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To find it shocking how brazen people are with their hatred of refugees?

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GreenFairy93 · 20/09/2025 16:11

Another day, another Facebook post calling for the army to be bought in to stop the boats. Another comment section full of people shouting "sink the boats!" "Use as much force as necessary to stop them!"

There are women and children on these boats and people are brazenly calling for force to be used against them and for them to be sunk, with pictures of their faces next to their comments. Not an ounce of shame. And there's hundreds of them.

I just find it absolutely abhorrent and honestly, really upsetting that so many people have dehumanised asylum seekers to the point they have absolutely no compassion in their hearts to the point they are publicly calling for harm to come to families fleeing war.

AIBU to be shocked that people think this is ok now?

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SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 15:56

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 15:55

Nor is it healthy or particularly sensible to blindly trust people, assume they all have good intentions and they hold the same values and principles as you.

Why get personal with other posters? There’s no need.

Spades are spades.

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:00

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 15:56

Spades are spades.

You call a spade a spade, then… is that something you endorse, people saying exactly what they think with no filter?

cheeseforever · 21/09/2025 16:03

blubberyboo · 20/09/2025 17:15

You are quite welcome to lobby for a tax on billionaires to pay for an international safe zone to temporarily house them until they can go back home.

You can also lobby for a voluntary tax that individuals such as yourself can pay to support those that come. We take a number based on those willing to pay for them.

If we only pay for taxes on things we like, would that be limited to just refugees? Or should we also make it so only people who have kids in the state education system should pay for schools? What about state pensions, presumably those of us with good private pensions can opt out of that (apart from some do gooders worried about poor pensioners who failed to save up enough, they can always donate if they want, as you suggest). We could make the NHS an optional system that you can pay into if you want, or get private insurance if you want? Hmm, not everyone will want to pay for the police either, they get a lot of criticism. Maybe just make taxes optional entirely?

peasporrige · 21/09/2025 16:03

SirHumphreyRocks · 20/09/2025 17:13

Since most of them (65%) are granted asylum, then oddly, they do appear to be asylum seekers. War is not the only reason to seek asylum either.

That isn't correct.

The Grant Rate for asylum claims has now fallen to below 50%

www.ein.org.uk/news/grant-rate-asylum-claims-falls-below-50-number-claims-reaches-record-high-111000

CrazyAboutFurBabies · 21/09/2025 16:04

Can I ask the Pro Illegal Immigration in this thread what they make of this?

To find it shocking how brazen people are with their hatred of refugees?
SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:07

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:00

You call a spade a spade, then… is that something you endorse, people saying exactly what they think with no filter?

Freedom of speech, right?

You’re allowed to call me naive (aware it was a PP), and I’m allowed to state facts rather than “perhaps, maybe” speculation.

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:08

CrazyAboutFurBabies · 21/09/2025 16:04

Can I ask the Pro Illegal Immigration in this thread what they make of this?

Edited

Have you got one that links those figures to immigration?

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 16:09

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 15:55

Every single thing an immigrant or asylum seeker does, or anything is claimed about them, you question and try turn into a negative.

You’ve been doing it across various threads for days now.

Even when things are based in fact - like amounts of money given to asylum seekers “yeah but they get takeaways so that can’t be true.”

Yesterday you told another poster that large quantities of men just pretend to be gay to gain asylum, and have indicated that Afghanistan is actually a safe place to be. Which is obvious nonsense.

I don’t know why you have a deep seated distrust for people from a different background to you, or why you find it so hard to believe that people have a genuine need for support, or genuinely intend to work here and better both their lives and our communities.

But you do seem to have an inherent issue with migrants and asylum seekers and will turn anything, including fact, into a negative narrative.

I would assume somebody wouldn't go on holiday to somewhere they fear for their safety. If you think thats unreasonable, argue why it’s a reasonable thing to do, rather than just dismissing it.

If you turn a blind eye to people who are apparently destitute getting Deliveroo food deliveries, put a case for why that’s reasonable, rather than criticising somebody for pointing it out.

It’s as reasonable for you to be inherently trusting and positive towards undocumented men as it is for me to not.

BundleBoogie · 21/09/2025 16:10

MrsSkylerWhite · 21/09/2025 13:37

So it’s ok to sink boats full of young men? Lovely.

What a ridiculous thing to say!

Midnight oil didn’t say anything remotely resembling that?

If you’ve got to make up accusations to argue against it shows a very weak position.

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:12

usernamealreadytaken · 21/09/2025 16:09

I would assume somebody wouldn't go on holiday to somewhere they fear for their safety. If you think thats unreasonable, argue why it’s a reasonable thing to do, rather than just dismissing it.

If you turn a blind eye to people who are apparently destitute getting Deliveroo food deliveries, put a case for why that’s reasonable, rather than criticising somebody for pointing it out.

It’s as reasonable for you to be inherently trusting and positive towards undocumented men as it is for me to not.

That would all be fair enough, if the food intake of other people was any of your or my business - for example.

I do not care if someone orders a takeaway. I care about the facts, and the fact is they’re given x amount by the HO. Them ordering a Deliveroo doesn’t change that fact, or change the amount that’s coming out of the public pocket.

Like I said, speculation. We don’t have access to every asylum seeker or migrants bank account. What they have and how they spend it isn’t our concern. What they get from us, is - and that’s the amounts we discussed earlier. Everything else isn’t our business, because it’s not coming out of our funds.

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:12

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:07

Freedom of speech, right?

You’re allowed to call me naive (aware it was a PP), and I’m allowed to state facts rather than “perhaps, maybe” speculation.

I was just asking whether you agree with that principle, people calling a spade a spade. People saying exactly what they think, regardless of how unpleasant or disagreeable others might find it.

