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To think the Manchester terrorist attack today shows the growing Anti-Semitism

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Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 21:17

... and how Jews are not protected in this country.

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HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 14:19

cordialzempy · 03/10/2025 11:49

Last night, in the London borough of Waltham Forest, all three of the state schools that my brother is looking at for his daughter had their open evenings. On Yom Kippur. No other possible dates. Coincidence? Possibly. Welcoming to Jews? Absolutely not.

These schools are down to skeleton staff and pupils at Eid. Which is fine, the population is mainly Muslim. But to paint them as secular state schools welcoming to all is very misleading. There is a reason many Jews have to send their children to Jewish school. They are not welcome or safe in majority Muslim ‘secular’ schools.

It’s a massive stretch to say that they are unsafe because of some piss poor planning by the school admins. WF has a huge Muslim population, as do many more deprived parts of outer London.

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 14:19

Honish · 03/10/2025 13:51

Complete nonsense, you are talking utter rubbish. Not one Pakistani would accept your white baby as Pakistanti. How could it be, with not a drop of Pakistani blood, no share in their ancient and culturally rich heritage. You just turn up, birth your baby and decide it is as Pakistani as they are because you and a piece of paper says so? I think its incredibly insulting. I suggest many of them would see such a thing as laughable, and you as a fool. They would be quite correct. Your words are coming across as naive and silly. People wring their hands over cultural approbation when it comes to henna tattoos but you think you can just turn up and produce a white child and insist it's the same as the indigenous people?

Again ethnicity and nationality aren't the same thing.
American's don't share their genetics with the indigenous people, they are considered American though despite native Americans looking different to those who consider themselves American
Just like a black person can be English, so can a child born to Pakistani parents
You may believe me to be a fool, but it seems intriguing to why you seem to be so obsessed with skin colour defining nationality and why you include personal insults rather than providing any reasoning for your beliefs
Can a white person claim to be any nationality they're born into but only if that country is predominantly white?
How many generations down the line before they can claim that nationality 2/3/never?
If I'd found German ancestry in my family tree, would I have to start declaring myself as German and relinquish my British/English identity?

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:20

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 13:51

So you, an American, has more right to define what is British than the actual British people? Wild.

See, here is the problem. Even local people are confused that British is the nationality, English is the ethnicity. Anyone can be British, I agree, but English is an ethnicity like Japanese, Han Chinese, Kazakhs, Finns, Ashkenazi Jews for that matter.

You shouldn’t deny that ethnicity is real.

KTheGrey · 03/10/2025 14:21

Mt2gt1 · 03/10/2025 14:03

No it isn't. All Jews are not complicit in the actions of the Israeli Government. Place the blame where it belongs. You are in danger of treating all Jews as one monolithic Jew, just as the Christian Church did in history when prejudice, torture and expulsion were justified because of the belief that the Jews were responsible for the death of Christ. The Nazis did that too.

The same argument applies to calls for Moslems to condemn terrorist attacks, fundamentalist groups and Governments. Placing the onus on groups is stereotyping. It also doesn't recognise that within religions there are many shades of belief and practice. Would you expect the same of all Christians after the Iraq Wars or all Buddhists in Myanmar? It isn't the responsibility of all Jews to be accountable for the atrocities committed by Israeli state anymore than it was for all British people for the UK Government's decision to prosecute a war in Iraq. The blame lies with those that prosecuted the violence.

I do not feel I should be held accountable for any of the decisions taken by the Tory government between 2008 and 2024. I did not vote for them or like what they did.

Nor do I feel I should have to dance about with a tambourine singing “I never voted for that shower of loons” in public so I am not judged.

Even if I had voted for them though, that would not justify killing me. I haven’t liked the ruling party for most of my life; however we are not at war.

Second time in under a month I have been explaining that decent people just don’t use murder as a tool to resolve differences or express their feelings. Nobody should need to be told these things.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:21

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:20

See, here is the problem. Even local people are confused that British is the nationality, English is the ethnicity. Anyone can be British, I agree, but English is an ethnicity like Japanese, Han Chinese, Kazakhs, Finns, Ashkenazi Jews for that matter.

You shouldn’t deny that ethnicity is real.

So by your logic, most British Jews can't call themselves English, since 80-90% are Ashkenazi.

I don't like that logic at all.

Verv · 03/10/2025 14:22

nomas · 03/10/2025 14:16

Yep, and s/he'll go back to work and mask those true feelings with any BAME colleagues.

Are you saying that because I don't support Hamas and support Israel that I don't like black people?

Don't just hint, be clear. Be really, really, crystal clear for everybody to see.

HarrietPierce · 03/10/2025 14:22

Verv ·
"Ah yes, the UN, always reliable.
They given out any of the food thats been stockpiled in Gaza yet or are they still kicking their heels refusing to collect it and pretending that Israel is preventing aid from getting through."

You are just spouting Israeli propaganda there.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:23

HarrietPierce · 03/10/2025 14:22

Verv ·
"Ah yes, the UN, always reliable.
They given out any of the food thats been stockpiled in Gaza yet or are they still kicking their heels refusing to collect it and pretending that Israel is preventing aid from getting through."

