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To think the Manchester terrorist attack today shows the growing Anti-Semitism

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Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 21:17

... and how Jews are not protected in this country.

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CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:33

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 14:30

I'm not convinced that is what they mean from this sentence 'you think you can just turn up and produce a white child and insist it's the same as the indigenous people?' the fact my baby would be white seems to be the main issue here, their skin wouldn't match that of the indigenous people so I couldn't insist it was the same nationality. When that baby grows up, even if it spoke the same language, ate the same food, made themselves a valuable member of the community they would still be white and would never be allowed to consider themselves white Pakistani according to that poster

It's even stranger when you consider that Pakistani is a recent construct dating back less than 100 years to its foundation in 1947.

KTheGrey · 03/10/2025 14:33

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:20

See, here is the problem. Even local people are confused that British is the nationality, English is the ethnicity. Anyone can be British, I agree, but English is an ethnicity like Japanese, Han Chinese, Kazakhs, Finns, Ashkenazi Jews for that matter.

You shouldn’t deny that ethnicity is real.

Words mean what the law and/or the whole cultural discourse agrees they mean. In addition English is pretty mixed up - I am English because I was born and bred in England, not Scotland Ireland or Wales, but ethnically I am Welsh, Scottish, English, Scandi and Basque.I have extended family members with different, wider world ethnicities. Hence, Humpty Dumpty, a person can be English whatever their ethnicity. Unless you have buy in for your definitions from the whole cultural discourse and I would say you have not.

Also my passport says UK, the world’s least easy to change to an adjective nationality, because the UK is Wales England Scotland and Northern Ireland but Great Britain doesn’t include NI. Sigh. We are so not America.

Verv · 03/10/2025 14:33

nomas · 03/10/2025 14:28

You type like you didn't make racist generalisations about Muslims in the post that got you deleted.

That's why posts should remain, so you can't now deny what you said.

I'm not going to deny anything that I've said.
What would you like me to repeat for the record?

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:33

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 14:32

Ok, but Palestinian isn’t an ethnicity either, yet people call them ‘indigenous’ and say they’re more entitled to the land because of this?

Yes Palestinian is more fuzzy.

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 14:34

To me ‘English’ just means you were born and grew up here, and that England has had the greater impact culturally on your life than anywhere else. It isn’t dependent on skin colour.

Most people in England are Anglo-Saxon, which is an ethnicity.

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:34

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/10/2025 14:27

I’m white English, born in South London in the 60s. Some of my forefathers and mothers were black Jamaicans, 8,9 and 10 generations ago.
Please, oh wise American, enlighten me as to whether I qualify as English?

And? I dated a Japanese guy that was a quarter Korean. Does this mean that Japanese as an ethnicity is not real?

It’s honestly just as silly as saying sex isn’t real because intersex people exist.

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 14:34

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:54

I'm am English, I am also British. I can also consider a baby born with Pakistani ethnicity to be English.... Does that blow your mind?
I also accept people who are English that have a baby in Wales or Scotland that their baby is Welsh or Scottish... We would all also be considered British

I know the concept of the UK , great Britain, England, Scotland, Wales, NI are difficult to get your head around if you're American, it doesn't mean that you know better than the people who live here

Well said

YouveGotNoBloodyIdea · 03/10/2025 14:35

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 13:57

So, quite similar to many fundamentalist Christian groups, then? 4 IS states don’t even have a minimum age of consent to marry, FFS.

Yet we don’t believe all Christians are threats to western values. In fact a previous poster suggested British values are based on Christian values.

So what is it about Islam that makes you so certain it’s the entire religion at fault?

If ANY fundamentalist Christian group had the kind of reach and power that radical islamists have then too bloody right would most of us be calling them out.

But they don't. They don't have that reach and power in the UK (they do in some US states) so they are not the problem WE have to deal with.

Our problem is radical Islam and the importation of beliefs and values which have no place in our liberal democracy.

