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To find it shocking how brazen people are with their hatred of refugees?

675 replies

GreenFairy93 · 20/09/2025 16:11

Another day, another Facebook post calling for the army to be bought in to stop the boats. Another comment section full of people shouting "sink the boats!" "Use as much force as necessary to stop them!"

There are women and children on these boats and people are brazenly calling for force to be used against them and for them to be sunk, with pictures of their faces next to their comments. Not an ounce of shame. And there's hundreds of them.

I just find it absolutely abhorrent and honestly, really upsetting that so many people have dehumanised asylum seekers to the point they have absolutely no compassion in their hearts to the point they are publicly calling for harm to come to families fleeing war.

AIBU to be shocked that people think this is ok now?

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nomas · 20/09/2025 20:14

Papyrophile · 20/09/2025 20:09

I am actually quite offended that, because I am not all enthusiastic to add a few million extra people to the UK's population without considering who they are and what they might bring, I must be some kind of racist who automatically thinks PoC are lesser. I can't even find words sufficient to spit rage at this sentiment.

Have you written to your MP to voice your protest about about the increasing legal immigration?

Why not complain to the people n power instead of supporting people who target and persecute anyone black or brown or different?

Do you realise that refugees are a small part of the total immigrants each year?

LittleYellowQueen · 20/09/2025 20:15

Incidentally, the tax gap (how much tax is lost in evasion, fraud and avoidance) in the UK is estimated at £46 billion annually.

Look up the food chain, not down.

Nowherefast4 · 20/09/2025 20:17

LeonardoDiCaprio · 20/09/2025 20:07

What value do we gain from having them in the UK?

There's a cost to the taxpayer, a drain on resources, a drain on physical space. There's also the negative social and cultural issues as well. Lack of integration issues.

Read what you just wrote. It is SO hateful. Do you really feel like this? Are black people only ok if they're footballers? What about Muslim people? Are they acceptable? I cannot believe you think this. It's disgusting. And these "British Values" people are so proud of. What are they? Because they aren't kindness or tolerance are they?

Flo78 · 20/09/2025 20:19

LittleYellowQueen · 20/09/2025 20:15

Incidentally, the tax gap (how much tax is lost in evasion, fraud and avoidance) in the UK is estimated at £46 billion annually.

Look up the food chain, not down.

THIS WITH BELLS ON! There’s a load of cookies there!

ForgetMeNotRose · 20/09/2025 20:19

Nowherefast4 · 20/09/2025 20:17

Read what you just wrote. It is SO hateful. Do you really feel like this? Are black people only ok if they're footballers? What about Muslim people? Are they acceptable? I cannot believe you think this. It's disgusting. And these "British Values" people are so proud of. What are they? Because they aren't kindness or tolerance are they?

The whole Muslim cancer thing didn't suggest tolerance to me.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 20/09/2025 20:20

usernamealreadytaken · 20/09/2025 19:53

It was our foreign aid budget. They've stopped sending a large proportion of it abroad to help millions, and keep it here towards supporting thousands of men instead.

Exactly. It’s a vicious cycle the more migrants that are funded here, the less aid goes abroad to help migrants so the more migrants will travel further. There was 304 million migrants last year, globally the world is not coping and is returning them. Afghani woman and children being returned from Iran, Egypt sending back Sudanese into a war zone because aid budgets.

There aren’t any good solutions here because math. I think we make a decision on how many and who can come in and stick to it. Anyone who turns up gets sent back. Neighbouring countries get supported via UN for their refugee programs. It isn’t perfect but the world is in a pretty poor state. Climate change and war will fuel further migration, so it isn’t going to get any better.

loulouljh · 20/09/2025 20:21

I have not seen any women and children in the footage....

smallpinecone · 20/09/2025 20:22

LittleYellowQueen · 20/09/2025 20:11

What is British culture?

Yawn.

SirHumphreyRocks · 20/09/2025 20:23

nomas · 20/09/2025 20:14

Have you written to your MP to voice your protest about about the increasing legal immigration?

