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The reactions to the Bondi Beach terrorist attack has shown how racist many posters are here.

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TheTamerShrew · 15/12/2025 09:24

I’m posting because I’m struggling with how racism against Jews is being talked about here following the recent terrorist attack in Australia. What I’ve seen, again and again, is minimisation: it wasn’t really about Jews, it was more complicated than that, let’s not jump to conclusions, other groups have it worse. All the familiar caveats come out remarkably quickly when the victims are Jewish.

I want to say clearly: racism against Jews is racism. Full stop. It doesn’t become less serious because it’s uncomfortable, politically inconvenient, or doesn’t fit neatly into how some people understand racism. And it doesn’t need to compete with other forms of racism to be real or worthy of being named.

What I find particularly painful is how often antisemitism is explained away rather than confronted. We would rightly challenge this pattern if it happened after an attack on almost any other minority group. Yet when Jews are targeted, there seems to be an urge to dilute, reframe, or downplay what’s happened.
I’d really ask people to pause and self-reflect on why that might be.

Why does naming antisemitism feel harder?
Why is there a rush to qualify it, contextualise it out of existence, or deny it altogether?
Why is Jewish fear so often treated as oversensitivity rather than a rational response to a long and very real history?

Acknowledging racism is not an accusation against everyone else. It’s the first, necessary step in confronting it. If we can’t even name antisemitism when it’s staring us in the face, we have no chance of challenging it, let alone preventing it.

We don’t make the world safer by minimising hatred. We make it safer by recognising it honestly, even when that recognition makes us uncomfortable.

I hope this can be read in the spirit it’s intended: not to shut down discussion, but to ask people to explore and self reflect.

See the attached photo: in order to become Anti-racist, one needs to first acknowledge racism

The reactions to the Bondi Beach terrorist attack has shown how racist many posters are here.
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BerryTwister · 15/12/2025 16:50

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Beachtastic · 15/12/2025 16:50

PommesdePlume · 15/12/2025 16:44

If you think that this atrocity stands on it's own then you're being naive. The current war will have a big influence on behaviours especially when people have extreme opinions to begin with. It brings the hatred out of the past and makes it current and some will use to justify their actions.

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If you think the hatred was ever in the past, you're being naive, sorry.

Holluschickie · 15/12/2025 16:51

There's no radical Islam.
Someone should tell MI5 that. Nothing to see here.

EasternStandard · 15/12/2025 16:53

Holluschickie · 15/12/2025 16:51

There's no radical Islam.
Someone should tell MI5 that. Nothing to see here.

Quite, what a post.

SpaceRaccoon · 15/12/2025 16:54

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What is happening in Gaza is a war, not a genocide, in response to another disgusting terrorist attack.
The "nasty people" on the Israeli side are the young conscripts who risk their lives to keep their country safe in a hostile region.

I'm genuinely repulsed at you comparing them to those cunts that just shot dead little children and Holocaust survivors enjoying a day on the beach.

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Vivi0 · 15/12/2025 16:54

Leo800 · 15/12/2025 16:46

We have a serious problem. I work in a school & today had multiple pupils claiming the attack was justified. It’s horrific & senior management are so afraid to offend this community, they let it slide.

Not too dissimilar to the posts on this thread then.

Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza, Gaza.

It was the same the day after 7/10.

Someone has now even denied the existence of radical Islam.

Australian Jews have been massacred at a beach celebration…but Islamophobia. But Gaza. But Netanyahu. But incels. But Christians. But men. But, but, but, but, but.

Anything but the actual issue.

HappyFace2025 · 15/12/2025 16:55

Leo800 · 15/12/2025 16:46

We have a serious problem. I work in a school & today had multiple pupils claiming the attack was justified. It’s horrific & senior management are so afraid to offend this community, they let it slide.

Can you not contact Community Security Trust (CST) with this please? They are here to help with just this type of antisemitic incident that is now prevalent in schools, judging by other threads recently.

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PommesdePlume · 15/12/2025 16:56

Beachtastic · 15/12/2025 16:50

If you think the hatred was ever in the past, you're being naive, sorry.

I've never thought it was. It's always simmering under the surface. Some people however who don't experience bigotry/religious hatred directly may not think so.

Oh, and keep your passive aggressive sorry to yourself.

