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cramptramp · 03/12/2025 18:01

He’s admitted it. I don’t want to pay for him to live in prison. I’d like him killed.

blackbunny · 03/12/2025 18:02

surreygirly · 03/12/2025 16:52

He is getting 3 meals a day in a warm cell with TV
Access to gym .library study
That is better than being hung

None of those “perks” make up for having to constantly look over your shoulder forever. The prison officers can’t be everywhere all the time.

SerendipityJane · 03/12/2025 18:03

Among all the noise here, there is the serious question about how to treat people who may need to be incarcerated for possible decades until their death.

But just killing them because we can't think of the answer seems a tad defeatist. We've put a man on the moon, broken the genetic code, and are almost within touching distance of online GP appointments. Surely we can put some effort into a solution.

Elliania · 03/12/2025 18:03

cramptramp · 03/12/2025 18:01

He’s admitted it. I don’t want to pay for him to live in prison. I’d like him killed.

It's unsettling common for people to admit to crimes they didn't commit.

I'm not saying that's the case here at all but a confession should not be used as a basis for a conviction, let alone a death sentence.

BackToLurk · 03/12/2025 18:04

PeriMumEndofHerTether · 03/12/2025 17:12

I've changed my mind about the death penalty. I think all pedos and rapists should get an automatic death sentence. It's the only way to eradicate the faulty gene in men. And yes, MEN.

Excellent way to increase the number of men who kill. Well done you.

SerendipityJane · 03/12/2025 18:04

cramptramp · 03/12/2025 18:01

He’s admitted it. I don’t want to pay for him to live in prison. I’d like him killed.

Timothy Evans confessed. Which of course was a great comfort to the women that Christie went on to kill after Evans execution.

JHound · 03/12/2025 18:04

Because the state should not have the right to murder its citizens.

cramptramp · 03/12/2025 18:05

Elliania · 03/12/2025 18:03

It's unsettling common for people to admit to crimes they didn't commit.

I'm not saying that's the case here at all but a confession should not be used as a basis for a conviction, let alone a death sentence.

As you say, he’s admitted it and has definitely committed the crime. He should be killed.

Elliania · 03/12/2025 18:07

cramptramp · 03/12/2025 18:05

As you say, he’s admitted it and has definitely committed the crime. He should be killed.

Maybe he should be. But there's no way to put a system in place that will never make a mistake and lead to the death of an innocent person. So I will always be against the death penalty for that reason.

BackToLurk · 03/12/2025 18:08

cramptramp · 03/12/2025 18:05

As you say, he’s admitted it and has definitely committed the crime. He should be killed.

Are you volunteering to do it? What method were you thinking of?

BestZebbie · 03/12/2025 18:08

PeriMumEndofHerTether · 03/12/2025 17:12

I've changed my mind about the death penalty. I think all pedos and rapists should get an automatic death sentence. It's the only way to eradicate the faulty gene in men. And yes, MEN.

Putting aside that this isnt so much a slippery slope to eugenic genocide but actually already arrived down there….you don’t actually need to kill anyone to remove their genes, you could ‘just’ forceably sterilise them instead.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 03/12/2025 18:09

Isnt Ian Watkins unalived in prison?

I have to be less harsh on mn but you know where I am going

SerendipityJane · 03/12/2025 18:09

BestZebbie · 03/12/2025 18:08

Putting aside that this isnt so much a slippery slope to eugenic genocide but actually already arrived down there….you don’t actually need to kill anyone to remove their genes, you could ‘just’ forceably sterilise them instead.

The Drowned and the Saved

JohnofWessex · 03/12/2025 18:15

A friend of mine is old enough to remember when the Death Penalty was in use

His comment was that it 'coarsened society'

Can you see what might happen when a notorious killer goes to the gallows?

Farage at all hoping that the hangman bodges the job.

Another comment was from New Zealand where they had a very 'Pro Hanging' PM in the 50's and they had to limit the number of executions as they were only carried out in one prison and there was a limit to what the staff could stand

Xmasdemon · 03/12/2025 18:15

SerendipityJane · 03/12/2025 17:58

Aren't some Gods quite big on forgiveness and repentance ? He may have a fairly cool God ?

Even if he turned his morals inside out and begged god to forgive him, will we forgive him ? Will he ever be able to forgive himself ? He has ruined his life and potential eternal existence.

daisychain01 · 03/12/2025 18:20

Stop with the Daily Fail gnashing of teeth and "Scum" tagline.

its dull and predictable, and gets us no further forward.

caringcarer · 03/12/2025 18:25

HermioneWeasley · 03/12/2025 16:49

I don’t know. Where there’s no doubt (like Axel Rudakabana) I think we should have the death penalty

I agree.

Peachykeenclean · 03/12/2025 18:35

Euthanasia as in humane and painless - I actually find the -ooohhh lifetime in prison for them to suffer - brigade cruler and morally bankrupt -as the cases I think most of us pro are actually contemplating are so mentally ill/damaged that punishing them for the rest of their life for something they probably had little to no control over is quite barbaric.
In Holland/Canada people with incurable traumatic mental health issues can apply for and are accepted for euthanasia - I think there are a few very selective murderers that should be afforded the same grace.

