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Is this a shitty thing to do by DH

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Oscarsmom71 · 06/09/2025 17:01

Do just been out for a couple of drinks in large city centre.
Almost at train station to go home.
There is a road to cross with busy traffic and trams crossing.
DH sees traffic coming and runs across leaving me and makes it to the other side and turns around and laughs because he made it and I was left at the other side of the road.
He thinks it’s highly funny I didn’t make it.
So then I have to wait to cross when it’s safe.
DH can’t see why I’m upset. But to me it’s not caring. Not seeing if I cross safely.
To me he should’ve waited until I crossed safely not dash across and laugh at me.
For context also I had a nasty fall crossing a road once which he is aware of how long it took me to recover.

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TheignT · 10/09/2025 10:43

daleylama · 09/09/2025 22:48

Well he's a dick on2 counts. He has to still wait for you, and he's not understanding your trauma.

I think the trauma could be worse if someone isn't letting you make your own decision about when to cross. I suppose the reality is trauma will be different people.

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