Inappropriate message in DP’s leaving card?

[Helenavets]

DP had his final day in his job yesterday and got a lot of gifts and presents.

His card has been signed by all his colleagues, I noticed one message signed off by a female says ‘I will miss you my favourite DILFY colleague xxxx”

I asked who this was and she’s a single woman a similar age to him.

Am I reading a bit too much into this?

Maybe someone else wrote it as a joke.

@IsThisTheWaytoSlamMyPillow what does the ‘f’ stand for then, because otherwise that is well dodgy if see them as a father figure!

Dilfy doesn't mean father figure!

I did ask DP and he used the term banter too and said they usually have a laugh so it’s in keeping with this.

Mm sounds suspicious to me tbh.

If it was dodgy he'd probably have made sure you didn't see it.

No, DILF is the male equivalent of MILF. It stands for dad I'd like to fuck. Not sure why you think it doesn't?

She's saying she'd liked to have fucked him - not that she did!

Inappropriate to write this in a card.

It's an in joke and he's leaving anyway

Unless he starts seeing her despite not working together any more, it's nothing

What does the F stand for then?

No idea why this replied again to you!

MN blip

She's illiterate to boot.

What does it mean? What’s the Y for, ask your DP and report back.
I would think it’s just ‘banter’ too. If it does mean dad I want to fuck- that’s embarrassing as hell and she doesn’t mean it.

Also, whilst the acronym literally means Dad I'd Like To Fuck
DILF is used just common place as sexy/hot/attractive and doesn't necessarily literally mean they want to fuck

The Y is obviously to make in an adjective

I think it's a harmless joke. If slightly unsuitable for work!

@Helenavets Stuff like this is almost always a joke, and I'm sure if your husband ever had tried to show romantic intentions with this colleague, she would have been horrified.

I've seen this countless times before. Women makes sex joke. Man sees far too much into it. Women is horrified when man thinks woman is interested in him.

There's no indication that your husband has ever actually tried anything, but my point is that it's extremely unlikely that this woman actually has an attraction to him.

What's the Y for then ?

She is probably an office nutter with weird sense of humour. No one who is actually interested in your husband/ had an affair with him would write that. Imagine, the whole office would see that - why would she say it if she was serious - I would say its definitely a joke.

Even if it's banter, it's beyond cringe to write it in a leaving card.

This is the funniest thread with everyone arguing about its meaning. Lol

The Y is just to make the word cuter. It stands for nothing.

I also think it will have been a nod to some office conversation. It won't mean anything. People are just trying to be funny. Reading 50 "dear John, all the best" is just repetitive and boring. We have someone in our office who writes the most outrageous stuff in leaving cards.

I wouldn't worry about it. Not his fault that his collegue is vulgar. If he had anything to hid he wouldn't have let you see the card so don't give it any more thought

Banter, surely. Nobody would put it in if there was anything to it, not in front of colleagues, not in writing