AIBU to be turned off by unwashed hands and a small package?

[Tink3rbell30]

I've recently been dating again after a bad experience and long break. I have known this person years and we have chatted quite often so the familiarity is there. 2 things: he has a very small package and the whole thing was just very awkward and it didn't really work. And after a random conversation it turns out that he doesn't wash his hands after going to the toilet (both a wee and poo). I'm really fussy with cleanliness and to me that is very basic hygiene.

AIBU to do a 180 turn on the whole thing? He is trying to make plans to see me this weekend as we speak. My friend says give it another meet up and see as sex is always very awkward at first but it's the hand washing thing aswell.

This!

Oh to sit there and admit it too 😂
Wow.
You should be honest and just tell him, sorry I cant get past the handwashing thing.

You might do him a favour

No need to mention the 🍆 and 🥜 he will already know about that

A huge no on both counts.

I had a guy like that. It just got worse and worse as more and more things started giving me the ick. Save yourself before this goes any further. Btw...the small dick won't quell his sense of entitlement to your body. He will become increasingly puzzled as to why you don't seem satisfied and constantly whine. Ugh

Perhaps if you were shallow you could do a tiny penis

Friend of a good friend of mine, had a boyfriend who didn’t wash much…his knob went MOULDY, yes actual green mould . She told our mutual friend as she unsurprisingly didn’t madly want to sleep with him any more.

You need better friends, or at least friends with higher standards.

Asexual? Your friend is weird.

Yes because I haven't dated/had sex in a very long time and when I do I didn't like it or want to do it again. Hmm I wonder why.

Oh no I couldn't cope with this! The germs 🤢 it does make me wonder how many people actually are that unhygienic. From this post alone it doesn't bode well.

No hand washing is absolutely rotten 🤢

Not having decent bathroom habits are big icks for me, a man that wants to pee/poo behind a closed door, makes sure the toilet is clean and then washing hands is a must

Yuck 🤮 dirty hands. I wash my when I've come inside you never know whose touched the door handle and how clean they are (after coming down with something really horrible after eating out years ago where I was bed ridden/head down the toilet/sat on the toilet for a week I'm even more paranoid)

Small penis is a turn off as well. I once had sex with someone with a small penis, he kept talking about how small it was before we even got to the sex bit, it was only the once.

Was it a good delivery?

@MissCooCooMcgoo I do not do tiny penises. I don't care if this makes me "shallow"

This response is always difficult to understand. Given the exhausting and extensive narrative around "dick pics," I thought it was safe to say that most women dislike looking at penises. So why would a man's penis be important in a relationship given that penises are generally considered disgusting?

How small are we talking, OP? @Tink3rbell30

@shuggles

for sexual satisfaction. Is that not obvious?

4" when hard. And quite skinny.

Can’t help feeling a bit sorry for him!

I do too but the poo germ hands clouded my sympathy a bit. But yeah it is unfortunate for him.

OP has over 1000 posts going back nearly 2 years, about all manner of different topics. Why would they suddenly now turn into a poo troll?

@Tink3rbell30

oh dear

I missed that comment! 😂 I wish this scenario wasn't true. I'd rather be on a date on a Friday night and having sex with a clean man with a decent size penis rather than asking opinions on a man with a small package and poo hands..

Yes it didn't do anything or work for me whatsoever unfortunately!

no hand washing nope imagine if he made a sandwich or even a mug of tea or coffee, mauling the mug around handing it to you bleeuukk
as for the other use a vibrator far better than an inadequate that leaves you frustrated

I think you know the answer OP, you can do so much better