You are just spouting Israeli propaganda there.

No you're spouting Hamas propaganda.

ilod · 03/10/2025 14:24

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:23

No you're spouting Hamas propaganda.

there are so many useful idiots doing Hamas’s work for them.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:25

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 14:19

Again ethnicity and nationality aren't the same thing.
American's don't share their genetics with the indigenous people, they are considered American though despite native Americans looking different to those who consider themselves American
Just like a black person can be English, so can a child born to Pakistani parents
You may believe me to be a fool, but it seems intriguing to why you seem to be so obsessed with skin colour defining nationality and why you include personal insults rather than providing any reasoning for your beliefs
Can a white person claim to be any nationality they're born into but only if that country is predominantly white?
How many generations down the line before they can claim that nationality 2/3/never?
If I'd found German ancestry in my family tree, would I have to start declaring myself as German and relinquish my British/English identity?

Tbf I think what she means is that a person of a different ethnicity can claim a new nationality if born elsewhere but they can only claim once integrated and grown up in the culture

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/10/2025 14:27

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:20

See, here is the problem. Even local people are confused that British is the nationality, English is the ethnicity. Anyone can be British, I agree, but English is an ethnicity like Japanese, Han Chinese, Kazakhs, Finns, Ashkenazi Jews for that matter.

You shouldn’t deny that ethnicity is real.

I’m white English, born in South London in the 60s. Some of my forefathers and mothers were black Jamaicans, 8,9 and 10 generations ago.
Please, oh wise American, enlighten me as to whether I qualify as English?

nomas · 03/10/2025 14:27

Honish · 03/10/2025 13:51

Complete nonsense, you are talking utter rubbish. Not one Pakistani would accept your white baby as Pakistanti. How could it be, with not a drop of Pakistani blood, no share in their ancient and culturally rich heritage. You just turn up, birth your baby and decide it is as Pakistani as they are because you and a piece of paper says so? I think its incredibly insulting. I suggest many of them would see such a thing as laughable, and you as a fool. They would be quite correct. Your words are coming across as naive and silly. People wring their hands over cultural approbation when it comes to henna tattoos but you think you can just turn up and produce a white child and insist it's the same as the indigenous people?

I think if you got out of your little insulated bubble you would see there is a a lot of intermarriage between Pakistani (and Indian) and other nationalities. In the 2011 census, 10% of Pakistanis were married outside of their ethnic group. It will be even more now.

I've met lots. And many of those kids do spend a lot of time in Pakistan.

Do you really think Pakistani people don't accept Imran Khan and Jemima Khan's sons as Pakistanis?

Jujujudo · 03/10/2025 14:27

Mt2gt1 · 03/10/2025 14:03

No it isn't. All Jews are not complicit in the actions of the Israeli Government. Place the blame where it belongs. You are in danger of treating all Jews as one monolithic Jew, just as the Christian Church did in history when prejudice, torture and expulsion were justified because of the belief that the Jews were responsible for the death of Christ. The Nazis did that too.

The same argument applies to calls for Moslems to condemn terrorist attacks, fundamentalist groups and Governments. Placing the onus on groups is stereotyping. It also doesn't recognise that within religions there are many shades of belief and practice. Would you expect the same of all Christians after the Iraq Wars or all Buddhists in Myanmar? It isn't the responsibility of all Jews to be accountable for the atrocities committed by Israeli state anymore than it was for all British people for the UK Government's decision to prosecute a war in Iraq. The blame lies with those that prosecuted the violence.

Going further than that… nobody should ever feel that their political views or religious beliefs will somehow make them vulnerable for attack. Terrible things happen everywhere, we hold the perpetrators responsible. The very and absolute definition of racism is the grouping and generalising of one people/race/religion/nationality together to vilify or target them. A Jewish person has every right to support the one Jewish state on earth. A Muslim has every right to support their religious laws. It shouldn’t matter to how we as humans treat or view that person. It’s very simple. This whole antisemitism argument wouldn’t be necessary if we knew how to think critically and with compassion. Two people were killed yesterday. This should make any normal moral human have sympathy and be outraged towards the person who killed them. That isn’t an excuse to say: the killer was a Muslim therefore all Muslims are bad. It’s not an excuse to say: the victims were Jews, but they probably support genocide so ah well.
We are never going to get anywhere if we go on like this. The society in the UK is diverse. This requires tolerance, education, adaptation and humanity otherwise what we get is what we are seeing now.
As a Jew, I don’t care who you are. Until proven otherwise i will treat you with respect and compassion. If I don’t agree with you I’ll discuss it with you, and then I have a choice whether to continue the discussion or accept that we can’t be friends because we are too different.
If you think that arguing with Jews about their lived experience is acceptable then fine. If you think that calling out Islam is acceptable then fine. But don’t intentionally use tropes and racist rhetoric because that’s when you prove that you are not entitled to be a part of a diverse society.

MyKhakiPanda · 03/10/2025 14:28

Longingdreamer · 03/10/2025 07:49

Hugs. I took feel the isolation. Not one person has reached out to me.

I also sadly don't think that this terrorist atrocity will receive the condemnation that it deserves.