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:14

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:12

I was just asking whether you agree with that principle, people calling a spade a spade. People saying exactly what they think, regardless of how unpleasant or disagreeable others might find it.

I agree with people of all opinions having freedom of speech, but not freedom of consequence.

If what you’re saying is illegal, incites violence, is discriminatory- there are consequences to that. But people are free to hold different opinions.

I don’t think that’s a controversial standpoint.

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:15

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:12

That would all be fair enough, if the food intake of other people was any of your or my business - for example.

I do not care if someone orders a takeaway. I care about the facts, and the fact is they’re given x amount by the HO. Them ordering a Deliveroo doesn’t change that fact, or change the amount that’s coming out of the public pocket.

Like I said, speculation. We don’t have access to every asylum seeker or migrants bank account. What they have and how they spend it isn’t our concern. What they get from us, is - and that’s the amounts we discussed earlier. Everything else isn’t our business, because it’s not coming out of our funds.

You don’t care, that’s fine. Others are allowed to care - and do. They feel it is their business, since they’re the ones funding it. That’s perfectly justifiable.

EasternStandard · 21/09/2025 16:15

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:12

That would all be fair enough, if the food intake of other people was any of your or my business - for example.

I do not care if someone orders a takeaway. I care about the facts, and the fact is they’re given x amount by the HO. Them ordering a Deliveroo doesn’t change that fact, or change the amount that’s coming out of the public pocket.

Like I said, speculation. We don’t have access to every asylum seeker or migrants bank account. What they have and how they spend it isn’t our concern. What they get from us, is - and that’s the amounts we discussed earlier. Everything else isn’t our business, because it’s not coming out of our funds.

There is focus on non taxed work though? Apparently even France think we have an issue.

echt · 21/09/2025 16:16

Swiftie1878 · 20/09/2025 16:13

Done to death.

Judging by the frequently venomous posts on MN, it can’t be said often enough.

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:17

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:15

You don’t care, that’s fine. Others are allowed to care - and do. They feel it is their business, since they’re the ones funding it. That’s perfectly justifiable.

I suppose that depends if we’re interested what others claiming public funds spend it on, too?

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 21/09/2025 16:18

MaturingCheeseball · 21/09/2025 08:32

Dsis was doing supply teaching in a school in Kent. Some of her yr 11 class were clearly way over 15/16 years and obviously to anyone that they were 25 at least. They were flirting with the girls and making lewd signs at dsis.

She reported to her hod as a safeguarding matter who said it was not her business so she found the safeguarding lead who said they’d been told to say nothing.

So here is an absolutely true example of what goes on.

That is absolutely appalling.
”They had been told to say nothing.”
Fuck me.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 21/09/2025 16:20

BundleBoogie · 21/09/2025 08:22

Yes. Apparently Isis are issuing edicts to their followers to kill Christians and Jews here, to break into our houses or take vehicles and kill us.

Islamic terrorists are already taking up 75% of the workload of MI5 /6 and we are proposing to send large chunks of our army abroad.

At present, approximately 1000 undocumented men are crossing the channel PER DAY - what are the chances of there being some terrorists and Isis followers in those groups.

How many hotels per day are now closing down to accommodate these numbers?

Jesus.
How do more people not know about this.

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:22

SleeplessInWherever · 21/09/2025 16:17

I suppose that depends if we’re interested what others claiming public funds spend it on, too?

If a charity solicited donations for a particular cause, and then used those funds for other purposes, do you think those who had contributed would feel slightly annoyed?

Runnersandtoms · 21/09/2025 16:23

MidnightPatrol · 20/09/2025 16:16

I think the issue is that most aren’t women and children asylum seekers fleeing war, but young adult men travelling alone as economic migrants.

People typically have empathy for the former, not so much for the latter.

So it's okay to wish for the death of desperate young men risking it all for a better life? People did a laughing emoji on a news story about two children dying and justified it by saying 'they're probably not children at all, it's all 20 year olds pretendingto be younger'. Whoever they were and no matter how old, they were someone's son or daughter so I'm appalled that anyone can laugh about it.

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:24

Runnersandtoms · 21/09/2025 16:23

So it's okay to wish for the death of desperate young men risking it all for a better life? People did a laughing emoji on a news story about two children dying and justified it by saying 'they're probably not children at all, it's all 20 year olds pretendingto be younger'. Whoever they were and no matter how old, they were someone's son or daughter so I'm appalled that anyone can laugh about it.

People don’t typically want them dead, no. They just don’t want them here.

xanthomelana · 21/09/2025 16:26

Flo78 · 20/09/2025 18:27

Yeah got to agree with that. Bye bye disgusting Tommy Robinson style racists! Welcome, hard working people who want to have a better life.

They are having a better life where I live. They are making loads of money selling drugs through the barbershop they have set up as a front. As far as I’m aware there’s nothing to run away from in Albania which is where these particular people have come from.

Goldenbear · 21/09/2025 16:30

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 15:55

Nor is it healthy or particularly sensible to blindly trust people, assume they all have good intentions and they hold the same values and principles as you.

Why get personal with other posters? There’s no need.

Says the poster who is constantly making 'personal' remarks. I don't know how long you have been on MN but this was initially a chat forum not a space for party political propaganda!

Goldenbear · 21/09/2025 16:31

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:00

You call a spade a spade, then… is that something you endorse, people saying exactly what they think with no filter?

It's self evident from this post and your many posts that you literally have no filter- perhaps take your own advice and pipe down with the character assessments.

GreenFairy93 · 21/09/2025 16:33

smallpinecone · 21/09/2025 16:24

People don’t typically want them dead, no. They just don’t want them here.

Well this thread is about the people who do want them dead and are calling for their boats to be sunk by the armed forces to ensure they don't get here.

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