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To think the Manchester terrorist attack today shows the growing Anti-Semitism

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Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 21:17

... and how Jews are not protected in this country.

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Unfinishedkitchn · 03/10/2025 13:16

I haven't read the full thread so apologies if it has already been posted. The family of the terrorist put out a statement condemning the anti-semitic attack carried out by their son. There were no if's or but's in their statement. We should all condemn the attack without feeling the need to add a caveat to it.

Winter2020 · 03/10/2025 13:16

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 13:15

I mean it literally is the right of every British woman to do those things
No-one is going to arrest them
They may be facing domestic abuse and being controlled by a partner/family member or whatever but it doesn't mean its not their right and that the government would say otherwise

It's not the Government stopping them is it. It's oppressive culture that does not align with British values of freedom and security.

legrandcolbert · 03/10/2025 13:17

Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 23:46

It's so bloody predictable, that when talking about a terrorist attack on the Jewish community ,instead of condemning the attack and offering sympathy, people try to:
A) minimise
B) Justify

I can't imagine this would happen if it was a terrorist attack on any other community.

The reactions here are symptomatic of the growing Anti-Semitism in the UK

Admittedly I am still working my way through this (in parts, absolutely disgraceful) thread. I concur with you wholeheartedly and as I have stated on other threads about antisemitisim in the UK, it is endemic, Mumsnet is riddled with it.

The fact of the matter is that antisemitism has been on the rise for decades now, and the past 23 months have further inflamed the situation. Many have used what is happening in Israel and Gaza as a justification for conflating Israeli foreign policy/government, with Jews full stop.

There is also a huge misunderstanding about radical Islam. Hamas will not be satisfied until not just the Middle East is free from Jews, but the rest of the world too. And once they've removed Jews, they will come for anyone else who does not follow Islam. And for those shouting genocide in Gaza, no, no it is not. If Israel would have wanted a genocide, every single Gazan would be dead long along. I do not think many on here do understand now only how much all Palestinians hate Jews, but, well, pretty much anyone who is not a radical like themselves. Just look at what is going on in Nigeria, way more Christians have been killed than Gazans. That really is a genocide.

The media is culpable for what happening in Manchester yesterday as well as the endemic antisemitism in the UK. There is huge bias in their reporting about Gaza and pro-Palestine. And then there is Mark Carney, Keir Starmer and other countries who have chosen to recognise a Palestinian state. All they have done is show the terrorisim pays off. The terrorists have won, and now know that if they continue, they will be rewarded further. What a dreadful message to convey to those Jews caught up in October 7. I strongly feel that these things absolutely fed into what happened in Manchester yesterday, and it will continue to rise.

It is utterly horrifying. I honestly hoped we would not see something like this in the UK. I am heartbroken.

EdithStourton · 03/10/2025 13:18

Kendodd · 03/10/2025 12:41

I skimmed that link. Didn't see any schools. The poster said Catholics made bomb threats to schools, and she was old enough to remember them all, an air of surprise that others couldn't. I don't remember Catholics (interesting use of Catholic not IRA) blowing up schools or threatening to do so. Forgive me if I missed it, but I didn't see any in the list you posted either.

At once stage, I went to school in an army town. I clearly remember that at least once, there was a bomb threat made against the school, apparently by the IRA, which was credible enough for us all to be evacuated from our classrooms to stand around on the tennis courts while the buildings were searched by I think troops, but might have been police.

ETA, this was in England.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 03/10/2025 13:18

anotherside · 03/10/2025 13:11

I expect the British government’s mealy mouthed criticism of the genocide being perpetrated by Israel in Gaza has possibly if anything actually made things worse in terms of antisemitism in the UK. What the British government should have been making repeating all along is that Israel’s genocide in what was Gaza is abhorrent (I saw “was” because the region is now transformed - in huge parts just a wasteland of rubble) , but that British Jews bear no responsibility whatsoever for the actions of the Israeli government (or at least no more than other British citizen, who have collectively failed to pressure their government into a fitting response).