AmusedMaker · 03/12/2025 18:39

Don’t agree with hanging.
I just wouldn’t send my child to a nursery with male nursery workers.

Cucy · 03/12/2025 18:47

randomchap · 03/12/2025 17:47

That's not true, whole life orders exist.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_prisoners_with_whole_life_orders

Other prisoners with life sentences can be recalled to jail at any point once they've been released.

You are correct but these are very rare and most of them still get released if they’ve had good behaviour.

And yes prisoners can get recalled but that’s not a deterrent for someone like this
It also brings no comfort to the family of the victims or future victims.

I believe in rehabilitation and believe most people can be rehabilitated.
Getting in a fight and killing someone should not mean the death penalty.

Raping babies or finding a child or woman to deliberately rape, torture and kill is another story.

I have always been fully against the death penalty but people like Axel Rudakubana have started to change my mind.
Why are prison staff being attacked and almost killed by someone like him.
He’ll either get out and be even more messed up in the head or he’ll die in prison and so it seems pointless.

ilovesooty · 03/12/2025 18:50

I don't believe in the death penalty and I don't welcome vigilante violence and retribution by inmates in prison either.

Bollihobs · 03/12/2025 19:02

SerendipityJane · 03/12/2025 18:03

Among all the noise here, there is the serious question about how to treat people who may need to be incarcerated for possible decades until their death.

But just killing them because we can't think of the answer seems a tad defeatist. We've put a man on the moon, broken the genetic code, and are almost within touching distance of online GP appointments. Surely we can put some effort into a solution.

"A tad defeatist"

Errrm.......unless you know different it's a binary choice, life, incarcerated, or death - I cannot think of third alternative?

RichardMarxisinnocent · 03/12/2025 19:17

SerendipityJane · 03/12/2025 17:29

So let me get this clear.

Murderers who we aren't sure about can be locked up forever.
But murderers we are sure about get hanged ?

Seems so simple. You have to wonder what they spend the other 10 years at law school doing ?

The whole "where there is no doubt“ thing is what i never understand on threads about the death penalty. Numerous people post that where there is no doubt or where someone is 100% guilty they should get the death penalty. But out justice system doesn't work like that.

In England and Wales a jury can find someone not guilty or guilty. And if they find them guilty they are saying they think beyond a reasonable doubt that they are guilty. There is not a second tier of guilty, abs option to find someone "100% guilty". Are people proposing we introduce two levels of guilty for the jury to choose between? Or are they intending for a judge to decide which of the beyond a reasonable doubt people is 100% guilty and this eligible for the death penalty? And if we have two levels of guilty, where does that leave the not 100% guilty people? If we're not certain enough of their guilt to kill them, surely we are also not certain enough to put them in prison for years?

OchonAgusOchonOh · 03/12/2025 19:22

Monty34 · 03/12/2025 17:17

There are many cases where it is clear the guilty person has been convicted. That, in the public mind should result in a death sentence.
The rationale for not doing so is that the 'clarity' can soon become a bit blurred.
Also, some argue, it debases society.

Or the evidence is clear because of corruption, mistakes or out and out racism/sexism/classism.

The evidence against the Birmingham 6, the Guildford 4, the Maguire, the Winchester 3 etc etc was extremely clear due to police corruption, mistakes and racism. It was, however, quite clearly incorrect once the judiciary were forced to examine the corruption and errors. The judge in the Guildford 4 case publicly regretted he couldn't pass the death penalty.

But yeah, they was no doubt.

Squishedpassenger · 03/12/2025 19:30

RichardMarxisinnocent · 03/12/2025 19:17

The whole "where there is no doubt“ thing is what i never understand on threads about the death penalty. Numerous people post that where there is no doubt or where someone is 100% guilty they should get the death penalty. But out justice system doesn't work like that.

In England and Wales a jury can find someone not guilty or guilty. And if they find them guilty they are saying they think beyond a reasonable doubt that they are guilty. There is not a second tier of guilty, abs option to find someone "100% guilty". Are people proposing we introduce two levels of guilty for the jury to choose between? Or are they intending for a judge to decide which of the beyond a reasonable doubt people is 100% guilty and this eligible for the death penalty? And if we have two levels of guilty, where does that leave the not 100% guilty people? If we're not certain enough of their guilt to kill them, surely we are also not certain enough to put them in prison for years?

Some people are convicted on strong circumstantial evidence that could be overcome by better forensic evidence (if it exists). We know that technology has meant that DNA forensics, for example, has improved dramatically from its conception until now. So much so that I am sure there are people who were originally convicted on DNA evidence and have had it overturned as technology has improved.

Other times, there are mitigating circumstances that mean the person has a chance of rehabilitation in the right conditions.

That's different to someone who has a proven history of violent crime, despite intervention and rehabilitation.