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Had you heard of Charlie Kirk before yesterday?

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Havetoagree · 11/09/2025 21:28

Just that really? I hadn’t and wondering if I’m the only one. And why is it such a big story? I guess the association with trump. What would be the equivalent level of fame over here?

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Dramatic · 12/09/2025 08:33

Unpaidviewer · 12/09/2025 08:31

Also known as Chinese whispers. Its a pretty common game.

I've never heard it called Telephone before.

I mean I've personally seen the videos of him saying these things, so how exactly is it Chinese whispers?

RingoJuice · 12/09/2025 08:33

Sodukuchess · 12/09/2025 08:27

Anybody can say something is a joke though can't they. People could openly admire Hitler and then when challenged say 'oh it was only a joke'.

Did you view the clip? Yes or no? Because it was making a point about using biblical scripture to forward a political point.

Ms Rachel used some Bible verse or another to make a point about Gaza. Kirk pointed out that the same passage has a reference to stoning gays. That’s it. That’s the thing.

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 08:34

RingoJuice · 12/09/2025 08:17

Upthread I address this total and complete lie about him advocating for stoning gays. He did no such thing. Even viewing the clip it came from (iirc @TheJoyOfWriting posted it) should disabuse you of this.

As I’ve said, it’s a demented game of Telephone you are playing here. It’s not OK

Would you like to answer a final question I have? I understand if not.

Are the other views that I cited in my post earlier to you commonly held by 'Regular middle of the road' US Christians?

Yes, I know you defended the raped 10yo comment by saying that he had a religious belief that foetuses have a soul. Other Christians believe that and support rape exceptions. But I get what you mean there.

Still, is that really the middle of the road US Christian attitude?

And is it 'middle of the road US Christian ' to think abortion is worse than the Holocaust?

Or that having gay relationships is like being an alcoholic or drug addict?

Or that gay people are groomers who 'can't reproduce so must recruit' (a direct quote from arch homophobe Anita Bryant).

OK, in that case, you could say he meant paedophiles, not LGBT people. Or only some LGBT people (some obvs are bad, like straight people : see Drag Queen Stiry Hour etc) His sentence is ambiguous imo and Bryant certainly DID demonise all gay people.

Ridiculously, the 3 LGBT people ge was saying 'could not reproduce so had to recruit' all had children of their own!

So, what would you say?

Mugfills · 12/09/2025 08:34

I hadn't, but worryingly (for me) my 22 & 24 yo sons, who don't generally follow politics, both knew a lot about him. Neither had a high opinion of him, but he's obviously been all over wherever it is they get their news.

MeTooOverHere · 12/09/2025 08:35

Underthinker · 12/09/2025 06:59

I dont share Kirk's politics. But many of your examples, and many of the negative things attributed to him in this thread are taken out of context.

The ten year old thing is a quite cruel example. He is known to be against abortion, so someone put to him the hypothetical situation that his own young daughter were raped and pregnant, which is a fairly low rhetorical trick in my view. CK is a Christian who believes abortion murder, most of us in the UK do not. His answer that he wouldn't seek an abortion in those circumstances now gets endlessly repeated as if he offered up the example of his own daughter being raped. He has had guests at his rallies who have spoken up about either having given birth after rape or themselves being the product or rape, and being grateful that they ir their child weren't aborted. They are not views I share, but I think to use them as part of the case that he is some kind of monster is wrong.

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I'm not talking about his daughter. He said a 10YO rape victim should be forced to birth a child. That is just one example of his mentality.

YourLemonTiger · 12/09/2025 08:35

Dramatic · 12/09/2025 08:32

I think what people are saying with the "but" is that they aren't sad about the death. That's absolutely not the same as condoning his murder, just saying that after the fact they don't have to suddenly feel sad or upset by it.

That's a fair enough comment, thank you 🙂

HowardTJMoon · 12/09/2025 08:35

The performative outrage coming from the right about any comment that might suggest Kirk held some questionable views is a sight to behold. One might almost think it's being deliberately amplified to further the left/right divide by actors who have the goal of destabilising the US even more than has been achieved over the last 20 years.

It's sad that there's been yet another victim of gun violence in the US but a lot of people get shot there every day.

