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To want a South American husband

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Lostthebubblewand · 25/10/2025 21:10

Bored of dating. Just thinking how great it would be to ship in or import some sort of instant husband like via Amazon. Obviously they would have to consent too lol. No terrible unrealistic expectations nor would they need to be anything other than reliable, friendly and a bit of a laugh.
I wouldn’t even care if he had affairs.
Who would you marry if you had the choice? I’m going through a bit of a reggaeton phase hence the fetishisation of Latino men, I know it’s appalling. But I also think they would make good husbands. Plus be good looking.

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Carla786 · 20/11/2025 21:41

AUsernameChangeorTwooo · 26/10/2025 13:39

Not a surprise. Most are awful at sex, enough for it to be a stereotype really. I wonder if it is abroad! In fact I’ve heard of men finding pleasing a woman a turn off!

Plenty are misogynistic and I think in worse ways than described in the thread.
Obviously a personal taste thing but I think many are very feminine these days - not for me. Personally I find a man who wants to take care of/ provide for his family (wife & kids) extremely sexy.
And just in my experience they lack a certain charisma and expect women to fawn at their feet (and we often do??).

Perhaps immigration will cause British men to pull their socks up!!

Yes not all British men - but vast majority!

What 'worse' ways do you think British men tend to be misogynistic?

Feminine how? You mean preferring to play video games than work, not very ambitious? That kind of thing?

Awful at sex? Yes, British being undersexed was a stereotype because the Victorians liked to seem prudish (though they often were not behind closed doors). But it wasn't in the earthier Georgian, Restoration or medieval etc eras. Is it really true now? Men often shirk female pleasure, but I don't think that's a British thing.

Carla786 · 20/11/2025 22:19

Swiftasthewind · 26/10/2025 12:01

I know this is a pretty common thing for white women but I have a big thing for men from Africa. I keep thinking about booking a flight to somewhere like Nigeria and seeing how many hookups I can go for in two weeks.

I probably wouldn’t tell anyone when I returned though! 😓

Nigerian rape rates are high, you should be aware of safety.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=vc.bridgew.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi%3Farticle%3D1221%26context%3Djiws&ved=2ahUKEwiWyM6I4YGRAxXSdUEAHSB7D1oQFnoECFAQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0a_HA3x7ck_wxNfag3bpRV

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-52889965.amp

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fvc.bridgew.edu%2Fcgi%2Fviewcontent.cgi%3Farticle%3D1221%26context%3Djiws&usg=AOvVaw0a_HA3x7ck_wxNfag3bpRV&ved=2ahUKEwiWyM6I4YGRAxXSdUEAHSB7D1oQFnoECFAQAQ

StayClass · 24/11/2025 23:45

StrongLikeMamma · 31/10/2025 18:16

Yep this is completely nuts.

Absolutely nuts. It's this kind of thing that lands us with "happy holidays" or policing women's head attire. Your average person of a different race and or faith will plough their own furrow, they don't need white cheerleaders.
Have your babies with someone you love or someone you just think will make an excellent father or even just sperm out of a bank. Picking your man to make babies of a certain colour is just beyond words.

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