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To think that if you commit a male crime, you should do male time, even if you identify as a woman?

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TheAvidAmberPeer · 01/10/2025 21:09

I know this is a sensitive topic but I’ve been thinking about how justice systems handle trans women who commit serious crimes, especially violent or sexual offences, and whether it’s fair to house them in women’s prisons. To me, if you were born male and commit a crime typically associated with male offenders, particularly one involving violence against women, it seems like common sense that you should serve time in a male facility. Identity doesn’t erase biology or risk in those cases.

AIBU to think fairness and safety, especially for vulnerable female prisoners, should come before ideology?

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Hoardasurass · 02/10/2025 15:00

Spiritofeden87 · 02/10/2025 12:43

What about intersex people who make up 1% of the global population? Have they got a particular walk too?

No people with DSDs maker up 0.17% and please stop using the offensive term intersex

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:01

Elektra1 · 02/10/2025 14:16

I think even the most basic of intellects must approach this topic from the starting premise that the position of those who believe that trans women should be allowed to be in female prisons is that trans women are women, and therefore not “male”.

But transwomen are male. The only criteria for being a transwoman is to be male. So either the people thinking TW are not male are batshit crazy or just stupid. I’m not sure which at this point.

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:03

Elektra1 · 02/10/2025 14:57

Once again, I have not expressed any personal view as to whether trans women should or should not be in female prisons wings in prisons. I have participated in this thread to challenge the extremely rudimentary arguments of those, including you, who espouse the view that “trans women are not women”. This debate is far more nuanced than that, as the judgment in the Supreme Court decision illustrates. The court was very clear that its determination related only to the meanings within the Equality Act.

On a related point, given that the judgment has finalised the argument as regards women’s spaces, I question the need for endless further threads on the question of whether or not trans women should or should not be in those spaces. The law has determined the point so there is no need for those on the “winning” side to continue shouting in outrage about the counter-factual position.

yesh. The equality act states a woman is an adult human female. And no male can therefore be a woman. Therefore all males should be barred from any female single sex spaces. And vice versa.

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:04

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:01

But transwomen are male. The only criteria for being a transwoman is to be male. So either the people thinking TW are not male are batshit crazy or just stupid. I’m not sure which at this point.

At this stage, I'm going for both

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:04

Elektra1 · 02/10/2025 13:48

I haven’t disclosed my own view on the subject on this thread, nor do I intend to. What I am interested in is reasoned debate as opposed to the hectoring, playground-bully type assertions made in online debates such as these. Your own assumption that I must be “on the other side” is evidence of how reactionary you and most of the other posters on this thread are to any view you even perceive as being possibly not the same as yours.

Difficult topics such as this require mature, calm, and well-reasoned arguments if any progress is to be made. You can shout all you like about your opinions but that will not persuade people who hold a different opinion that you are right and they are wrong.

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excellent post

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:04

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:04

At this stage, I'm going for both

Or simply bare faced liars 🤷‍♀️

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:04

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:03

yesh. The equality act states a woman is an adult human female. And no male can therefore be a woman. Therefore all males should be barred from any female single sex spaces. And vice versa.

😂🤦🏼‍♀️😭😭😭😭😭😭

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:05

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:04

😂🤦🏼‍♀️😭😭😭😭😭😭

You find the law hilarious @Tandora ?

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:06

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:04

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excellent post

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i agree. I await some nature well reasoned calm arguments refuting the facts that males don’t belong in female single sex spaces. And we all know “transwomen” are male. So I am awaiting eagerly these well thought out arguments with data back up.

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:07

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:05

You find the law hilarious @Tandora ?

No I find people's legal illiteracy hilarious, disturbing , infuriating, exhausting - I don't know whether to laugh or weep at the utter pig headed stupidity. Sorry to be blunt but that is where we are.

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:07

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:07

No I find people's legal illiteracy hilarious, disturbing , infuriating, exhausting - I don't know whether to laugh or weep at the utter pig headed stupidity. Sorry to be blunt but that is where we are.

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Your projection is off the charts mental
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Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:08

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:07

No I find people's legal illiteracy hilarious, disturbing , infuriating, exhausting - I don't know whether to laugh or weep at the utter pig headed stupidity. Sorry to be blunt but that is where we are.

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So go on. Let me know what part of the fact the law says a woman is an adult human female is wrong. Do share your deep and meaningful insights.
is it going to e the “sex is a spectrum” one? I so enjoyed that last time.

Cinaferna · 02/10/2025 15:09

blankcanvas3 · 01/10/2025 21:40

There are thousands of trans women who if you walked past them in the street you would never know they were trans. Being in a male prison will put them in danger and controversially, I don’t think anybody should be sexually assaulted in prison regardless of their sex or their crime.

You do know that housing 'trans' women in women's prisons has caused women prisoners and warders to be sexually and physically attacked? Why should biological men''s sexual and physical safety take priority over women's?

(I use inverted commas for 'trans' above because I believe the men in question weren't actually genuinely trans at all but conniving abusers, who used the right to self-ID to gain access to women's spaces.)