The useful idiots, marching with their "made in china" Keffiyeh, Queers for Palestine banners and calling for a Caliphate wouldn't last two minutes under the Islamic rule of law they are calling for - any more than they would under a rule of law decided by bonkers evangelical Christians.

ShazMidlands · 03/10/2025 14:35

I am sick and tired of the islamophobia expressed everywhere. I am muslim and most of us are decent people who do not sympathise with terrorist organisations like Hamas. Even on the express site which is a right wing paper like the daily fail, we can see more than HALF of muslims do not support terrorist organisations. I am sorry for the people murdered yesterday but please stop with the islamophobia and bigotry

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/1885871/british-muslims-support-hamas-israel-war

Shocking survey shows how many British Muslims sympathise with Hamas

A new survey found that nearly half - 46 percent - of British Muslims sympathise with Hamas while a third wished for Shariah law to be implemented in the UK

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/1885871/british-muslims-support-hamas-israel-war

Honish · 03/10/2025 14:35

nomas · 03/10/2025 14:27

I think if you got out of your little insulated bubble you would see there is a a lot of intermarriage between Pakistani (and Indian) and other nationalities. In the 2011 census, 10% of Pakistanis were married outside of their ethnic group. It will be even more now.

I've met lots. And many of those kids do spend a lot of time in Pakistan.

Do you really think Pakistani people don't accept Imran Khan and Jemima Khan's sons as Pakistanis?

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Why are you now making this about mixed heritage people? You haven't been able to answer what I said one iota. Instead you've tried to turn it into being about people of mixed heritage in a clumsy attempt to deflect from the abject nonsense you were wittering on about. You were trying to say that a white european baby born in Pakistan would by default be Pakistani and would be accepted as so without question, would be just as Pakistani as anyone whose DNA, heritage and culture was the culmination of many hundreds years of embedded ancestry.

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 14:36

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:33

Yes Palestinian is more fuzzy.

Nobody seems to have problems in saying they’re the indigenous people and as such are inherently entitled to the land and full say over who goes there and what happens to it. Replace ‘Palestinian’ with ‘indigenous Brits’ and you’ve got something from the Reform handbook.

Jujujudo · 03/10/2025 14:36

nomas · 03/10/2025 14:29

So you would tell Ian Wright, born and bred here and who calls himself an Englishman, that he isn't English?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ian_Wright

I actually don’t know how to answer this. I mean if his personal identity is English then that’s his identity. I identify as English but because I grew up within a Jewish community I also identify as Jewish culturally as well. I don’t think if anyone asked me where I was from I’d say anything other than English. Saying that, my children are half Yemenite and I guess i don’t look English to others because they always say, yes but where are you originally from? I’m third generation English, so I’m English. But if pushed I sometimes say I’m Jewish. Again, that’s the result of having a diverse society isn’t it? It’s like people presuming that Jews are white, when there are brown and black Jews too. It’s education, listening, being open and accepting and trying not to get offended if someone is trying to understand.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:37

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/10/2025 14:27

I’m white English, born in South London in the 60s. Some of my forefathers and mothers were black Jamaicans, 8,9 and 10 generations ago.
Please, oh wise American, enlighten me as to whether I qualify as English?

It's so funny isn't it, this US lecturing trend. Look at those supposed patriots kowtowing the Elon Muskrat on the March. The organisations trying to influence our culture with their money.

It's like that BBC program about Texans forsaking godless America to become Russian Orthodox converts.

Everyone should read the book recently published: Vassal State, about how US is trying to influence us.

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 14:37

ShazMidlands · 03/10/2025 14:35

I am sick and tired of the islamophobia expressed everywhere. I am muslim and most of us are decent people who do not sympathise with terrorist organisations like Hamas. Even on the express site which is a right wing paper like the daily fail, we can see more than HALF of muslims do not support terrorist organisations. I am sorry for the people murdered yesterday but please stop with the islamophobia and bigotry

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/1885871/british-muslims-support-hamas-israel-war

I honestly don’t think reposting an Express article which shows nearly half of Muslims support Hamas, is in your best interests.

