Have I overstepped here and what do I do

[AirheadMonent]

I posted about a man sending offensive videos and offensive messages to a woman along with naked pictures. It's a vulnerable person and looking like grooming as she's believing it's a relationship. I contacted the police who won't intervene because she's not complaining.

I put a post on the community Facebook page asking if anyone knows a man by the name of (and then gave his nickname). No other information than that. A woman replied saying it's her dad. She's private messaged me asking if everything is ok.

What would you do?

Tell me you’ve just skipped to the end without telling me…

I suspect a lot of people would say something along those lines, actually. She’d be told that she had a DH problem, that the OW didn’t owe her anything, her DH was the one who took marriage vows to be faithful and the one she should be holding to account now.

Then people would wade in talking about sisterhood and societal contracts, and a bunfight would ensue. That’s usually how OW threads do, IME.

I know I'm dragging this up again but I wanted to say to the poster who said if we get rid of this guy there's going to be others, there already are. All messages about Viagra and wanking on camera.

I've told her now to stop involving me and telling me because it's disgraceful.

The married bloke has sent more knickers. He's buying her a vibrator and a tripod for their sessions, and said again she should get the carers involved with watching and joining in. I've told her that he's a menace and she needs to be careful as he's skating on thin ice. If the carers report him she's going to be blacklisted and he's verging on criminal activity. Not sure if it's true but I hope it's scared her a bit.

tell her to stop sexually harassing you.

I thought you were stepping back??

How old is she?

You're loving this drama. Only a few posts ago you were "stepping back" now you're back with all the grisly details.

Yawn

I have. I'm seeing her once a week and that was yesterday and she told me all this crap.

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I think the OP is enjoying this thread too much.

I agree.

Why not just shut the conversation down?

I did. @Lifestooshort71 I can't see how anyone can enjoy that crap.

You obviously let it continue long enough to listen to the sordid details

And to drip feed it here!

the term vulnerable I assumed the OP meant someone with learning difficulties. It seems this isn’t the case.

theres no illegality in my mind, here. I think the OP was out of order posting to social media. Sadly all of this is now a consequence of their actions

my advice is to block the daughter and step away. I hope you didn’t post it via your own account mind….

This. Some people enjoy it and she may well be getting sexual kicks from it too. She is an adult and the illnesses you have mentioned doesn't mean she no longer has a sex drive. Just because it isn't your kink it doesn't mean that she isn't allowed to partakr. Unless she has expressed that she feels uncomfortable, let her get on with it. Really none of your business how she wishes to fulfill her desires.

When something happens that hadn't happened when the thread was started and the OP posts about it later, because they couldn't at the outset because, you know, it hasn't happened, how can that be drip feeding?

He sent wanking videos and full frontal pictures of himself in a pair of socks and a Christmas hat saying Jolly Old St Prickolas.
So you don't think going into salacious detail like this is drip feeding?

They both sound like silly, giddy kids. He also sounds an abhorrent husband and she sounds pathetic if this is the level of relationship she thinks she deserves. Leave them to get on with it OP and if disaster happens, then it's on them.