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:09

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:08

So go on. Let me know what part of the fact the law says a woman is an adult human female is wrong. Do share your deep and meaningful insights.
is it going to e the “sex is a spectrum” one? I so enjoyed that last time.

That's not what "the law" says.

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:09

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:08

So go on. Let me know what part of the fact the law says a woman is an adult human female is wrong. Do share your deep and meaningful insights.
is it going to e the “sex is a spectrum” one? I so enjoyed that last time.

Quite. Where in the law does it say that a woman is an adult human male?

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:12

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:09

That's not what "the law" says.

Yes it does. It may make you sad but there you go. You can stamp your feet and shout it’s not fair but that is what the law says. A woman is an adult human female. No male can be a woman.

Cinaferna · 02/10/2025 15:12

Also, it's just as easy to keep transwomen safe in a men's jail as it is to keep women safe from trans IDing predators in a women's jail. Transwomen who may be subject to abuse because they ID as trans can have their own enclave in a men's prison, not a women's prison.

Hoardasurass · 02/10/2025 15:13

Elektra1 · 02/10/2025 14:38

Wrong. The Supreme Court judgment did not determine that trans women are “male”. It determined that the terms "man" and "woman" in the Equality Act 2010 refer to biological sex. You cannot simply expand the meaning of this judgment to suit your purpose. This is what I mean when I say the arguments on this thread are basic and ill-reasoned.

The equality act says
We use man to refer to all males including boys and men and
We use woman to refer to all females including girls and women
Ergo transwomen are men and that makes them male.
You really should read the act as it will save you making such a fool of yourself in future

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:13

Cinaferna · 02/10/2025 15:12

Also, it's just as easy to keep transwomen safe in a men's jail as it is to keep women safe from trans IDing predators in a women's jail. Transwomen who may be subject to abuse because they ID as trans can have their own enclave in a men's prison, not a women's prison.

Exactly this

Elektra1 · 02/10/2025 15:17

Hoardasurass · 02/10/2025 15:13

The equality act says
We use man to refer to all males including boys and men and
We use woman to refer to all females including girls and women
Ergo transwomen are men and that makes them male.
You really should read the act as it will save you making such a fool of yourself in future

You really should understand that the Equality Act applies to limited circumstances only. It does not define “man” and “woman” in all contexts.

I sought to invite intelligent debate here. The responses have been uniformly the responses of ignorant playground bullies who only make themselves look stupid. Enjoy your little rant among yourselves.

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:18

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:12

Yes it does. It may make you sad but there you go. You can stamp your feet and shout it’s not fair but that is what the law says. A woman is an adult human female. No male can be a woman.

It's not what the law says, my dear.

If you are trying to talk about the recent SC judgement - it clarified that in one piece of legislation- the EA 2010- where the words "sex", "woman" and "man" are used they should be interpreted as referring to "biological sex" (simply understood as sex "at birth). This is relevant for interpreting forms of civil law provisions related to lawful/ unlawful discrimination.

Thats it. Thats all the judgement was about.

It doesn't nullify other pieces of legislation like the Gender Recognition Act ,
and it doesn't mean that "the law says a woman is an adult human female".

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:19

Elektra1 · 02/10/2025 15:17

You really should understand that the Equality Act applies to limited circumstances only. It does not define “man” and “woman” in all contexts.

I sought to invite intelligent debate here. The responses have been uniformly the responses of ignorant playground bullies who only make themselves look stupid. Enjoy your little rant among yourselves.

So you are saying a male with a trans identity is a woman in some areas and not in others? But then they can’t be a women can they? Either you are a woman in all aspects or you are not. It’s not a spectrum.

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:20

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:18

It's not what the law says, my dear.

If you are trying to talk about the recent SC judgement - it clarified that in one piece of legislation- the EA 2010- where the words "sex", "woman" and "man" are used they should be interpreted as referring to "biological sex" (simply understood as sex "at birth). This is relevant for interpreting forms of civil law provisions related to lawful/ unlawful discrimination.

Thats it. Thats all the judgement was about.

It doesn't nullify other pieces of legislation like the Gender Recognition Act ,
and it doesn't mean that "the law says a woman is an adult human female".

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Yes. You got ir. So when they use the word woman, they’re referring to females. As no human can change sex… a woman is an adult human female.

TheKeatingFive · 02/10/2025 15:20

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:19

So you are saying a male with a trans identity is a woman in some areas and not in others? But then they can’t be a women can they? Either you are a woman in all aspects or you are not. It’s not a spectrum.

😂😂😂

Tandora · 02/10/2025 15:22

Namelessnelly · 02/10/2025 15:19

So you are saying a male with a trans identity is a woman in some areas and not in others? But then they can’t be a women can they? Either you are a woman in all aspects or you are not. It’s not a spectrum.

So you are saying a male with a trans identity is a woman in some areas and not in others?

This is exactly what "the law" currently provides for , yes.

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