Sodukuchess · 12/09/2025 08:36

Chambala · 12/09/2025 08:07

The murder of Charlie Kirk, a father to two young daughters, is what the radical left’s demonisation of anyone who doesn’t share their warped, woke views leads to: i.e. the political assassination of a man who was engaging in political DEBATE. The radical left couldn’t win the argument with Kirk so they silenced him. Same as they always do, silence, cancel, censor, smear, misrepresent, and now this.

Perhaps the likes of people some on here condoning this action (I read the abhorrent comments the other night), and those branding Farage and Reform as a Fascist, and calling for him and his supporters to be strung up, cancelled, jailed, etc. should ponder on that for a second?

Let us also not forget that our own Prime Minister branded people who were upset about small girls being stabbed to death as far right thugs. The left doubled down on this and they then used the judicial system to punish anyone who stepped out of line.

The left seem to have become so far separated from the fundamental Christian and family values that gave us the very freedom and tolerance, that until recently, we used to enjoy here in the West, that I really wonder where this is all heading?

I have always struggled to understand the shift in leftist mindset. The people of free love and freedom of expression in the 60’s and 70’s who I could relate to, seems to have morphed into a bunch of people projecting (what they perceive to be) their virtuousness and moral superiority, yet underneath is a seething hatred of those who do not share their beliefs.

I guess the people who put their life on the line for Britain during two world wars, to give us our hard-won freedom, must now be turning in their graves to see what has become of the ungrateful and frankly anti-British left wing establishment who seem intent on wrecking everything that our brave soldiers once fought for. Anyone who voted for the traitorous Labour party, or who does not unconditionally condemn this awful murder, should be utterly ashamed of yourselves IMO.

You've forgotten the key point that those wars were fought to ensure we retained our democracy so your views on those who voted for Labour are conflicted here. As for those upset about girls being murdered, they weren't protesting. They were intent on destruction - they were far right thugs.

Bruminbrum · 12/09/2025 08:37

Underthinker · 12/09/2025 08:26

The fact is he did not say that "black women do not have brain processing power". Which has been a direct quote attributed to him many times on these threads and other social media platforms.

If people had said on here that he used racist tropes in debating DEI, we could debate that. But people are outright lying.

its in the same vein as many of his other quotes

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/sep/11/charlie-kirk-quotes-beliefs

for instance, so even if this one is mis assigned or mis represented (which I’m not convinced of given the tripe he usually came out with) it still doesn’t take away from the fact he was a white supremacist Christian nationalist and spoke like one of the founding fathers of Gilead

Charlie Kirk in his own words: ‘prowling Blacks’ and ‘the great replacement strategy’

The far-right commentator didn’t pull his punches when discussing his bigoted views on current events

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/sep/11/charlie-kirk-quotes-beliefs

RingoJuice · 12/09/2025 08:37

Petrolitis · 12/09/2025 08:30

What a man who said he wouldn't fly with a black pilot is respectful?

That’s not what he said. He was making the point that DEI undermines confidence. He was likely speaking in the context of the FAA ATC case, which was a huge scandal and undermined confidence in the recruitment processes meant to diversify the field (they had decided it was too white and male)

Butchyrestingface · 12/09/2025 08:37

YourLemonTiger · 12/09/2025 08:29

If anyone is acting like the thread police it's you. I'm not trying to stop anyone saying what they like unlike you.

People on this thread can support CK, people can criticise CK. It's really up to them.

Personally I don't agree with much of what he stood for. But like lots of other posters have also said, i believe no one should be murdered for having views you don't like. I make no apology for saying that.

I don't understand why you think saying that is "preachy" and "dull and controlling" as it seems most people on this thread agree with me.

Unless of course you believe he had it coming and deserved it?

You are constantly chiding and chastising people because they are not openly stating on every single post that they condemn his murder.

I even predicted in a response to someone else’s post at 07:52 that you would be along in a minute to take issue with the fact they’d failed to add such a disclaimer to their post. And then bingo, within a few minutes, there you were, doing just the very thing.

You seem to have zero to contribute to the thread other than to repeatedly preach at and chastise other posters for not condemning the murder in every single post, even the ones who’ve done so previously.

And now you’re trying to imply that I thought he deserved it, despite the fact I’ve said repeatedly I think it was a henious, unjustified crime. So yes, preachy and controlling with nothing else to say seem like very apt descriptors.

Nobody has said they think the murder was justified or was anything other than abhorrent. You could try taking that on faith without needing to jump on every poster who expresses the view that he held vile views and wishes to resist the urge to beautify him.