Why not complain to the people n power instead of supporting people who target and persecute anyone black or brown or different?

Do you realise that refugees are a small part of the total immigrants each year?

I wonder if @Papyrophile is protesting about the indiscriminate breeding of people born here when we don't know who they are or what they bring? There's an assumption there that British born people all turn out to be outstanding citizens and net contributers to society. You know, like Tommy Robinson.

2dogsandabudgie · 20/09/2025 20:24

LittleYellowQueen · 20/09/2025 20:11

What is British culture?

Do you honestly not know anything about British culture and traditions or are you just trying to be goady?

Pigeonpoodle · 20/09/2025 20:25

JaneEyre40 · 20/09/2025 20:12

Where the fuck are you getting your numbers from? The Daily Mail?

The figures come from Government. Net migration has been over 2 million since 2021… with over 900,000 in 2023 alone… that’s “net” migration.

Goldenbear · 20/09/2025 20:25

smallpinecone · 20/09/2025 20:22

Yawn.

Yes, exactly, it wasn't me that asked it.

You really need to develop your cross referencing skills and also stop rubbing it in as to how comfortable you are, insulated by wealth!

H34th · 20/09/2025 20:27

It’s so pathetic. We come to the world with nothing and leave with nothing. You can’t live in a rich and peaceful country when the rest of the world is starving, no matter how high your walls are and how big your greed is.

smallpinecone · 20/09/2025 20:28

Nowherefast4 · 20/09/2025 20:17

Read what you just wrote. It is SO hateful. Do you really feel like this? Are black people only ok if they're footballers? What about Muslim people? Are they acceptable? I cannot believe you think this. It's disgusting. And these "British Values" people are so proud of. What are they? Because they aren't kindness or tolerance are they?

Disgusting, hateful… etc, etc. Have you considered listening to people’s concerns? Given there’s so many people voicing them, perhaps they have a point?

Where is your kindness and tolerance for those who don’t want endless mass immigration? Only works in one direction, seemingly.

Goldenbear · 20/09/2025 20:28

H34th · 20/09/2025 20:27

It’s so pathetic. We come to the world with nothing and leave with nothing. You can’t live in a rich and peaceful country when the rest of the world is starving, no matter how high your walls are and how big your greed is.

Yes, it's truly depressing.

smallpinecone · 20/09/2025 20:29

Goldenbear · 20/09/2025 20:25

Yes, exactly, it wasn't me that asked it.

You really need to develop your cross referencing skills and also stop rubbing it in as to how comfortable you are, insulated by wealth!

Where did I say I was insulated by wealth?

That’s right, I didn’t.

Goldenbear · 20/09/2025 20:30

smallpinecone · 20/09/2025 20:29

Where did I say I was insulated by wealth?

That’s right, I didn’t.

I posted your hugely contradictory posts above but I can do so again.

Goldenbear · 20/09/2025 20:30

Goldenbear · 20/09/2025 20:01

So smallpinecone you posted this;

smallpinecone · Today 17:37

Another day, another thread on this topic, when everything the is to say has been said elsewhere.

No one is going to change their minds on this subject.

Those in favour of immigration enjoy feeling virtuous and morally superior. It makes them feel good. And talk is cheap; it’s easy for them to talk the talk, because they don’t have to walk the walk.

They don’t have to live with the negative consequences of their virtue signalling. Immigration for them means cheap nannies, cheap domestic help, a underclass of cheap foreign labour they can exploit, exciting ethnic restaurants where they boast how cultured and cosmopolitan they are. They live in nice areas and the children attend good schools, in no danger of being assaulted or raped. These people are insulated by wealth. There’s no downside.

Those who have to live with the negative consequences are told to shut up, pipe down, and everything would work out beautifully if they’d just be quiet and stop drawing attention to the problems. These people can’t move away from the areas where asylum seekers are housed. Their children are in state schools with children who don’t speak English as a first language, taught by teachers who also don’t have a high level of language skill. They can’t afford to eat in these restaurants, or employ cheap labour - they’re in direct competition with these new arrivals for their jobs. Their children are vulnerable to those who hold differing cultural values.

