Ooh, this thread has taken a nasty turn, hasn't it?
I just came on to share a memory this reminded me of. I was seriously ill in hospital a few years ago, had been in for about a week, due in part to my condition I was struggling to eat the unappetising hospital food. I asked the ward sister if it would be ok if I had a McDonald's, as it was the only thing I really fancied, she said fine.
I asked my (now ex) partner if he would bring me one. He agreed. I only like their burgers plain, and said this to him several times.
Of course, when he arrived, it wasn't plain. He hadn't listened to me at all (or perhaps it was deliberate). I know it's a small thing but I was miserable and starving and had been so looking forward to it.
I would have forgive him immediately if he had apologised. Of course, he acted like it was in no way his fault, and that I was an ungrateful wretch for minding in any way. I didn't even have a go at him (I never did - he was a bully and I was well trained by that point), just couldn't hide my dismay when I saw the food b
Much later I found out he had even put the meal on my credit card!
I always thought he did this, and other stuff like it, deliberately because he liked to hurt me. He was a horrible piece of work.
No idea whether yours is the same, OP. Your reaction to this should be guided by his general behaviour I think. If this is out of character, let it go. If it's part and parcel with his general conduct - if he generally doesn't listen and doesn't take responsibility or say sorry when he is in the wrong, please think carefully about whether this is a man you want to be with.
There is little more repulsive than a grown adult who can't own their mistakes, large or small, and apologise for them.