MeTooOverHere · 12/09/2025 08:38

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 07:19

Where did he say black people were bad and stupid?

I DO think his views on them are being exaggerated.

Sorry I thought I had put them up.

Howmanycatsistoomany · 12/09/2025 08:38

Yes, I was aware of him and his odious opinions.

Thegreatestoftheseislove · 12/09/2025 08:38

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 07:57

Great post.

I don't think it is gracefup or respectful though to say women on the Pill automatically 'crazy and bitter'

. Or women over 30 'past their prime of attractiveness'.

Or say having gay relationships is like being an alcoholic or drug addict

Or say that the actions of the 3 Phoenix school board members was bc they were LGBT so had to 'recruit not reproduce" (a direct Anita Bryant quote), even though they all had kids of their own.

Or say Ketanji Brown Jackson and Michelle Obama's achievements are bc they are stupid so only got where they did bc they were favoured for being black?

Or say abortion is worse than the Holocaust

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I agree that as stand alone statements, they do not sound great. They sound dreadful. The thing is the ideas have been taken out of context. All worthy of debate and that is the joy of freedom of thought and freedom of speech.

The Pill, does make me a little batshit. I know it adversely affects the mental health of other women too.
Women over 30, biologically speaking, are past their prime for continuation of the species - back in the day you were considered a geriatric mother if pregnant at age 28.
Abortion worse than the Holocaust? Abortion kills more human life than the holocaust, certainly - but to say it is 'worse' is comparing oranges with apples.

The other things you have mentioned, I would have to see the context in order to make an informed comment.

But the purpose of this thread is not to debate his ideas, but to see if people had heard of him before his murder. I had not. I have now. I understand why his ideas would attract people's anger. I realise that it suits his detractors' purposes to misrepresent what he said by leaving out the context and wider picture, and to present him as a de-humanised man who somehow deserved what he got.

He was a very flawed human who was loved by his children, his wife, his family and his friends. People are grieving his death having witnessed his murder. It doesn't stop haters hating, as witnessed here and elsewhere.

Bruminbrum · 12/09/2025 08:39

HowardTJMoon · 12/09/2025 08:35

The performative outrage coming from the right about any comment that might suggest Kirk held some questionable views is a sight to behold. One might almost think it's being deliberately amplified to further the left/right divide by actors who have the goal of destabilising the US even more than has been achieved over the last 20 years.

It's sad that there's been yet another victim of gun violence in the US but a lot of people get shot there every day.

I’m finding the performance from leftists, the crocodile tears etc equally disturbing. A lot of (white) commentators who present themselves are advocates for marginalised people turning on the water works

boatyardblues · 12/09/2025 08:39

sakura06 · 11/09/2025 21:32

No, I hadn’t, but I’m a teacher and all the sixth formers knew who he was (and disturbingly the majority of them had seen the video of his murder). DH knew who he was but is extremely interested in US Politics.

I’m not a teacher but I echo what you say about sixth formers. I said to DS2 I hadn’t seen the footage. He warned me off watching it, saying he and all his friends had seen it and it was disturbing. It bothers me that all these teens are watching it and he’s trying to protect me. 😔

Underthinker · 12/09/2025 08:39

Bruminbrum · 12/09/2025 08:37

its in the same vein as many of his other quotes

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/sep/11/charlie-kirk-quotes-beliefs

for instance, so even if this one is mis assigned or mis represented (which I’m not convinced of given the tripe he usually came out with) it still doesn’t take away from the fact he was a white supremacist Christian nationalist and spoke like one of the founding fathers of Gilead

If people are going to add character assassination to actual assassination, making up a complete lie, and justifying it as being "in the same vein" as something he would have actually said is not good enough.

Tkaequondo · 12/09/2025 08:40

Regardless of anything he said, or believed, I don't think there is an example of him inciting violence or personally committing violence against anyone. I am happy to be corrected on that if anyone has the details.

The simple fact is this was a 31 yr old man with two small children. How he evolved politically we will never learn because it will never happen. He could well have become more moderate / centrist and taken his youth following with him.

But as I say we will never know because he was murdered.

Unpaidviewer · 12/09/2025 08:41

MeTooOverHere · 12/09/2025 08:35

I'm not talking about his daughter. He said a 10YO rape victim should be forced to birth a child. That is just one example of his mentality.

That was due to his stance on abortion, he saw a fetus as the same as a child. I have American friends who feel the same. They believe that life begins at conception. I dont agree with them but if view both "lives" as equally weighted its easy to see how they reach that conclusion.

