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To feel deflated after ChatGPT told me I was undesirable?

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Pepsiandcowhide · 15/12/2025 17:27

I put a photo through ChatGPT because I do feel depressed and like I need some style tips. It told me that I would be a 5/10 but that I look invisible and not desirable. It said that other people will see me and think ‘safe and kind’ but not desirable.

AIBU to feel utterly deflated by this? How does one go about looking desirable?

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FilterBubble · 19/12/2025 11:32

It's ripped tonnes of my intellectual property. I wouldn't much care if they were open source systems. I don't mind if it all ends up in the public domain. Given that they rip off intellectual property, perhaps it might mean they can't defend their own.

Annoyed that the main search providers have AI response on as a default. That feels like an unnecessary burn. There may be efficiencies to the Internet and data warehousing as a result of the tech though.

Kind of hoping the DeepSeeks win at this rate. I'm sure the politics is shady, always seems to be, given anything that can be weaponised and made useful. OpenAI and other outfits might well be sitting on a lemon. Will be interesting to see it unfold.

Periperi2025 · 19/12/2025 12:08

FilterBubble · 19/12/2025 11:32

It's ripped tonnes of my intellectual property. I wouldn't much care if they were open source systems. I don't mind if it all ends up in the public domain. Given that they rip off intellectual property, perhaps it might mean they can't defend their own.

Annoyed that the main search providers have AI response on as a default. That feels like an unnecessary burn. There may be efficiencies to the Internet and data warehousing as a result of the tech though.

Kind of hoping the DeepSeeks win at this rate. I'm sure the politics is shady, always seems to be, given anything that can be weaponised and made useful. OpenAI and other outfits might well be sitting on a lemon. Will be interesting to see it unfold.

I often use the link botton on the Google AI results after getting the basic answer, so if it's linking to your intellectual property it isn't necessarily always a bad thing.

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 19/12/2025 12:19

I use Ecosia as a search engine. It does have AI but it is very easy to switch off, and it runs a tree-planting scheme to offset carbon from searching.

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