If you have a 10 year old how old are you/how old was your mother when you were 10

[Ikeawea]

I’m 26 with a 10 year old, but when I was 10 my mother was 50. Feels very strange, I remember being my son’s age and very aware my mother was way older than the other mothers.

I've had the same thing said to me about dying when DS is young but I don't pay much attention. My mum died in her 80s, my dad is still alive (similar age) and 3:of my grandparents lived in to their 90s so hopefully I have good genes
I think people will always say something whether you're a young mum or an older mum.

Yes my mother is in very good shape for her age she may of had me much later in life but it honestly hasn’t mattered at all