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Or they could have turned round, roundly condemned the atrocities carried out by Hamas, condemned them using women and children and hospital patients as human shields, acknowledged Israel was stuck between a rock and a hard place in how to respond and condemned the pro Hamas rallies in the UK as what they are and treated attending one as the hate crime it is. Instead they reward terrorism by recognising an area run by terrorists as a state.

PraisebetoGod · 03/10/2025 13:19

Jujujudo · 03/10/2025 13:05

So I was correct first time.

@MyKhakiPanda you are an absolute disgrace. Shame on you.

I'm sorry juju. This thread after yesterdays attack...I cannot put into words. I am just so sorry.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 03/10/2025 13:20

EdithStourton · 03/10/2025 13:18

At once stage, I went to school in an army town. I clearly remember that at least once, there was a bomb threat made against the school, apparently by the IRA, which was credible enough for us all to be evacuated from our classrooms to stand around on the tennis courts while the buildings were searched by I think troops, but might have been police.

ETA, this was in England.

Edited

I went to a catholic school in the 80s/90s and we also had bomb threats made against us. I recall it was a thing.

DialSquare · 03/10/2025 13:20

nomas · 03/10/2025 13:12

Someone said that white people are called racist for wanting to live with like minded people and you said you agree.

I don't need to insinuate, you said it just fine yourself. And topping it off by people telling people to fuck off.

I agree with the part about not everyone wanting to integrate. Maybe I should have made that clearer. But you obviously didn’t read all of my comment as you would have seen that I said the community wasn’t just white which I assumed did make it clear. So why did you feel the need to accuse me of moving out because of brown people moving in?

And I’d tell anyone accusing me of racism to fuck off. You know nothing about me.

nomas · 03/10/2025 13:20

LittleMG · 03/10/2025 12:59

I think it’s the responsibility of Jewish people to call out Israel actually it’s not something you can stay silent on it’s gone past that. Silence is edging towards complicity now.

The onus shouldn't be on individuals to speak out about a country thousands of miles away.

Jewish people in the UK don't have Netanyahu on speed dial.

I think many Jewish people in the UK have intrinsic ties to Israel but that doesn't make them accountable for the Israeli government.

jacksonlamb · 03/10/2025 13:21

Regarding different religions and integration, I can share my experience of working at several 'non faith' junior schools where we had children from a range of religious backgrounds: Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Sikh, Hindu and atheist. As part of the curriculum children had RI lessons where they were given an introduction to each of the religions; this was done in a very neutral way, eg 'These people believe that...this is their holy book...this is how they worship etc'. It saddened me that, whereas all the Christian, Jewish, Sikh and Hindu parents were happy for their children to learn about other religions, the majority of the Muslim parents demanded that their children should only learn about Islam. The exceptions were Muslim refugees from Eastern Europe who seemed far more open minded and tolerant. It seems to me that if Muslim children were allowed to learn about other religions, they would realise that all faiths have a tremendous amount in common and they might be less aggressive (when adult) towards 'infidels': the unpleasant way in which some Muslims abuse westerners.
Interestingly the natural inclination of all the children was to make friends with anyone regardless of religion. They are taught to hate.

Unfinishedkitchn · 03/10/2025 13:21

I read a comment earlier about Jewish people should make an effort to integrate more or along those lines. The neighbours of the victim's from yesterday's attack have been describing what wonderful people they were. One of them used to even buy Eid gifts for his Muslim neighbour's children. Yet he was mindlessly attacked just for being Jewish. We need to speak out against this heinous attack together.

anotherside · 03/10/2025 13:22

clipboardz · 03/10/2025 12:51

Absolutely nuts-we don’t ask British Chinese people to condemn the Chinese government, nor British Indians or Pakistanis to condemn anything those governments are involved in. So why is it different for Jews?

I've never seen answer or even acknowledgment that it's different for jews

I agree it’s absolutely wrong. However, a point of difference is that senior Israeli figures frequently equate criticism of Israel with being anti Jewish ie antisemitic full stop. There are obviously hundreds or even thousands of examples of this over the years, but as I live in Ireland I’ll put this one from last year, with the Israeli foreign minister calling the leader of Ireland “antisemitic”


Last night Ireland's anti-Semitic Prime Minister Simon Harris said in an interview 'Ireland is not anti-Israel but Ireland is absolutely anti the starvation of children'," Mr Saar said.
https://www.rte.ie/news/ireland/2024/1217/1486987-ireland-israel/
….

