crazy? Wearing a fake belly and pretending to have pregnancy symptoms is absolutely NOTHING like the real difficulties that women who are actually pregnant have to go through. Sometimes I think I am on a different planet.

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JHound · 21/01/2026 13:10

I will say a “simulated pregnancy” is batshit no matter who does it. There are loads of women who will never experience pregnancy (for a variety of reasons) and I would think they were looney for trying to simulate one.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/01/2026 13:11

A BIT nuts??
More like plain insanity! I dare say Stonewall will thoroughly approve, though.

UncannyFanny · 21/01/2026 13:11

Complete with simulated waters breaking and contractions 🙄

DustlandFairytaleBeginning · 21/01/2026 13:11

Helleofabore · 21/01/2026 12:56

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I don't know, the whole thing reads 'troll' to me. The long written explanations seem designed to wind people up. It's not hard to set up a fake facebook account and wind people up for fun if you're bored. How often are we taken in by troll posts on here?

Everyothernamewasalreadyinuse · 21/01/2026 13:11

fake belly and simulated morning sickness, breathing difficulties, tiredness and other symptoms.

So he never simulated pregnancy, he simulated a obese person with a tummy bug

NewGirlInTown · 21/01/2026 13:12

Fucking ridiculous. The people giving compliments have lost their
minds.

BauhausOfEliott · 21/01/2026 13:12

I know a few trans people. They all think Darone is insane and don't actually agree that s/he is even trans.

It's Facebook rage bait, is all.

usedtobeaylis · 21/01/2026 13:13

I guess all the people who normally highlight appropriation were the ones all over it.

Not crazy, just fucking pathetic.

surrealpotato · 21/01/2026 13:13

It's not a bit nuts. It's completely batshit.

Americano75 · 21/01/2026 13:14

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Maybe you should ask his wife and kids.

Or the bereaved mothers who objected at his inclusion in their support group who found themselves cut off from that support as a result?

Bollihobs · 21/01/2026 13:15

SlayBelle · 21/01/2026 11:56

It was even worse than that.

He simulated a still birth and then went on breastfeeding sites asking to breastfeed someone else's baby because it would help him with his grief.

It's all on Reddit if you google.

Good grief! This, obvs, is mental illness, pure and simple and needs to be treated as such.

ContentedAlpaca · 21/01/2026 13:16

DustlandFairytaleBeginning · 21/01/2026 13:11

I don't know, the whole thing reads 'troll' to me. The long written explanations seem designed to wind people up. It's not hard to set up a fake facebook account and wind people up for fun if you're bored. How often are we taken in by troll posts on here?

His blog is there. There's enough detail in it to think not troll and poor wife and kids.

NotMyRealAccount · 21/01/2026 13:17

I remember this from a few years ago. I don't know whether it's true, but there are enough substantiated accounts of gruesome piss-taking by trans identified males supported by fawning enablers of both sexes that I wouldn't be surprised if it was.

takealettermsjones · 21/01/2026 13:18

NotMeAtAll · 21/01/2026 13:09

For what crime?

Well, if a man attempted to have a five year old child suck his nipples, I wonder what you would call that?

Badbadbunny · 21/01/2026 13:18

Good grief, that's utterly crazy. Who are these numpties going along with this nonsense. They need sectioning - not only the "trans" person, but all those who are facilitating and encouraging it.

LeftBoobGoneRogue · 21/01/2026 13:19

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@AlexisPandaa baby could be harmed by ingesting the toxic chemicals this man has used to induce lactation.
I not another Panda user name defending TRA.
Stop with the ‘nothing to see here’, this should concern all right minded people.

rainbows40 · 21/01/2026 13:20

Fucksake.

damemaggiescurledupperlip · 21/01/2026 13:21

Imagine being a workmate of his who has actually endured a still birth or late miscarriage

Toseland · 21/01/2026 13:21

This is what all women are facing if we don't all stand up and say no.
Breastfeeding and maternity groups worldwide are admitting men with this fetish into their groups.
His pleasure is women's hardships.

reversegear · 21/01/2026 13:23

They need sectioning not being put on social media.

PoppySeedBagelRedux · 21/01/2026 13:25

Him, his, he. He’s a man

Shedmistress · 21/01/2026 13:28

CalmGreenEagle · 21/01/2026 11:57

I've just read up on a lot of the extra details that I'd missed.

I'm normally quite supportive of trans rights but this person is so clearly mentally ill it is hard to not conclude that there is something seriously wrong with them.

Gonna break it to you softly but this IS trans rights.

NotMyKidsThough · 21/01/2026 13:29

I read something very relevant to this yesterday: "Why should I accept your claimed identity when you couldn't accept your own?"

StabbyCat · 21/01/2026 13:29

graceinspace999 · 21/01/2026 11:57

She needs to see a psychiatrist.

The people praising her are virtue signalling and enabling her by pretending to believe this is a pregnancy.

How far can she carry this on? Will she give birth to a doll?

He. This is a perverted bloke.

thenightsky · 21/01/2026 13:33

So what drugs did he take to simulate contractions in an organ he doesn't have in his body?

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