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To think it is not at all sad that the Women's Institute is now only for actual women?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 03/12/2025 11:36

“Incredibly sadly, we will have to restrict our membership on the basis of biological sex from April next year,” Green said. “But the message we really want to get across is that it remains our firm belief that transgender women are women, and that doesn’t change.”

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/dec/03/womens-institute-no-longer-accept-trans-women-members-april

Tellingly - they still think women can have a penis.

Women’s Institute will no longer accept trans women as members from April

Exclusive: CEO says decision taken with ‘utmost regret and sadness’ after supreme court ruling on definition of a woman

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/dec/03/womens-institute-no-longer-accept-trans-women-members-april

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ArabellaSaurus · 07/12/2025 19:44

ByShyRaven · 07/12/2025 19:43

So by your logic - gay men are not marginalised either?

They're not allowed in the WI, either.

TheKeatingFive · 07/12/2025 19:45

ThatCyanCat · 07/12/2025 19:44

Yes, like the girl children who, for many reasons, would be isolated without single sex spaces. Why don't you people ever give a toss about them?

We know why, don't we?

Boys > Girls for these posters.

ArabellaSaurus · 07/12/2025 19:47

TheKeatingFive · 07/12/2025 19:45

We know why, don't we?

Boys > Girls for these posters.

Of course. Women and girls must sacrifice themselves to help men and boys.

climbintheback · 07/12/2025 19:47

What’s not to love about gays and lesbians they seem to all be part of life’s rich tapestry

TheKeatingFive · 07/12/2025 19:49

Being marginalised does not mean that other people have to give up their rights to accommodate everything you want. It is the most vulnerable and marginalised women who have the most to lose when we pretend men can become women. Women in prison, in domestic violence shelters, the orthodox religious, the sick and disabled and so on.

But no, I dont see that men who like to present as women are particularly vulnerable - much less the 'most marginalised' narrative that we have been fed.

ByShyRaven · 07/12/2025 19:50

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 07/12/2025 19:44

Gay men are not demanding their marginalization is cured by forcing the world to accept them as women.

But that wasn’t that posters contention. They said “Men are not a marginalised group. Not even the ones with womanly feelings.”

Regardless of your viewpoint of female only spaces - their point is demonstrably false. It is possible for “men” in certain groups to be marginalised

5128gap · 07/12/2025 19:57

ByShyRaven · 07/12/2025 19:50

But that wasn’t that posters contention. They said “Men are not a marginalised group. Not even the ones with womanly feelings.”

Regardless of your viewpoint of female only spaces - their point is demonstrably false. It is possible for “men” in certain groups to be marginalised

Gay men are marginalised because they're gay not because they're men. If a man is marginalised it will never be on account of being a man. This is what is meant by 'men are not a marginalised group', not that no man can ever have another characteristic in addition to being a man that means he is marginalised.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 07/12/2025 19:59

ByShyRaven · 07/12/2025 19:50

But that wasn’t that posters contention. They said “Men are not a marginalised group. Not even the ones with womanly feelings.”

Regardless of your viewpoint of female only spaces - their point is demonstrably false. It is possible for “men” in certain groups to be marginalised

It's perfectly obvious that the comment was about men and boys in comparison with women and girls.

There are lots of reasons a group might be marginalised - e.g. sexuality, ethnicity, religious belief or lack of it, poverty, disability, age, social class.

Having a trans identity has led to a great deal of positive attention in recent years for some people, principally male. The balance is now shifting back a bit so that the needs of other marginalised groups are considered as well, and a good thing too.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 07/12/2025 20:01

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 19:36

Just stop. We’re talking about children, children that are already some of the most socially isolated there are.

Are we ? This thread is about the WI. Do you think children are joining the WI?

ThatCyanCat · 07/12/2025 20:02

TheKeatingFive · 07/12/2025 19:45

We know why, don't we?

Boys > Girls for these posters.

