DH stole from me

[Odonje]

At the weekend DH and I went to Knaresborough for a day out - famous for its sausage rolls and pork pies. I don’t like pork pies so I was very much looking forward to the lovely sausage rolls we bought in the bakery. It wasn’t a sausage roll, it was a bean roll but these are just as famous and they looked delicious. DH gobbled his up immediately whereas I took mine home to eat later in comfort of my own home.

later that evening, I wanted to try it but didn’t want the whole thing so I ripped a bit off the end to eat and kept the rest wrapped up in the fridge ready to eat today. I was very much looking forward to it. At lunch time I put my soup on and went to get the sausage roll - it wasn’t there. I messaged DH and he didn’t reply (coward) so I called his work place who went to find him. He denied it at first but eventually admitted to running off with it this morning. I’m gutted. I know it’s a small thing and it’s just a sausage roll but it’s the disrespect, the lies, the outright disregard for my feelings. Latest in a long line of events. Icing on the cake.

I have told him he has no moral compass and the bastard has gone to look up moral compass on yahoo to prove that it’s not a thing. I want it replaced. At the very least I want an apology. AIBU to refuse to cook him dinner or make him coffee until he apologises and promises to replace it.

I live near Knaresborough and have been to Luxembourg a couple of times, and can confirm they are nothing like each other apart from having a river at the bottom of a cliff.

OP was it from Hirsts?

I think you are very unreasonable to have chosen a sausage roll with the sausage removed and beans in its place.

Seriously though, if my DH ate my speciality sausage roll then I would be mad too - my DH also has form for this sort of thing which drives me mad. Usually I ask him if he wants a snack, crisps, chocolate etc - he says no, so I buy for myself, then he proceeds to eat the half bag of Doritos I've left in the cupboard for another day.

Life is too short...smile and laugh about it. I am sure he enjoyed. He can take you out for a nice meal as an apology. 🤗

This is 100% NOT about the sausage roll is it?

The sausage roll is just the final straw.

Its the "dish left next to the dishwasher" story.

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Yes, Hirsts.

update - thank you for the replies DH has finally apologised and we’re going back to Knaresborough on Saturday to get some more.

I agree & sympathise with you OP. I have hidden various treats of mine & DC’s in alsorts of places as H never gets the idea however much I’ve complained/yelled/asked/pleaded. To b fair he did go to boarding sch. aged 6 & all the kids were always starving! (so really should know not to steal others stuff?).
Hope you get your other sausage/bean roll 😊

That, and the compulsory texting all day.
I swear there are thirty-year old teenagers going about, marrying, reproducing, and stashing pasties from each other, and nobody even alerts Childline.

Are you joking 😂

It's a sausage roll he probably thought of she's only had 1 bite didn't like it so left the rest of it for him. Totally unreasonable to ring him at work and order him to the phone over a sausage roll. 🤔🙄

This sounds like weak parenting of a spoilt child having a tantrum.

If he’d had answered my texts I wouldn’t have had to call work

@Odonje I don't mean to be insensitive but you have made me chuckle. Calling the man at work to interrogate him over a missing sausage roll is hilarious. Girl after my own heart 🤣🤣

Can't believe you called him at work about a sausage roll, that is hilarious 😂. I wonder if he told his work mates why you rang.

My dh ate some Maltesers I bought for myself, he allegedly doesn't eat chocolate 🙄, so I never buy him any.
I didn't make him feel bad but next time he went shopping, he bought me a bigger bag than I'd bought. Happy days!

My DH would’ve eaten it much, much quicker. No way would it have lasted three days (?!) in the fridge.
I don’t know what I should do about the fact my DH is very greedy or what you should do about your marriage.. If I was you, next time I’d buy several and I’d say THIS ONE IS MINE very firmly. If it was eaten anyway I would expect DH to go and buy me another.

Yes annoying but you called his work place?! I’m not sure who is worse.

When I started dating my OH, we were having some cheese and crackers and I had prepared a cracker for myself with just the right amount of cheese. He ate it, and claimed it was an accident. I will never forgive him.

No, it’s BEAN ROLL-GATE !!!

I’d be more annoyed about someone calling me at work over a trivial issue that could have been discussed when I got home

Ye are as bad as each other

I used to have a boss who behaved like this, except with him it was Gregg's maccy pehs. Completely infuriating. I could write an entire book about it.

Luxembourg is pretty but absolutely FULL of spiders.

There's that, sure-but him looking it up on Yahoo was the bit that got me.

He took the icing off the cake too?!! Definitely LTB!!

What is maccy pehs?
Is it a spelling mistake.

I don't frequent Gregg's, so can't even begin to guess what it could be.

But…but…you can’t top the taste of a Twirl.

Shipton.