So to that extent, certain Israeli leaders are frequently trying to create animosity between Jewish people and their respective governments on a global level, not just on an “Israelis vs X” level. This then in turn creates the (unreasonable) expectation or perception that Jewish people globally are politically all on the same page.

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 13:22

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 12:28

I assume they think that Jewish people in Britain support what is going on in Gaza, then.

I assume by what you say, that that assumption is wrong.
Would it possible to make the marchers aware of this?
There are marches in areas of the country where very few Jewish people live eg Derby, Lincoln, Grimsby, as well as those with still only moderate amounts of Jewish people eg Birmingham, Liverpool, Brighton. I wonder if that makes a difference to anyone's thoughts.

I'm not saying I support or don't support. The notion that every Jew has to declare their politics is offensive and hateful.

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 13:22

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 11:21

I love this faux confusion.

If someone is described as [country]-[country], in theory both parts should be about the same thing - either citizenship or ethnicity. They’re both just names of countries after all.

So why is it that ‘Pakistani-British’ is understood as Pakistani ethnicity and British nationality? And we’ve now got to the point where it’s considered a microaggression to even ask where someone is originally from, because it might imply they’re not ‘really British’.

But people who imply all Brits are Anglo Saxon are the problem here, not anyone else.

By ethnically British, people actually mean Anglo-Saxon. So the correct term would be ‘Anglo-Saxon British’, like ‘British Asian’ or ‘Black British’.

cordialzempy · 03/10/2025 13:24

nomas · 03/10/2025 12:15

You said the 3 schools are mainly Muslim, but if I look at the pupil demographics, of for example one of the 3 schools, it says the biggest group are White- Other, then African, then Mixed and then White British.

Edited

I’m not sure that this is the gotcha you think it is! You’re naming ethnic backgrounds, not religions, and the first two ethnicities are frequently Muslim (eg Albanians, Kosovans, Algerians, Moroccans).

I totally get that you don’t want what I said to be true - I don’t want it to be true! But I was trying to explain some reasons that are behind the statistics about Muslim children being in secular state schools and Jewish children far less so.

You yourself posted a link that proved that the open day debacle was true, and yet you used it to try to say that day was night. What is your agenda? Why are you so determined to disprove peoples’ lived experiences?

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 13:24

clipboardz · 03/10/2025 12:56

But I am not sure it is right to assume that all the threats are targeted at Jewish people.

Why would all the attacks need to target Jewish people in order for Jewish people to be scared?

**

That was the implication in the post I was responding too. They didn't say 'everyone is scared.' They said, 'Jewish people are scared.'
Terrorist attacks may be targeted at everyone. Jewish people are scared -yes. But Muslim people are scared, Sikh people are scared. Christian people are scared. I could go on. I won't assume it is just one group that is scared. Because if I do, it seems like they may be the only target.
Hope that helps.

nomas · 03/10/2025 13:24

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 13:22

But people who imply all Brits are Anglo Saxon are the problem here, not anyone else.

By ethnically British, people actually mean Anglo-Saxon. So the correct term would be ‘Anglo-Saxon British’, like ‘British Asian’ or ‘Black British’.

Thanks, glad you understood, I couldn't make heads nor tails of it.

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 13:25

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 11:22

I should warn you, I just had to play a few rounds of pigeon chess with people who told me I was a terrible person for finding this post offensive too (and I'm not Jewish).

Also, I'm sorry you and other Jewish posters had to see it. I considered reporting it, but, I don't know, it seemed very illuminating in its way.

No one said you were a terrible person, but people did point out that castigating the poster rather than explaining where she had been offensive, wasn’t the best way forward.

