Is this a shitty thing to do by DH

[Oscarsmom71]

Do just been out for a couple of drinks in large city centre.
Almost at train station to go home.
There is a road to cross with busy traffic and trams crossing.
DH sees traffic coming and runs across leaving me and makes it to the other side and turns around and laughs because he made it and I was left at the other side of the road.
He thinks it’s highly funny I didn’t make it.
So then I have to wait to cross when it’s safe.
DH can’t see why I’m upset. But to me it’s not caring. Not seeing if I cross safely.
To me he should’ve waited until I crossed safely not dash across and laugh at me.
For context also I had a nasty fall crossing a road once which he is aware of how long it took me to recover.

awww bless you heart, how utterly terrible and traumatising that must have been for you, sending you a virtual hug !!!!! Nasty nasty man !🙄

This isn’t really thread worthy but he’s an immature knob, him running across a busy road is not funny in the slightest.

Unless your husband is a 13 year old boy then YANBU. He sounds like an immature fuckwit. That's the kind of thing my brother used to do to me when we were teenagers. Not something I'd expect from my DH.

If dh ran across the road and laughed like that I would be embarrassed for him and a bit concerned that he was losing his marbles. Neither of you are behaving like adults.

I voted YABU because whilst your DH sounds like a drunken idiot, I don’t think he did a shitty thing. Tedious or irritating maybe but given you can cross a road just fine I think shitty is blowing it out of proportion.

That would really irritate me. I'm not a child.

Overreaction my god

No, he's not patronising at all, he's the loveliest kindest person. That was just an example, not literally every kerb. I had a bad fall a few years ago and broke my shoulder, so he is only trying to take care of me, and I really appreciate that. I can think of a lot worse qualities in a person than being caring.

Non event

I'm genuinely happy that you're happy, but I would go insane if that were me 🤣

This, and that some posters have to be told that there's a curb when crossing a road, or are incapable of safely crossing a road well and need physically stopped from walking into moving traffic!

No, not at all, he's the loveliest kindest person. That was just an example, not literally every kerb. I had a bad fall a few years ago and broke my shoulder, so he is only trying to take care of me, and I really appreciate that. I can think of a lot worse qualities in a person than being caring.

Ahem... kerb!!

I'm genuinely glad you like it, but I guess it just shows that everyone has different definitions of "caring".

Because if someone did it to me, I would assume they thought I was incapable.

No, not at all, he's the loveliest kindest person. That was just an example, not literally every kerb. I had a bad fall a few years ago and broke my shoulder, so he is only trying to take care of me, and I really appreciate that. I can think of a lot worse qualities in a person than being caring.

My husband would’ve held my hand or let me link him and walked me across the road. But then, I married a grown man, not a boy.

Why would that make him a grown man?

Do you have mobility issues that caused your previous fall? Do you not go out unsupervised?

Erm, I think you have read a lot into this, not sure most people would give it a second thought

I'd probably call him a name but get over it fairly quickly. Life is too short to be annoyed at little things like that IMO. Sorry

Laugh it off and move on with your day. You’re over reacting.

Agree with @JudgeBread

It’s a shame some posters aren’t supervised on the internet.

He crossed without you. Big deal. Maybe not nice, but nothing to fuss over.

He's a childish dickead OP.
I wouldn't find it funny either.
He's certainly no gentleman, thats for sure.