Of course we have double standards. Some of us even use it to our advantage. Social media has started to change that dynamic though. There is a sort of public information campaign highlighting "our tricks" and a new generation of young men are now much more educated.
I don't know what the result will be in terms of societal change, but the shift can already be seen. Men no longer approach women in social settings. Young men are more likely to be single than in a relationship.
I think it's like the Corner Spider discovery. Back in the 1950's, in North America, significant numbers of people were being bitten by Black Window Spiders (or so everyone thought). People believed that the bites were occurring in outhouses, because Widow's liked to spin webs next to water sources that attracted insects.
The public health response was a national drive to install indoor plumbing. However, Reports of spider bites remained consistent, despite the "removal" of the obvious cause. It wasn't until a decade later that they discovered the Corner Spider was responsible for the bites, not the Widow. They were distracted by the reputation of the Widow, and overlooked the little brown spider hiding in the corner.
I think the narrative of "All Men" was pushed by the majority of us to justify our own behaviour. Now that the "outhouses" of relationships have been dismantled, are we only now beginning to see the true cause of much of the issues we blamed men for. Lesbian marriages have the highest rates of divorce. So even where men aren't involved, we end relationships in greater numbers.
So yeah, I think there's a whole lot of double standards that we either won't acknowledge, or we won't accept responsibility for.