Boyfriend has described himself as “pussy whipped”

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I don’t know if im just being extra sensitive because im on my period and feeling crap in general, so I want some perspective.

my boyfriend and I have been together for about four months. We’re both 26. He’s sent me a screenshot of a conversation he was having with one of his friends this evening, where he agrees with his friend who says he’s “pussy whipped” and he shoots back and basically says the sex is so good I can have whatever I want.

this entire exchange has just made me feel really
grossed out, because I think that’s something I wouldn’t discuss with anyone else. AIBU to feel like this?

What I have said is quite clear. Nowhere did he say he is “intensely attracted to her”.

You made that up.

I work in pubs, I hear a lot of such comments. Some men think that if you are behind a bar it renders you deaf and blind.

Dear God do you always take everything b so literally? You know when someone says they’re so hungry they could eat a scabby horse then they won’t be hanging you d the stables with a knife and fork right? It’s pretty obvious what I meant to anyone who doesn’t take every word literally.

And the only attraction some men need to a woman to have sex with is heating the word yes - let’s not pretend most men are mythical princes who only sleep with women they find attractive.

is this a new way of saying under the thumb I never heard this expression before

Yes that’s exactly what it means

thanks feeling old now lol

@TwistedWonder And the only attraction some men need to a woman to have sex with is heating the word yes - let’s not pretend most men are mythical princes who only sleep with women they find attractive.

This is utterly bizarre and I don't understand why you think this way.

1. No one said men are mythical princes.
2. Men don't have sex with people who they don't find attractive. Attraction is needed for the equipment to work.
3. The majority of men think the majority of women are attractive, hence why most men will have sex with most women.

@JHound What I have said is quite clear. Nowhere did he say he is “intensely attracted to her”. You made that up.

I didn't make it up. I inferred it from what he said...

Yuck get rid.

Very illuminating on the behaviour of such types, I expect...☹️.

Not neccesarily, they sometimes just need to empty their balls.

@Illegally18 Not neccesarily, they sometimes just need to empty their balls.

I don't think you really understand male sexuality.

It's not about men simply wanting to "empty their balls." If the only goal was to empty balls, then would they not be looking at pornography, or having sex with other men?

Having sex with women is completely different. Men have sex with women because they feel an attraction to them.

Sorry, both are true. I think you don't understand male sexuality.

Hes embarrassed that his mate thinks you boss him around. So he decided to tell his mate that he stays with you because you're good in bed. Then he told you all this.

Fuck me. He is truly a grim disaster

@Illegally18 Sorry, both are true. I think you don't understand male sexuality.

Please provide your evidence that men have sex with women they don't find attractive.

From the way you express yourself and what you've shared about him, my conclusion is that this man is not your intellectual equal, to put it politely. That's rarely a good recipe for a positive relationship. So even if he apologises when you teach him why this is not a compliment, you should think very carefully about a future with a man who is a bit of a dim bulb. You'll be bored and frustrated.