Genuine question - who do you expect to reach out to you? Unless you are a member of that congregation?

nomas · 03/10/2025 14:28

Verv · 03/10/2025 14:22

Are you saying that because I don't support Hamas and support Israel that I don't like black people?

Don't just hint, be clear. Be really, really, crystal clear for everybody to see.

You type like you didn't make racist generalisations about Muslims in the post that got you deleted.

That's why posts should remain, so you can't now deny what you said.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:29

27trousers · 03/10/2025 13:45

👏👏👏 this should be pinned to every thread discussing the topic.

Edited

Why was it deleted?

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:29

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:21

So by your logic, most British Jews can't call themselves English, since 80-90% are Ashkenazi.

I don't like that logic at all.

Edited

In the US they would be considered American and ethnically Jewish (predominantly Ashkenazi although Mizrahi and Sephardi are also represented)

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:29

Jujujudo · 03/10/2025 14:27

Going further than that… nobody should ever feel that their political views or religious beliefs will somehow make them vulnerable for attack. Terrible things happen everywhere, we hold the perpetrators responsible. The very and absolute definition of racism is the grouping and generalising of one people/race/religion/nationality together to vilify or target them. A Jewish person has every right to support the one Jewish state on earth. A Muslim has every right to support their religious laws. It shouldn’t matter to how we as humans treat or view that person. It’s very simple. This whole antisemitism argument wouldn’t be necessary if we knew how to think critically and with compassion. Two people were killed yesterday. This should make any normal moral human have sympathy and be outraged towards the person who killed them. That isn’t an excuse to say: the killer was a Muslim therefore all Muslims are bad. It’s not an excuse to say: the victims were Jews, but they probably support genocide so ah well.
We are never going to get anywhere if we go on like this. The society in the UK is diverse. This requires tolerance, education, adaptation and humanity otherwise what we get is what we are seeing now.
As a Jew, I don’t care who you are. Until proven otherwise i will treat you with respect and compassion. If I don’t agree with you I’ll discuss it with you, and then I have a choice whether to continue the discussion or accept that we can’t be friends because we are too different.
If you think that arguing with Jews about their lived experience is acceptable then fine. If you think that calling out Islam is acceptable then fine. But don’t intentionally use tropes and racist rhetoric because that’s when you prove that you are not entitled to be a part of a diverse society.

👏 👏 👏

nomas · 03/10/2025 14:29

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:20

See, here is the problem. Even local people are confused that British is the nationality, English is the ethnicity. Anyone can be British, I agree, but English is an ethnicity like Japanese, Han Chinese, Kazakhs, Finns, Ashkenazi Jews for that matter.

You shouldn’t deny that ethnicity is real.

So you would tell Ian Wright, born and bred here and who calls himself an Englishman, that he isn't English?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ian_Wright

MyKhakiPanda · 03/10/2025 14:30

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/10/2025 14:27

I’m white English, born in South London in the 60s. Some of my forefathers and mothers were black Jamaicans, 8,9 and 10 generations ago.
Please, oh wise American, enlighten me as to whether I qualify as English?

This discussion over who's English or not is crackers! England, the country populated by people of goodness knows how many other countries and tribes and ethnicities over hundreds and hundreds of years suddenly has rules around who can be English or not, mainly based on skin colour?? get a grip!

sussexman · 03/10/2025 14:30

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:20

See, here is the problem. Even local people are confused that British is the nationality, English is the ethnicity. Anyone can be British, I agree, but English is an ethnicity like Japanese, Han Chinese, Kazakhs, Finns, Ashkenazi Jews for that matter.

You shouldn’t deny that ethnicity is real.

English isn't an ethnicity, any more than American or Russian is. It is a Nationality; England is a nation in its own right. It is certainly not equivalent to the "White British" ethnic group (of which I am a member), and those who claim it is are frankly making racist statements.

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 14:30

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:25

Tbf I think what she means is that a person of a different ethnicity can claim a new nationality if born elsewhere but they can only claim once integrated and grown up in the culture

I'm not convinced that is what they mean from this sentence 'you think you can just turn up and produce a white child and insist it's the same as the indigenous people?' the fact my baby would be white seems to be the main issue here, their skin wouldn't match that of the indigenous people so I couldn't insist it was the same nationality. When that baby grows up, even if it spoke the same language, ate the same food, made themselves a valuable member of the community they would still be white and would never be allowed to consider themselves white Pakistani according to that poster

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 14:31

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 14:29

In the US they would be considered American and ethnically Jewish (predominantly Ashkenazi although Mizrahi and Sephardi are also represented)

But we were talking about the UK and the definition of English, don't dodge the question. If we follow your definition of English, British Ashkenazi Jews are not English.

I don't like that kind of definition of 'English' at all.

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 14:32

sussexman · 03/10/2025 14:30

English isn't an ethnicity, any more than American or Russian is. It is a Nationality; England is a nation in its own right. It is certainly not equivalent to the "White British" ethnic group (of which I am a member), and those who claim it is are frankly making racist statements.

Ok, but Palestinian isn’t an ethnicity either, yet people call them ‘indigenous’ and say they’re more entitled to the land because of this?

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