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I don't want to go to work tomorrow because.......

288 replies

Lanzarotelady · 05/10/2025 15:01

I have an essay to write
I would rather practice my piano
I don't want to work any more
I want to sit under a blanket and watch Netflix
I am so over this working for a living lark

Why else don't you want to go to work tomorrow?

OP posts:
TheChosenTwo · 05/10/2025 19:00

Because I worked all weekend!
Not something that happens often but there was an event on - was actually quite fun and I’ll take TOIL later on in the week. I actually enjoy my job but I’m not long home and I’m kinda tired.

adviceatthislatestage · 05/10/2025 19:00

Like a PP, we too are short staffed- following a big round of VR (public sector).

Remaining staff are fed up, burnt out and resentful. My manager and I have to try and motivate the team to do more with so much less.

I hate my job now, which is a shame because at one time it was so good and the team were much more connected.

mumtoFF · 05/10/2025 19:01

Because I’m just so so tired of it.
It’s so political and demanding.
I get zero time to ‘do’ anything during the working day due to people ringing me all day or a calendar full of chaotic meetings jumping from topic to topic. I finish at 6ish with a mountain of emails to sift through and actions from the day.
Then work till 10-11 most evenings and at least one day on the weekend.
I’m tired of always either working or in zombie mode recovering from working.
But I’d never get as good a job (pay/seniority wise) elsewhere and elsewhere could be just as bad. And I want this job. Just not in its current form.
Whew that felt good to write down.

Iris2020 · 05/10/2025 19:02

Because my house is a tip and I've had no time to clean it.
Because I have barely had any sleep this weekend.
Because I love my family dearly but I'm desperate for a day all by myself.

Twinstudy · 05/10/2025 19:04

Because it sucks. Everyone who was decent has left and I'm trying to carry everyone else. I'm tired and, honestly, I can't be arsed.

I'm seriously considering calling in sick for a couple days. I won't but I like to imagine I might

Sub2Mumma · 05/10/2025 19:05

I don’t want to go to work tomorrow as I’ve got terrible bowel issues being investigated at the moment and absolutely exhausted with it 🥴

twinkletoesimnot · 05/10/2025 19:07

Shallwesay2pm · 05/10/2025 15:05

I don't want to go to work tomorrow because.....
I have been ill all weekend so haven't enjoyed my time off, I feel like I have been robbed of my days off !!!

Me too!
plus it’s open day, I’m struggling every day with the level of SEN in my class, I hate the science unit I’m teaching at the minute, I’m on break duty and I haven’t been food shopping so won’t even have a nice lunch to look forward to😭

ChrisReaPoppedAnEggInMyBath · 05/10/2025 19:07

Because last weekend I was ill and had to work through it, albeit from my bed. The week has been intense and full on with a lot of pressure and I've often felt like I couldn't breathe. Yet again this weekend, I've worked both days and I don't think I can face another insanely busy week.

SparklyBrickViper · 05/10/2025 19:08

Because it will be Monday and a whole new week stretches ahead.

I’ve made the worst decision of my working life accepting this job, and I feel physically sick thinking about another week of battling people who don’t want me there and are waiting for me to fail.

Only another four months before I can move to another post and put this nightmare behind me.

Sammyspurs · 05/10/2025 19:15

fromthechandelier · 05/10/2025 18:49

Same here, I hear you. And because I'm public sector I get the double whammy of Joe Public telling me by default how all the ills of the world are my fault. Last week I was told I was a Nazi in a past life.

If you ever want to vent on work stuff feel free to PM me!

Thank you for the reply!
I’ll happily have DMs from you to vent about work stuff!
they must use Nazis as a theme when having a go at H&S professionals. I’m often called Hitler 🤦🏻‍♀️

Crazycatladywithnocats · 05/10/2025 19:20

Lanzarotelady · 05/10/2025 15:01

I have an essay to write
I would rather practice my piano
I don't want to work any more
I want to sit under a blanket and watch Netflix
I am so over this working for a living lark

Why else don't you want to go to work tomorrow?

I have come to the end of a two week spell of leave, part of which was spent in Lanzarote. It’s my first day back at work tomorrow and I want to get it out of the way. I’ll be more with it on Tuesday.

FluentOP · 05/10/2025 19:20

So sorry. Big hugs ❤️❤️

Dahlia1234 · 05/10/2025 19:21

I don't want to go... I'm sick of working.... My work bores me... I'd rather be at home doing homey things... I'm tired...

Tezza1 · 05/10/2025 19:26

GeorgeClooneyshouldhavemarriedme · 05/10/2025 15:09

Because I'm a teacher and tomorrow I'm taking dozens of excitable 9 year olds on a residential trip.

Help!!!!

Been there, done that. It can be like hell on earth, can't it.

Btowngirl · 05/10/2025 19:29

I don’t want to go to work tomorrow because it’s my first day back from maternity leave and I just want to stay home cuddling DD 😭😭

ThankGodItsAutumn · 05/10/2025 19:32

Because it's probably going to be the same old nonsense all day and then I'm back to working a second job in the evening (same place, different department) so 14 hour day for me.

Just have to keep plodding for the time being as planning to relocate next year so don't want to change jobs now and then again in six months time.

fivetriangulartrees · 05/10/2025 19:34

Because a weekend at home with two shrieking children makes me crave a day of silent contemplation while eating biscuits, alone.

And like PPs I can't believe I haven't yet earned the right to do whatever I want with my time.

jillybean72 · 05/10/2025 19:35

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 05/10/2025 15:20

I honestly just can't be fucked

Yes exactly this..I'm tired

Jewelbeetle · 05/10/2025 19:36

Hollowvoice · 05/10/2025 15:07

Because I need time off life to concentrate on work but it doesn't work like that

Yes, you’ve explained it so well

allmymonkeys · 05/10/2025 19:37

The dog ate my car keys.

FajitaFriday · 05/10/2025 19:40

Because my alarm is set for 2am to start at 3 - to do four hours work to fly home again for the school run. 6 days a week 😭😵‍💫

tsmainsqueeze · 05/10/2025 19:42

i am working 6 days 😩and even though i like my job i just don't want to work any more as i have had enough .
I really want to clean the cutlery drawer out.
I put the winter duvet on and my bed is heavenly and i just want to stay in it and read.
I may want to spend some of the time in bed with my husband who is home tomorrow.....

borage13 · 05/10/2025 19:43

I’m coming down with something
i want to go for a proper run
my darling OH is in hospital 2 hours away after a leg surgery and had a small stroke this morning
Im so stressed my son has noticed and is unhappy
i just moved house and I need to buy sofas
I’m so tired and I just want to spend the day with my OH in hospital and sit on my sofa with my cat and look after my family

sumayyah · 05/10/2025 19:43

My "work" tomorrow consists of cajoling a young adult through working out at the gym for a few hours ........ I'm too fat for that
Then I can take them shopping and help find all the yummy treats they want to buy....... again I'm too fat to stand looking at food I shouldn't be eating

tsmainsqueeze · 05/10/2025 19:44

Btowngirl · 05/10/2025 19:29

I don’t want to go to work tomorrow because it’s my first day back from maternity leave and I just want to stay home cuddling DD 😭😭

You win ! no better reason🤗