The government response and narrative around Ukrainian refugees was totally different. We were encouraged to see them as our fellow human beings and to come together and support them through hardship.
Ukrainian refugees were given vastly more government support than refugees from other countries.
Having worked with asylum seekers from other countries, I found it odd that Ukrainians were seen as more deserving of support than others with similar experiences, knowing the conditions other asylum seekers were living in.
I think what you're saying about Ukrainian refugees being "more similar to the local population" is questionable. Ukraine of course has it's own unique language and cultural heritage/practices. More similar in that they are white, perhaps. You can see how whiteness plays into perceptions of assimilation.
See second or third generation migrants from other majority-white communities Vs non white communities. Black and brown British people being told to "go home" while white people are not, regardless of whether our parents/grandparents were migrants.
I don't think the difference in response is because Ukrainian people are more deserving or more British-like than other people fleeing violence.
It's more to do with the way the government and media responded to the situation in Ukraine, humanised Vs dehumanising rhetoric. See how "small boats" is used as a dehumanising/objectifying shorthand which distances us from human experiences.
How would this conversation change if we focused on the experiences of people on the boats, why they are on the boat, who they are, rather than seeing boats as nuisance objects to be batted away? If we heard their voices in the media? Would people be talking about blowing up boats if we started actually talking about people?
And no, I don't see migration as "exotic restaurants". And I don't see white working class people as a monolith. I'm a white person, I'd say one side of my family is working class and the other side middle class. My husband is white working class and has grown up in a council house, worked manual jobs. He probably looks like some of the stereotypes of white working class people. Certainly I've seen people react to him in line with this stereotype. I'm more middle class in my profession. People assume things about me, too. We have very similar political views.
As I've said before, I have grown up in an extremely multicultural community where 85% of people are not white, and the majority speak English as an additional language. This is not a rich community, but one I love. It is also a welcoming community.
Meanwhile, big media and big tech get likes driven by rage against each other and benefit from our division.