One group has all the advantages, all the benefits, and punishes the other group for trying to speak up about their problems and the fundamental unfairness of it. They don’t want to know - and if they do realise it, they don’t much care.

And then this:

smallpinecone · Today 19:26

Why are you directing this at me?

I don’t feel poverty or discomfort. I just don’t write off those experiencing the negative consequences of mass immigration as racist or bigoted. Because it’s not true.

So if you're are not living in discomfort or poverty you must be one those "insulated by wealth".

I can't keep up with all your contradictions and exaggerations, none of what you say is consistent!

Here it is

Papyrophile · 20/09/2025 20:32

Terribly sorry @JaneEyre40 , I don't read the Mail, and there were no numbers in that post. Times, Telegraph, FT, Guardian (rarely) and NYTimes are my main reads. I value the individuals who bring their skills to the UK to earn good wages and improve their professional competence. The MSc Pakistani nurse in the ITU who looked after my DH at Christmas, who came to work and learn (and improve her English) is a gem. I know and like a great many people, from every ethnicity and background. I don't think I suggested anything at all about families or reproduction.

smallpinecone · 20/09/2025 20:33

Goldenbear · 20/09/2025 20:30

I posted your hugely contradictory posts above but I can do so again.

I gave some reasons why some might be in favour of mass immigration, and reasons why others might be against. I didn’t mention my own circumstances, which are in any case irrelevant to the points made. I don’t know why you’re insisting on trying to make this personal.

smallpinecone · 20/09/2025 20:34

Goldenbear · 20/09/2025 20:30

Here it is

Or maybe I’m neither? Or maybe I can see both sides of the argument? Not something you’re used to doing, I can see.

Pigeonpoodle · 20/09/2025 20:38

JaneEyre40 · 20/09/2025 20:04

There are white British people in our societies whose values do not align with Western values. To pretend otherwise is to be blind.

That’s true… There are white British people that don’t subscribe to them but, historically, those British values are nonetheless the bedrock that has allowed our society to flourish.

We may have had differing politics and disagreed strongly on issues but, apart from some on the fringes, our national political and societal life has been marked by its strong democracy (we have respected results if we despised who won!), respect for the rule of English/Scottish law (yes, societies will always have some criminals), women’s rights (it may not be perfect but it’s worlds better than women’s rights is most Islamic countries), and tolerance (try burning a bible then try burn a Koran - see who tries to kill you!).

The Islamic cultures that exist in our cities fundamentally differ (in a way that other cultures don’t). That’s just the uncomfortable truth.

My views aren’t directed at individual Muslims, who will have a variety of views, and many of whom won’t be part of those cultures - but rather they’re directed towards those Islamist cultures that now permeate in many urban centres in the UK.

Papyrophile · 20/09/2025 20:43

Thanks @Pigeonpoodle . Brilliant snapshot of why Britain is fair and level minded.

usernamealreadytaken · 20/09/2025 20:43

SirHumphreyRocks · 20/09/2025 19:52

So you judge everyone based on one person? Should all British people be considered racist, misogynistic violent thugs and criminals because that's what Tommy Robinson is?

Well, at least two, that are known about. And the over 200 asylum hotel residents charged with crimes this year to August. Of these, 109 were violent offences and 44 were sexual offences, including four counts of alleged rape. There were also 63 theft-related offences. Those are just the ones who are caught and charged. We have enough criminals, we don't need to import more.

GreenFairy93 · 20/09/2025 20:45

usernamealreadytaken · 20/09/2025 18:49

So you're saying your preference is for men who are definitely criminals and statistically more likely to have medieval views on women and equality, than men who are here legally. Not sure your moral compass hasn’t been dropped somewhere…

Wtf!? Refugees aren't definitely criminals!!

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