I just can't stand the way they wail and lament, accusing us of such evil and cruelty, and all the time they don't give a shit about women and girls. They talk about people and humanity and children, oh the children, and they don't think this includes women and girls. And we are the devil incarnate because we do. Sick to the back teeth of their hyperbole and hypocrisy.

TheKeatingFive · 07/12/2025 20:03

ThatCyanCat · 07/12/2025 20:02

I just can't stand the way they wail and lament, accusing us of such evil and cruelty, and all the time they don't give a shit about women and girls. They talk about people and humanity and children, oh the children, and they don't think this includes women and girls. And we are the devil incarnate because we do. Sick to the back teeth of their hyperbole and hypocrisy.

Exactly. The hypocrisy is off the charts.

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 20:04

What are you going to do with yourselves when this thread reaches 1000?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 07/12/2025 20:06

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 20:04

What are you going to do with yourselves when this thread reaches 1000?

Why do you care?
How does it affect you?

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 20:12

SternJoyousBeev2 · 07/12/2025 20:06

Why do you care?
How does it affect you?

The nastiness and continuous portrayal of being self imagined crusaders by posters who frequent these threads is nauseating, tiresome and concerning. We’re talking about a marginalised group of people who don’t have it easy. Some human kindness wouldn’t go amiss.

Some just pile on with self congratulatory nastiness all day. One does have to wonder if they actually have lives aside from doling out vileness - on a loop saying the same old shite.

ArabellaSaurus · 07/12/2025 20:13

Try leading by example, Singsing.

DonicaLewinsky · 07/12/2025 20:13

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 20:12

The nastiness and continuous portrayal of being self imagined crusaders by posters who frequent these threads is nauseating, tiresome and concerning. We’re talking about a marginalised group of people who don’t have it easy. Some human kindness wouldn’t go amiss.

Some just pile on with self congratulatory nastiness all day. One does have to wonder if they actually have lives aside from doling out vileness - on a loop saying the same old shite.

The lack of self awareness in this post is almost beautiful.

Boiledbeetle · 07/12/2025 20:14

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 19:34

The trans community is which is what this thread is focused on.

The thread title:

To think it is not at all sad that the Women's Institute is now only for actual women?

Women. The focus is women. Women getting their stuff back from men.

ArabellaSaurus · 07/12/2025 20:14

DonicaLewinsky · 07/12/2025 20:13

The lack of self awareness in this post is almost beautiful.

It does make me smile.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 07/12/2025 20:14

Where's the human kindness and basic decency in not letting women and girls have single-sex services, spaces, sports teams etc set up to give them something where they can be safe from male violence and perversion and get a break from male dominance?

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 20:14

DonicaLewinsky · 07/12/2025 20:13

The lack of self awareness in this post is almost beautiful.

Yeah whatever. 🙄

ThatCyanCat · 07/12/2025 20:14

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 20:04

What are you going to do with yourselves when this thread reaches 1000?

Hire the Red Arrows to write WOMEN AND GIRLS MATTER over London.

Boiledbeetle · 07/12/2025 20:15

ByShyRaven · 07/12/2025 19:43

So by your logic - gay men are not marginalised either?

Nope.

ArabellaSaurus · 07/12/2025 20:15

I'll be making merkin decorations for the christmas tree. You?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 07/12/2025 20:16

S1ngS1ng · 07/12/2025 20:12

The nastiness and continuous portrayal of being self imagined crusaders by posters who frequent these threads is nauseating, tiresome and concerning. We’re talking about a marginalised group of people who don’t have it easy. Some human kindness wouldn’t go amiss.

Some just pile on with self congratulatory nastiness all day. One does have to wonder if they actually have lives aside from doling out vileness - on a loop saying the same old shite.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

I see you have swallowed the hyperbolic pill again.

are women not marginalised and vulnerable?
Do you feel sorry for transwomen?

yellowspanner · 07/12/2025 20:16

It's the best thing the WI have done in a long time and I'm appalled at the Directors thinking otherwise . They should check with their membership . Everyone in my local WI agrees it's for women only and should not include men dressed as women or who think they're women or want to be women.
The High Court ruling was clear

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