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Turn your son in knowing it’s the death penalty?

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TaupeLemur · 12/09/2025 15:28

Kirk’s killer has apparently been turned in by his family - or persuaded to hand himself in.
Trump &’his supporters have been very vocal about getting the death penalty for the shooter.

would YOU hand your child over, knowing that the electric chair would be the likely outcome?

YANBU - I wouldn’t turn him in to die.

YABU - I would he’s a killer and deserves all he gets

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MaidOfSteel · 12/09/2025 19:51

No. The death penalty is a backward, medieval form of punishment and we are better than that. I will never have anything to do with supporting the death penalty.

feministmom4ever · 12/09/2025 19:54

Just because Trump wants him to get the death penalty doesn’t mean it will happen. He made a very intentional decision to kill someone’s whose political opinion he disagreed with. What’s to stop him from repeating the act if he isn’t imprisoned?

ParmaVioletTea · 12/09/2025 19:55

I think the death penalty is barbaric - state-sanctioned murder. But murder is murder - whoever assassinated Charlie Kirk is a murderer, and it was a heinous crime.

I probably disagree with almost everything Charles Kirk stood for, but murder is just wrong. As is the death penalty.

YankSplaining · 12/09/2025 19:56

Dearnurse · 12/09/2025 19:05

No I wouldn't hand my child over ... unless they were something terrible like (god forbid) a pedophile or S crimes etc then i would hand them over but in their position I would do everything in my power to make sure they didn't catch him , I don't agree with what he did but the man was evil & stood for terrible things it's not like he killed a child ...

This is probably the most morally bankrupt thing I’ve ever seen anyone say on this site. Being a cold-blooded murderer isn’t something terrible to you, if the victim was someone you didn’t like or found abhorrent.

”I don’t agree with what he did” - you don’t condemn what he did, either. You don’t think it’s really that bad, because, hey, the victim was only that nasty Charlie Kirk, and it’s okay to play judge, jury and executioner if it’s one of those people. Who…talked on college campuses saying things you vehemently disagreed with.

I find you abhorrent, but I sure as fuck would still think anyone who murdered you was “something terrible.” I wouldn’t say wishy-washy bullshit about, “Well, I don’t agree with what Dearnurse’s killer did, but it’s not like s/he did something terrible like kill a child.” I’d feel sorry for your family and pray for them and hope your killer met justice. I’d think your death was a tragedy and an outrage.

And you say all this and still think you’re morally superior to Charlie Kirk. Good God.

CantCallItLove · 12/09/2025 19:57

Oppositeofexpectations · 12/09/2025 16:02

This is why I can’t understand how they can value human life so much that they oppose abortion but then are pro death penalty ?

Anti-abortionists don't value human lives. They're happy for women to die as a result of pregnancy complications. There is no such thing as 'pro life', only 'pro controlling women'.

Shewasafaireh · 12/09/2025 19:58

For this? Absolutely not.

If it was something else - ie child abuse - then absolutely yes.

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 12/09/2025 19:58

I fundamentally disagree with the death penalty, but if my child had committed murder, then they need to face whatever judicial system we live in.

The people wouldn't hand them in...are you also the people who refuse to allow your kids to go to detention and phone their teachers to shout at them?

Tekknonan · 12/09/2025 19:59

jettisoned · 12/09/2025 15:37

They have lethal injection too I think

Lethal injection, US style, seems to be one of the most barbaric forms of killing. They have had it go wrong so many times, leaving people in agony for a long, long time on the gurney.

As for the original question: Never in a million years.

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/09/2025 20:00

Shewasafaireh · 12/09/2025 19:58

For this? Absolutely not.

If it was something else - ie child abuse - then absolutely yes.

Why not for this but you would for child abuse?

Rosscameasdoody · 12/09/2025 20:00

Tekknonan · 12/09/2025 19:59

Lethal injection, US style, seems to be one of the most barbaric forms of killing. They have had it go wrong so many times, leaving people in agony for a long, long time on the gurney.

As for the original question: Never in a million years.

So suicide by cop then ?

Rosscameasdoody · 12/09/2025 20:01

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/09/2025 20:00

Why not for this but you would for child abuse?

Oh, think we know why.

cardibach · 12/09/2025 20:01

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 12/09/2025 19:58

I fundamentally disagree with the death penalty, but if my child had committed murder, then they need to face whatever judicial system we live in.

The people wouldn't hand them in...are you also the people who refuse to allow your kids to go to detention and phone their teachers to shout at them?