MeTooOverHere · 12/09/2025 08:42

VanCleefArpels · 12/09/2025 07:20

I fear you are missing the point. You are defining “what America stands for” in alignment with what you consider acceptable, without acknowledging that Charlie Kirk and others like him are actually reflecting what millions of people are thinking, as demonstrated by the election of Trump

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About 40% of Americans didn't vote and many of them are now wailing about it.
About 29.5% of Americans didn't vote for Trump and for many of them Trump is now behaving worse than they expected.
About 30.5% of Americans did vote for Trump and many of them are dismayed at what they've got.
They have another 3 and 1/2 years of this to go and there is a groundswell of anger. Many of them are saying these are NOT American values. Hence I don't think we should kid ourselves that Trump & co have wide support.

RingoJuice · 12/09/2025 08:43

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 08:34

Would you like to answer a final question I have? I understand if not.

Are the other views that I cited in my post earlier to you commonly held by 'Regular middle of the road' US Christians?

Yes, I know you defended the raped 10yo comment by saying that he had a religious belief that foetuses have a soul. Other Christians believe that and support rape exceptions. But I get what you mean there.

Still, is that really the middle of the road US Christian attitude?

And is it 'middle of the road US Christian ' to think abortion is worse than the Holocaust?

Or that having gay relationships is like being an alcoholic or drug addict?

Or that gay people are groomers who 'can't reproduce so must recruit' (a direct quote from arch homophobe Anita Bryant).

OK, in that case, you could say he meant paedophiles, not LGBT people. Or only some LGBT people (some obvs are bad, like straight people : see Drag Queen Stiry Hour etc) His sentence is ambiguous imo and Bryant certainly DID demonise all gay people.

Ridiculously, the 3 LGBT people ge was saying 'could not reproduce so had to recruit' all had children of their own!

So, what would you say?

I would need the context of these statements, I cannot take them at face value. But if you provide the context, I will ofc answer you as well as I can.

I grew up in this American context, Christian conservative family and community. Although I have left the church, I have nothing but love and respect for these people, who I think are unfairly hated by the left. They are good and decent people and I have no idea why they attract such hate. Maybe it’s just because they are a socially permissible group to hate idk.

But it’s very personal for me. Kirk could be my father, my brother, my son.

DitheringBlidiot · 12/09/2025 08:43

Havetoagree · 11/09/2025 21:30

Ahhh ok, I’m 41 so maybe the younger generation has!

I’m 36 and had heard of him and had a gist of his politics but not much else

Bruminbrum · 12/09/2025 08:44

Underthinker · 12/09/2025 08:39

If people are going to add character assassination to actual assassination, making up a complete lie, and justifying it as being "in the same vein" as something he would have actually said is not good enough.

I think your username is appropriate

that is a strawman, the character assassination as you’ve put it (although I would term it a list of his quotes) doesn’t hinge on that one quote, he said many many putrid things about women, Muslims, black people, Palestinians, the list goes on.

if that one quote has (and I personally don’t think it has) got misassinged by the internet on the way, then ok without clear evidence he said it, we’ll expunge that from his record, but that still leaves the other 999 things he said and the company he kept that keep him firmly in the camp of white supremacist christian nationalist

limescale · 12/09/2025 08:45

Teeheehee1579 · 11/09/2025 21:29

I hadn’t but my 16 year old daughter certainly had and was very shocked

Same - I'd read it on the news and didn't think much of it (beyond my usual "FFS bloody gun crime in the US") and then DS2 asked me about it.
I've since learnt more about it so we've had some conversations.

TheSwarm · 12/09/2025 08:47

RingoJuice · 12/09/2025 08:37

That’s not what he said. He was making the point that DEI undermines confidence. He was likely speaking in the context of the FAA ATC case, which was a huge scandal and undermined confidence in the recruitment processes meant to diversify the field (they had decided it was too white and male)

Yes, context is everything.

If you put the fact that he said:

"If I see a Black pilot, I'm gonna be like 'boy, I hope he is qualified,'"

Into the context of all the other racist things he said in his persuit of white supremism, it's pretty fucking clear where his toast was buttered.

He hated anyone who wasn't a straight, middle aged white man and actively sort to repress such people and take away their rights.

He didn't deserve to die for holding that opinion, but the world was not a better place with him in it.

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