The thing is, even as somebody who's fairly outspoken, it honestly still feels a bit of a taboo subject. Like, I'd never dare mention it in an office environment and feel a bit icky for discussing it full stop tbh. But that's likely the long arm of social conditioning. It's not something we should be silenced on. Especially not by the demographic most affected, which also seem to be the most dismissive of it.
What is it that feminists always say about VAWG? "If you're not part of the solution you're part of the problem." I've defo heard many a feminist say that if innocent men don't like feeling implicated in male violence then they need to stand up and challenge the bad men amongst them.
Where's that logic when the demographic is suddenly a cultural demographic rather than a sex based demographic?
Personally, I'm not really one for group culpability/sins of the fathers and all that stuff that's so beloved in identity politics. I've always been more inclined towards personal responsibility. But for consistency surely the good Muslims should be standing up against the wronguns in their midst and letting them know that FGM/forced marriage/honour killings/radical beliefs and general sexual assaults will not be tolerated? As feminists say of men "if you don't want to be tarred with the same brush then you need to speak up."
Why is this age old argument suddenly not relevant?
I do feel there is a much bigger culture clash with some strands of Islam than with pretty much any of the other big religions tbh. I remember a survey, pretty sure it was by the BBC, which found that over half of UK Muslims believe that homosexuality should be an imprisonable crime and almost half believe that a gay person should not be allowed to be a teacher. About 25% were in favour of Sharia law and 40% believed that a woman should always obey her husband.
There have been outrages and cancellings for far less polarising beliefs than this but educated people generally won't challenge an ethnic minority as it's just not seen as the right thing to ever do. The problem isn't ethnicity IMO, it's pervasive cultural beliefs that go unchallenged.
EDIT: Here's the abovementioned study. Only 66% completely condemned women being stoned to death which isn't a great figure to me.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2016/apr/11/british-muslims-strong-sense-of-belonging-poll-homosexuality-sharia-law