That’s a massive false equivalence. Those who say they wouldn’t hand them in have been clear that was in the case of the death penalty. They would hand them in for life imprisonment. The death penalty isn’t a deterrent and can reduce the chance of justice being served.

JHound · 12/09/2025 20:02

feministmom4ever · 12/09/2025 19:54

Just because Trump wants him to get the death penalty doesn’t mean it will happen. He made a very intentional decision to kill someone’s whose political opinion he disagreed with. What’s to stop him from repeating the act if he isn’t imprisoned?

We don’t have a motive yet.

SparklingRivers · 12/09/2025 20:02

Dearnurse · 12/09/2025 19:05

No I wouldn't hand my child over ... unless they were something terrible like (god forbid) a pedophile or S crimes etc then i would hand them over but in their position I would do everything in my power to make sure they didn't catch him , I don't agree with what he did but the man was evil & stood for terrible things it's not like he killed a child ...

He killed the father of a 3 year old and 1 year old. They now have to grow up without a dad, knowing their dad was murdered.
His parents have lost their son, his wife has lost her husband.
How on earth can you think murder isn't "something terrible".

JHound · 12/09/2025 20:03

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 12/09/2025 19:58

I fundamentally disagree with the death penalty, but if my child had committed murder, then they need to face whatever judicial system we live in.

The people wouldn't hand them in...are you also the people who refuse to allow your kids to go to detention and phone their teachers to shout at them?

If they wanted to give my child the death penalty during detention then I would not send them to detention either.

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/09/2025 20:04

Rosscameasdoody · 12/09/2025 20:01

Oh, think we know why.

Was trying to give that poster the benefit of the doubt and hope they weren’t actually saying what I thought they were saying

Rosscameasdoody · 12/09/2025 20:04

cardibach · 12/09/2025 20:01

That’s a massive false equivalence. Those who say they wouldn’t hand them in have been clear that was in the case of the death penalty. They would hand them in for life imprisonment. The death penalty isn’t a deterrent and can reduce the chance of justice being served.

Not handing them in doesn’t allow justice to be served either. What about justice for the victim, and their family ? This person deliberately and cold bloodedly took a life because they didn’t agree with the viewpoint of the person they killed. That’s unhinged, as is the notion that anyone would be prepared to allow them to walk free knowing what a huge danger they posed to others.

historyismything82 · 12/09/2025 20:04

PleaseGetBetter · 12/09/2025 15:33

Makes me laugh how all these “pro lifers” lose their beliefs when it comes to the death penalty.

Excellent point.

DorothyGaleFromKansas · 12/09/2025 20:05

SparklingRivers · 12/09/2025 20:02

He killed the father of a 3 year old and 1 year old. They now have to grow up without a dad, knowing their dad was murdered.
His parents have lost their son, his wife has lost her husband.
How on earth can you think murder isn't "something terrible".

I think it’s awful that he was murdered, but those little girls may now have the chance to be raised by someone who might show compassion, love and tolerance, rather than someone who publicly insists that if they are raped as 10 year olds he’s forcing them to give birth to that rape baby.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 12/09/2025 20:05

MyLimeGuide · 12/09/2025 18:50

Yes it does the democrats - joe and Kamila

🤣🤣🤣

Rosscameasdoody · 12/09/2025 20:06

historyismything82 · 12/09/2025 20:04

Excellent point.

Because they’re not pro lifers. It’s about controlling women. They’re only concerned about preventing the pregnancy being terminated - they couldn’t give a shiny shite what happens to the child after it’s born.

Sparklesandspandexgallore · 12/09/2025 20:06

Absolutely not for this.

JHound · 12/09/2025 20:06

Rosscameasdoody · 12/09/2025 20:04

Not handing them in doesn’t allow justice to be served either. What about justice for the victim, and their family ? This person deliberately and cold bloodedly took a life because they didn’t agree with the viewpoint of the person they killed. That’s unhinged, as is the notion that anyone would be prepared to allow them to walk free knowing what a huge danger they posed to others.

Where are people reading that a motive has been determined.

supportergirl · 12/09/2025 20:07

It sounds like the dad reached out a church leader and they're the ones that turned him in?

I don't think it was easy decision for the parents - but equally if you didn't and your child went on to kill again where do you draw the line? Especially as the chance of death penalty will increase with every murder

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/09/2025 20:07

JHound · 12/09/2025 20:06

Where are people reading that a motive has been determined.

I think because of the press conference with the FBI etc - they told us what the killer had said about CK and what was written on the bullets. It seems logical that he killed him because of his beliefs.

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