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 13:25

jacksonlamb · 03/10/2025 13:21

Regarding different religions and integration, I can share my experience of working at several 'non faith' junior schools where we had children from a range of religious backgrounds: Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Sikh, Hindu and atheist. As part of the curriculum children had RI lessons where they were given an introduction to each of the religions; this was done in a very neutral way, eg 'These people believe that...this is their holy book...this is how they worship etc'. It saddened me that, whereas all the Christian, Jewish, Sikh and Hindu parents were happy for their children to learn about other religions, the majority of the Muslim parents demanded that their children should only learn about Islam. The exceptions were Muslim refugees from Eastern Europe who seemed far more open minded and tolerant. It seems to me that if Muslim children were allowed to learn about other religions, they would realise that all faiths have a tremendous amount in common and they might be less aggressive (when adult) towards 'infidels': the unpleasant way in which some Muslims abuse westerners.
Interestingly the natural inclination of all the children was to make friends with anyone regardless of religion. They are taught to hate.

Not in my experience. I worked in schools with large Muslim cohorts. Everyone learned everything.The only ones that didn't were Jehovah's Witnesses and Plymouth Brethren. We had quite a few.

Unfinishedkitchn · 03/10/2025 13:25

Unfinishedkitchn · 03/10/2025 13:21

I read a comment earlier about Jewish people should make an effort to integrate more or along those lines. The neighbours of the victim's from yesterday's attack have been describing what wonderful people they were. One of them used to even buy Eid gifts for his Muslim neighbour's children. Yet he was mindlessly attacked just for being Jewish. We need to speak out against this heinous attack together.

I am a Muslim and I can tell you that not even all Muslims will go out of their way to buy Eid presents for their neighbours kids who are Muslim. I mean how much more could he have integrated? And even if he chose not to, that wouldn't have stopped his murder yesterday. I feel a great sense of anger and sadness right now and I openly say not in my name!

legrandcolbert · 03/10/2025 13:25

SlimSchadee · 03/10/2025 00:09

Thank you @Longingdreamer for starting this thread. I am sure that while every Jewish person in the UK is heartbroken, grief-stricken and angered by today’s terrorist attack in Manchester, I am equally sure that not one of us is at all shocked or surprised.

Week after week for two years now the various police forces have allowed hundreds of thousands of people to march with vile slogans and intimidating messages. While peaceful protest and assembly are certainly allowed, there were thousands of incidents of proscribed, illegal language and imagery being used and the Met and other forces seemed to always have a reason why they couldn’t make the arrests they were meant to.

The atmosphere of continual threats to and intimidation of Jews in the UK contributed to this directly and has been allowed to flourish.

This is on the current and past UK governments who did not get a handle on it and were not able to manage their own police forces.

My first thought when I heard about today’s horrific murders was that if the terrorist hadn’t been killed, there would have been plenty of people around who would have celebrated him.

The way that the Jews in this country have been treated is absolutely disgusting. Hearing Kier Starmer’s ridiculous speech this evening pledging support made my blood boil.

And in echoes of Rochester and Southport, it took 12 hours for the government to admit that the murderer was in fact an Islamist.

We are living in a horrific age.

.

🙌🏼

clipboardz · 03/10/2025 13:26

@anotherside I don't understand your point. Nigel Farage says all sorts of things as does Boris, Keir etc I'm not asked to answer for any of them.

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 13:27

LittleMG · 03/10/2025 12:59

I think it’s the responsibility of Jewish people to call out Israel actually it’s not something you can stay silent on it’s gone past that. Silence is edging towards complicity now.

Actually people have the right to have different political opinions than you, and not be attacked or harassed for them.

NorthXNorthWest · 03/10/2025 13:27

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 13:24

That was the implication in the post I was responding too. They didn't say 'everyone is scared.' They said, 'Jewish people are scared.'
Terrorist attacks may be targeted at everyone. Jewish people are scared -yes. But Muslim people are scared, Sikh people are scared. Christian people are scared. I could go on. I won't assume it is just one group that is scared. Because if I do, it seems like they may be the only target.
Hope that helps.

whataboutery. 101

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 13:27

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 13:22

I'm not saying I support or don't support. The notion that every Jew has to declare their politics is offensive and hateful.

You don't have to declare what you think.
However, I do understand how the marchers may come to certain conclusions, right or wrong. Do you understand this?

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