Stop being jealous of rich woman

[Sackofsatchels]

All this envy some of you have towards women married to rich men.
HE has the money not her if she's given up her job to look after the kids shes pretty much stuck can't even run away unless it's to live in a tent because he pays the rent and she has none of her own money. Technically could be starved by him because he's 100% in control of the finances.

Same goes for the kids actually just because they have a rich dad doesn't mean he isn't beating ten tons of shit out of them

Utter rubbish. You can get qualifications. You can get work experience. You can get housing. And no the kids do not "go to him because he has a house". This is 2025, not 1825. You won't have the same standard of living. But most people don't have it anyway. So you choose sexual slavery or freedom.

In which part of the UK do you say assholes?

misses point of weird thread

Lol I must of missed that comment I get why they're questioning "welfare" but what's unusually exotic about "assholes"

South coast if you must know though

If. He's. Living. With. You. You're. Not. Single.

How much clearer can it be? If he isn't financially helping out, don't live with him! The tax payers don't have to pay because your partner is a loser!

🤣🤣 brutal

I don't recall saying my welfare payments were stopped though. Wait did I even say I've ever claimed welfare? Just said some bitter bag spread a rumour I was committing fraud when she knew nothing about me

Your most recent posts give the game away as to why you are so bitter about a very particular set of circumstances with a certain type of man

Chill out OP.

What difference does it make to taxpayers if such a man was there anyway? Even if he wasn't there the taxpayer still has to pay

So your actual gripe is that you can’t move a high earning man into your household without losing your benefits?!
What was all the “don’t be jealous, high earning men are probably abusive” bollocks about?
You really need to start earning your own living.

No idea what you’re on about OP. You can be furious at people for wherever reasons you like… you do you..

If you’re expecting people to engage in some kind of discussion with you, either about wealth or the benefit system, it might be sensible to write a coherent argument. Have you been taking lessons from the Trump School of Debating..? You’re making about as much sense as he does…

The clue is in the name. SINGLE.

Sackofsatchels · Today 16:41

Point is she can't just leave him and rent or buy her own place because it's HIM that holds the purse strings so she's pretty much a bird trapped in a golden cage

Why can't she just leave him? She'd be in no worse a situation than poor women who didn't marry a rich man.

Just the one woman?

Yes, just op, apparently.
Although she’s on welfare as well as being rich. Nice work if you can get it, eh?

That is quite something.

Well why does having a rich husband stop a woman from being a grown up and getting a job?

Asshole is used in America, whereas it is generally arsehole in the UK.

I am neither, not every thread on this site is personal

Well that is not something they teach you at school!

Why would you assume that a "rich woman" doesn't have/earn her own money, and that she even has a husband at all, let alone a rich one?

So, this is a mumsnet dispersal order? If so, yes YABU

I'd bloody kill him and land in jail rather than let that happen.

i understand the sentiment but what do you think would happen to your children?

Ass as opposed to arse started to seep in from across the Atlantic as far back as the min 1980s. As far as I can see, it's now used interchangeably with arse. Must cause confusion since 'stupid ass' as in donkey is still used.

Or living in an assholes mansion (sic)

I'm British and it's arsehole. No-one says asshole.