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/10/2025 14:37

MyKhakiPanda · 03/10/2025 14:30

This discussion over who's English or not is crackers! England, the country populated by people of goodness knows how many other countries and tribes and ethnicities over hundreds and hundreds of years suddenly has rules around who can be English or not, mainly based on skin colour?? get a grip!

I don’t need to get a grip?
The poster I was replying to does.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:38

Honish · 03/10/2025 14:35

Why are you now making this about mixed heritage people? You haven't been able to answer what I said one iota. Instead you've tried to turn it into being about people of mixed heritage in a clumsy attempt to deflect from the abject nonsense you were wittering on about. You were trying to say that a white european baby born in Pakistan would by default be Pakistani and would be accepted as so without question, would be just as Pakistani as anyone whose DNA, heritage and culture was the culmination of many hundreds years of embedded ancestry.

Pakistan's only been around since 1947, remember

ShazMidlands · 03/10/2025 14:38

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 14:37

I honestly don’t think reposting an Express article which shows nearly half of Muslims support Hamas, is in your best interests.

My point is most of us don't and my thoughts are with the Jewish community

Digdongdoo · 03/10/2025 14:38

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:34

And? I dated a Japanese guy that was a quarter Korean. Does this mean that Japanese as an ethnicity is not real?

It’s honestly just as silly as saying sex isn’t real because intersex people exist.

It's so American to want to force everyone into rigid little boxes.

Jujujudo · 03/10/2025 14:39

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:33

Yes Palestinian is more fuzzy.

It’s a bit like areas of Russia and Eastern Europe where borders constantly changed. Most Palestinians are originally from Egypt, Syria and Jordan, and those borders changed at various points in history.

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:39

ShazMidlands · 03/10/2025 14:35

I am sick and tired of the islamophobia expressed everywhere. I am muslim and most of us are decent people who do not sympathise with terrorist organisations like Hamas. Even on the express site which is a right wing paper like the daily fail, we can see more than HALF of muslims do not support terrorist organisations. I am sorry for the people murdered yesterday but please stop with the islamophobia and bigotry

https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/1885871/british-muslims-support-hamas-israel-war

Why was this your first sentence though? I haven’t seen Islamophobia here.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:40

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:34

And? I dated a Japanese guy that was a quarter Korean. Does this mean that Japanese as an ethnicity is not real?

It’s honestly just as silly as saying sex isn’t real because intersex people exist.

Japanese are very exclusive in that they're sceptical any foreigner can become properly Japanese. I wouldn't like to be just like them, more controls on migrants, yes.

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/10/2025 14:40

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:34

And? I dated a Japanese guy that was a quarter Korean. Does this mean that Japanese as an ethnicity is not real?

It’s honestly just as silly as saying sex isn’t real because intersex people exist.

What?

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 14:40

ShazMidlands · 03/10/2025 14:38

My point is most of us don't and my thoughts are with the Jewish community

46% is a very high number. It may not be the majority, but it nearly is. Can you see why this does not go down well with the British public? If, for example, 46% of Brits thought British Muslims should be deported (to where is anyone’s guess), would you find that a worryingly high number?

HarrietPierce · 03/10/2025 14:40

CleopatraSelene · Today 14:23

CleopatraSelene · Today 14:23

HarrietPierce · Today 14:22
Verv ·
"Ah yes, the UN, always reliable.
They given out any of the food thats been stockpiled in Gaza yet or are they still kicking their heels refusing to collect it and pretending that Israel is preventing aid from getting through."

You are just spouting Israeli propaganda there.

No you're spouting Hamas propaganda.

You are ridiculous now.

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/10/2025 14:41

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:39

Why was this your first sentence though? I haven’t seen Islamophobia here.

Where is “here”, please? Do you mean this thread or where you live (sorry, have read all of your comments).

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