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Can you break wind around others or do you hold it in!?

149 replies

lowdownuphigh · 29/10/2025 18:24

Oddly, I cannot seem to relax enough to fart when around others but when I leave work I get in my car and suddenly there is loads of trapped air coming out with ease. Is this normal? I'm not purposely holding it in when around others, I genuinely don't feel the need but then when alone I can trump away.

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Changeforsquizzers · 29/10/2025 18:27

Not sure which way to vote. I would never deliberately fart around anyone and think it’s good manners to hold it in until alone. Any other behaviour is pretty gross IMO

WhatIsTheCharge · 29/10/2025 18:33

Depends who it is and where I am 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

If I was at work, I’d do my utmost to hold it in and let it out when I go to the loo or outside by myself.

I’ll fart at home without a care in the world if it just my family at home.
I’ll fart in front of my best friend…..but that’s probably it! I’ll try and hold it in anywhere else 😂

Splendidbouquet · 29/10/2025 18:35

It shows you have manners OP.

There was a thread a wee while ago where the OP wanted to know how far into a relationship she could fart in front of her partner. I found it gross that someone actually saw farting infront of someone a sign of intimacy and affection.

EleanorReally · 29/10/2025 18:36

no i would not

Gowlett · 29/10/2025 18:36

We fart at home. In other company, no.

purple590 · 29/10/2025 18:42

I wouldn't fart at work but I fart at home, it's very odd to me that there are people that would give their husband a blow job but not fart in front of him. I can't imagine how these people do anything sexual. There's nowhere more anal than MN, mind you they'd probably happily rim their OH but then faint at the idea of using his toothbrush.

Pricelessadvice · 29/10/2025 18:46

Certain friends I fart no problem 😅

If it was people I didn’t know well, I’d sneak off somewhere!

Dollymylove · 29/10/2025 19:10

I fart at home and I do quite a lot of fart walking, when nobody is walking behind me 🤣🤣

Nolift · 29/10/2025 19:11

Absolutely nothing to do with whether I’m relaxed or not.

i don’t want to subject others to my farts so I hold them in!

Nolift · 29/10/2025 19:12

purple590 · 29/10/2025 18:42

I wouldn't fart at work but I fart at home, it's very odd to me that there are people that would give their husband a blow job but not fart in front of him. I can't imagine how these people do anything sexual. There's nowhere more anal than MN, mind you they'd probably happily rim their OH but then faint at the idea of using his toothbrush.

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that there are people that would give their husband a blow job but not fart in front of him. I can't imagine how these people do anything sexual.

you see giving someone a blow’s job and farting in front of them as basically the same?

Hufflemuff · 29/10/2025 19:14

I have Ulcerative colitis, so sometimes holding in a fart is agonisingly painful. So I let out a little puff into my cushioned chair at work. I have a private office, so its not so bad - but I have had to tell a colleague once or twice DO NOT ENTER. Its not nice and probably not that polite, but when its a medical condition theres not a lot you can do about it sometimes.

BeMintFatball · 29/10/2025 19:15

Dollymylove · 29/10/2025 19:10

I fart at home and I do quite a lot of fart walking, when nobody is walking behind me 🤣🤣

Do you do the sly look over your shoulder first to check there’s nobody behind? That’s what I do 😂

Changeforsquizzers · 29/10/2025 19:16

My farts smell quite fragrant but other peoples make me heave

Nolift · 29/10/2025 19:21

Changeforsquizzers · 29/10/2025 19:16

My farts smell quite fragrant but other peoples make me heave

They smell “fragrant” to you
but I very much doubt they smell pleasantly “fragrant” to anyone else!

OSTMusTisNT · 29/10/2025 19:23

Don't worry OP, once you get to around 50 sneezing acts like a safety release valve for every orifice.

TheZanyZebra · 29/10/2025 19:27

Nolift · 29/10/2025 19:12

that there are people that would give their husband a blow job but not fart in front of him. I can't imagine how these people do anything sexual.

you see giving someone a blow’s job and farting in front of them as basically the same?

the standards of some MN posters is amusing.

I am not sure I would even want to give a blow job to a man who farts in front of me and does not give me the same minimum respect he would give his work colleagues or a friend, but each to their own.

Changeforsquizzers · 29/10/2025 19:28

Nolift · 29/10/2025 19:21

They smell “fragrant” to you
but I very much doubt they smell pleasantly “fragrant” to anyone else!

No shit Sherlock 😀

TheZanyZebra · 29/10/2025 19:29

Splendidbouquet · 29/10/2025 18:35

It shows you have manners OP.

There was a thread a wee while ago where the OP wanted to know how far into a relationship she could fart in front of her partner. I found it gross that someone actually saw farting infront of someone a sign of intimacy and affection.

I guess some people must find that attractive, same as using the loo in front of each other.

I don't want to think about that, as long as they are 2 consenting adults, that's all they need 😂

newmama2023 · 29/10/2025 19:32

Ive been farting all day in the office. Had delicious soup and it made me very windy! Didnt smell though, so i just kept on letting them out!

SwingTheMonkey · 29/10/2025 19:33

Around strangers, work colleagues or extended family, never. In front of my immediate family sometimes but I’d at least try and make the effort to fart away from them. Husband is the same. My kids have no such reservations unfortunately.

Dramatic · 29/10/2025 19:35

I do at home in front of my husband and kids but no one else. I have IBS so sometimes it would be very painful to hold it in

Nolift · 29/10/2025 19:37

Changeforsquizzers · 29/10/2025 19:28

No shit Sherlock 😀

You indicated your fart are somehow pleasant for others too! 😆

LouH1981 · 29/10/2025 19:37

I’m 44. They come out whether I want them to or not, lol 😂

Changeforsquizzers · 29/10/2025 19:39

Nolift · 29/10/2025 19:37

You indicated your fart are somehow pleasant for others too! 😆

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I bet you have a sneaky sniff of yours when no one is looking.

ninjahamster · 29/10/2025 19:39

No, it’s disgusting!

I couldn’t fart in front of anyone and I detest it when people do in front of me.

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