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Stop being jealous of rich woman

178 replies

Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:25

All this envy some of you have towards women married to rich men.
HE has the money not her if she's given up her job to look after the kids shes pretty much stuck can't even run away unless it's to live in a tent because he pays the rent and she has none of her own money. Technically could be starved by him because he's 100% in control of the finances.

Same goes for the kids actually just because they have a rich dad doesn't mean he isn't beating ten tons of shit out of them

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SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 18/08/2025 16:31

Bizarre post.

YouMightThinkThat · 18/08/2025 16:32

Well that's us told then!

Anchorage56 · 18/08/2025 16:32

What country are you from OP? And the title is wrong, she isnt rich if it's just her husband that has the money.

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 16:32

Are you projecting?

Profhilodisaster · 18/08/2025 16:33

Is this the same poster who was saying posh people shouldn't moan ?

Bananapotato · 18/08/2025 16:34

Right?

FlipFlopBattle · 18/08/2025 16:34

🍿🍿🍿

BauhausOfEliott · 18/08/2025 16:34

All right, mate, keep it light

hangerup · 18/08/2025 16:34

🍿

Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:34

Anchorage56 · 18/08/2025 16:32

What country are you from OP? And the title is wrong, she isnt rich if it's just her husband that has the money.

The UK

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soupyspoon · 18/08/2025 16:35

Ok, thank you for letting me know.

5128gap · 18/08/2025 16:35

Are you giving yourself a talking to OP and accidently pressed post? Because the majority of us out here will just be minding our business, getting on with our own rich/poor/average lifestyles, not seething with resentment about women with wealthy partners, and trying to convince ourselves their lives are actually rubbish.

Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:36

soupyspoon · 18/08/2025 16:35

Ok, thank you for letting me know.

You're welcome

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Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:38

5128gap · 18/08/2025 16:35

Are you giving yourself a talking to OP and accidently pressed post? Because the majority of us out here will just be minding our business, getting on with our own rich/poor/average lifestyles, not seething with resentment about women with wealthy partners, and trying to convince ourselves their lives are actually rubbish.

I see a lot of resentment towards rich woman on this app conversely I also see a lot of resentment towards poor women on welfare people saying it's fraud if she doesn't declare every man she dates. When sharing finances with a cunt of a male can really fuck your life up.

That is all

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EvenMoreCrisps · 18/08/2025 16:39

Anchorage56 · 18/08/2025 16:32

What country are you from OP? And the title is wrong, she isnt rich if it's just her husband that has the money.

Nope. Married couples are financially linked. One half doesn't own all the assets or money.

OP why are these rich people you know renting?

Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:41

EvenMoreCrisps · 18/08/2025 16:39

Nope. Married couples are financially linked. One half doesn't own all the assets or money.

OP why are these rich people you know renting?

Point is she can't just leave him and rent or buy her own place because it's HIM that holds the purse strings so she's pretty much a bird trapped in a golden cage

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Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:42

Profhilodisaster · 18/08/2025 16:33

Is this the same poster who was saying posh people shouldn't moan ?

No

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Anchorage56 · 18/08/2025 16:42

EvenMoreCrisps · 18/08/2025 16:39

Nope. Married couples are financially linked. One half doesn't own all the assets or money.

OP why are these rich people you know renting?

I was referring to the OP talking about the man having full control over his wife because he is rich. Not sure what the post is all about!

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 18/08/2025 16:44

I read the thread title and thought this was going to be about rich women?

Not women married to rich men 😳

Starlight1984 · 18/08/2025 16:45

Random.

EvenMoreCrisps · 18/08/2025 16:45

Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:41

Point is she can't just leave him and rent or buy her own place because it's HIM that holds the purse strings so she's pretty much a bird trapped in a golden cage

Not sure why you're chastising people about someone's very specific life choices and circumstances. But if you know someone who is being financially abused tell her to contact C.a.b./ a solicitor.

shellyleppard · 18/08/2025 16:46

😂😂😂 shouldn't the title be rich women 😂😂

Upsetbetty · 18/08/2025 16:46

Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:41

Point is she can't just leave him and rent or buy her own place because it's HIM that holds the purse strings so she's pretty much a bird trapped in a golden cage

some women can and do leave…I did!

Sackofsatchels · 18/08/2025 16:48

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 18/08/2025 16:44

I read the thread title and thought this was going to be about rich women?

Not women married to rich men 😳

People often look at a wealthy family and assume they're all "privileged" as it gets said on this site all the time. Just because the man is rich that doesn't mean the wife or kids see a crumb of the money other than the "privilege" of living in an assholes mansion.

Conversely they do the same to poor woman there's a thread in actives rn about reporting welfare fraud if a woman is dating a man and doesn't declare him straight away. Like dating a man necessarily means he helps with the bills

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kimbear87 · 18/08/2025 16:49

Someone’s jealous…