Stop being jealous of rich woman

[Sackofsatchels]

All this envy some of you have towards women married to rich men.
HE has the money not her if she's given up her job to look after the kids shes pretty much stuck can't even run away unless it's to live in a tent because he pays the rent and she has none of her own money. Technically could be starved by him because he's 100% in control of the finances.

Same goes for the kids actually just because they have a rich dad doesn't mean he isn't beating ten tons of shit out of them

I was with you until this point.

If she's living with him (regardless of his financial position) she shouldn't be claiming benefits as single/living alone.

Backs out slowly...

but not before saying.... there IS help out there if you need it.

I'm married and I don't work, but I still own half of the house...Who are these wealthy renters?

@Sackofsatchels

Seems to be a lot of people who don't like this post.
What part do you disagree with?

Most people just don't know what you're talking about

The heading and the post make no sense.

Has your bingo been cancelled tonight?

People that bitterly moan about the "privileged" wives and kids of rich men annoy me. Thatt is built on the assumption hes a good man. You don't think it matters but he's real life consequences kids in those situations have missed out on going to university seeing as the loan is based on your parents income as if everyone gets on with their parents.

And all the snakes on here that brag about reporting their poor on welfare friends/sisters etc for fraud because they don't declare their new partner straight away. That's also assuming he helps out. People have killed themselves over the stress of being reported

I am married to a partner in a law firm. There’s some truth to this. If I want the lifestyle then yes I’m stuck I guess.. but it’s balance.. there’s good and bad. I have less stress as I don’t work and we get on pretty well xx

This is a very confusing thread about both the rich and also people reporting potential benefit fraud 🤯🤣

I'd rather cry in a Bentley than my Yaris.

Life's too short OP. No idea what you're on about. Sounds like you are the wife living in Asshole Mansions.

You'd perhaps be better going on those specific threads rather than telling off the rest of us who've not been near them - I am more parking and advice about batshit mothers.

You're as bad as the OP. Terribly patronising.

That you Melania?

I have heard no stories, where are these stories, where can I read them?

People often look at a wealthy family and assume they're all "privileged" as it gets said on this site all the time

what if the woman made all the money and it’s her poor down trodden DH we should be feeling sorry for?!

Don't be silly, that's impossible!

I know quite a few women married to rich men and they are having a whale of a time good luck to them 😂

My DH would disagree😂

Wealthy people are privileged.
That some may also be abusive (like people from all walks of life) is irrelevant, really.

You dont sound like you are from the UK. We dont say assholes and we dont say welfare. Just saying.

I’m rich but I don’t need a man to do it. I’d never be jealous of someone who need a man to provide for them, I actually feel sorry for them in many circumstances as they literally have nothing of their own and the whole Situation is very precarious . This post is very odd.

This is bollocks.
Course she can - even in cases of financial abuse solicitors will often handle divorces of rich couples on account because they know the assets are there to cover their bills in future. And starting point for a divorce is 50:50, and then she can do what she likes.

I was a woman married to a high earning man (and I'd helped build up our wealth before bringing up kids and facilitating his career) and whilst my life was not at all perfect and he was quite abusive, it was a damn sight better being rich in that situation that it was being poor in that situation.

Are you talking about your own situation OP?

I don't think you are originally British, you may be from the UK but some of your terms are wrong should be 'gilded cage' not 'golden cage'.

Born and bred in the UK as were my parents and grandparents yeah we definitely say assholes. And I personally prefer welfare to benefits just rolls off the tongue better not that it matters 🙄

Even if Im from Timbuktu my point still stands!