BackToLurk · 15/12/2025 16:56

OneGreySeal · 15/12/2025 16:38

There’s no ‘radical Islam’ there’s radical, extremist people. Quit your agenda and have some respect for the people who have lost their lives. They’ve not yet been buried and you’re using them to fight your disgusting culture war.

So IS, al-Shabaab, Boko Haram, the Taliban? All just regular Islam? Bold claim

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HappyFace2025 · 15/12/2025 16:57

@Vivi0 100% correct. The whatboutery on the various Bondi threads is absolutely shocking. I am so angry.

Starconundrum · 15/12/2025 16:57

Beachtastic · 15/12/2025 16:30

Also one that doesnt label a whole group as the problem like the ones saying all Muslims are radical Muslims.

Where did someone say this? Sorry if I missed it!

Radical Islam is, by a huge margin, the single biggest threat to national security, and not just here in the UK. Are we not allowed to say so, even if MI5 has confirmed it? There is a massive problem to solve here, and I don't think it helps to jab fingers in all directions saying "Oh but white people and incels do shitty things too," especially on a thread specifically about the latest devastating impact of radical Islam on the global (particularly Jewish) community.

Im pretty sure white supremacists are currently in the lead, but i confess i haven't looked since the last pile on of any race that isn't indigenous to the UK.

SeemaNormallyRight · 15/12/2025 16:58

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Holluschickie · 15/12/2025 16:59

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I really hope you are having a wind up with this.

Sewingaddict · 15/12/2025 16:59

Leo800 · 15/12/2025 16:46

We have a serious problem. I work in a school & today had multiple pupils claiming the attack was justified. It’s horrific & senior management are so afraid to offend this community, they let it slide.

to echo @HappyFace2025 please do contact CST they are great in these types of situations.

And if anyone wants to contribute to safety of Jewish people in the UK, the CST are a great organisation to donate towards.

SeemaNormallyRight · 15/12/2025 17:02

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dairydebris · 15/12/2025 17:03

Holluschickie · 15/12/2025 16:59

I really hope you are having a wind up with this.

Argh. She's just being honest about his views and I'm grateful for it. We should look at what we're dealing with right in the face.

Antisemitism. The last socially acceptable form of racism.

So many posts on here from people who will never, ever be able to understand what's going on because in order to do that they'd have to admit that they themselves are a racist.

Holluschickie · 15/12/2025 17:03

Starconundrum · 15/12/2025 16:57

Im pretty sure white supremacists are currently in the lead, but i confess i haven't looked since the last pile on of any race that isn't indigenous to the UK.

Nope. MI5 has clearly defined Islamic terrorism as the biggest threat to national security. And I am not white or indigenous to the UK. I define myself as a brown secularist. We do exist!

Please let's not use white supremacy as an excuse to distract from Islamists.

EasternStandard · 15/12/2025 17:03

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Are you including 10 year old Matilda on Bondi Beach in Australia when you write this? Or any of those there.

Vivi0 · 15/12/2025 17:03

Starconundrum · 15/12/2025 16:57

Im pretty sure white supremacists are currently in the lead, but i confess i haven't looked since the last pile on of any race that isn't indigenous to the UK.

Who is being killed by white supremacists?

SeemaNormallyRight · 15/12/2025 17:04

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whymadam · 15/12/2025 17:04

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 15/12/2025 11:24

WTF?
If a large group of families were celebrating Eid on a beach and were gunned down in cold blood, would you say “ I have no problem naming Islamophobia. I also have no problem saying the Iranian government commit atrocities”?
Like, WTF has the senseless murder of a 10 year old girl in Australia got to do with the Israeli/ Palestinian war??
YOU are part of the problem. Ffs

Yes, I think this is what she's saying. Have you seen before and after aerial photos of Gaza? Have a look at those, think who did the damage, and then think how you might feel / what you might do if someone did that to your family. Over, and over, and over until the place was flattened. Maybe don't call it a 'war' either. You need 2 armed sides to fight one of those. The people of Gaza have no army. Please have a think about it, and learn the differences between Palestine, Gaza and Hamas. Also, please note that in NO WAY do I condone violence or anti-semitism by making these comments.

inamarina · 15/12/2025 17:05

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I’d say that psychos who want to kill Jews don’t need an excuse.

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