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To ask those who are not white brittish how they feel about the flags?

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PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

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Arlanymor · 18/08/2025 14:21

And someone asked about the Union Flag - it doesn't have the same connotations. But as a Welsh person, it means nothing to me, we're not included, it's just a non-thing for me, it doesn't represent anything about Wales.

42wallabywaysydney · 18/08/2025 14:22

I am not white (and also not really British either as born overseas though I do have a British passport now). English flags don’t bother me one bit and no it’s not rascist but I do think plastering random flags about on lamp posts, in windows and so on is stupid regardless of the flag. That includes all the ridiculous Ukraine flags that appeared here a few years ago, which were then swiftly replaced by Palestinian flags in many cases, token activism at its best. Equating the English flag to Nazism is ridiculous though, sorry.

GypsyQueeen · 18/08/2025 14:22

TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:16

Interesting but she doesn't speak for every non white person.

Of course she doesn't. None of us do. The op asked what people who aren't white thought. The poster shared her DIL's views.

Worralorra · 18/08/2025 14:23

randomchap · 18/08/2025 14:04

Nope, not a me problem.

Racism and the far right are on the rise. That's a problem for the whole country.

If you can't see how the flags are being misused to stir up racial and religious intolerance then you are being naive

Jingoism is defined ans extreme patriotism, especially in the form of aggressive or warlike foreign policy.
For it to be interpreted by you as the only reason for flying the flag does make it a “you” problem.

If you could accept that some white British people are just as proud of their flag because it represents our Country, as E.g. the Welsh are, then you may begin to see it a little differently.

England needs to reclaim its flag back: what better way than by flying it, whilst being welcoming to and tolerant of those who also choose to live here?

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TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:23

HolidayInCambodia25 · 18/08/2025 14:20

Why would non-white English/British citizens be intimated by seeing the flag of their nation?

Surely as English/British, they feel as deeply proud & patriotic in seeing it, as any white person in the country?

Because it is used by the far right and has come to be associated with the far right.

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 14:23

HolidayInCambodia25 · 18/08/2025 14:20

Why would non-white English/British citizens be intimated by seeing the flag of their nation?

Surely as English/British, they feel as deeply proud & patriotic in seeing it, as any white person in the country?

Possibly because they have been threatened by violent flag draped thugs? Or seen that happening on the TV? Just a thought.

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 14:24

Rella357 · 18/08/2025 13:45

Sometimes I do side eye someone's house if they have the St George's flag and assume they may be racist. As someone who has been racially attacked I'd rather assume someone is racist and be pleasantly surprised than assume I am safe and be proven wrong. However for some reason the British flag doesn't evoke the same emotions in me. Whenever there's a major sporting event though I don't think twice when people have flags outside.

My neighbour, who isn’t white, put up the England flag in support of the England women’s’ football team.

FrippEnos · 18/08/2025 14:24

TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:15

My husband is almost 80, he remembers being spat at on the street as a child, he remembers how he was treated as the first black officer in his police force. His immediate thoughts is that it might be racist, self preservation so maybe that is a problem with him but who created the problem.

Again racism not jingoism.

Lavenderflower · 18/08/2025 14:25

I don't have any issue with the flag but I do tend to associate it with the far right and football hooliganism.

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 14:25

TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:23

Because it is used by the far right and has come to be associated with the far right.

So the rest of us just have to let them have it do we ?

Saponarium · 18/08/2025 14:25

FallingIsLearning · 18/08/2025 14:16

British born and bred, but obviously visually ‘foreign’-looking, and thus have had racist (ranging from uncomfortable to downright dangerous) encounters with a very small minority of people both in my personal and professional life. To those for whom the colour of my skin is a problem, I am viewed as non-British.

I don’t believe the union flag is considered to be racist. Same for the saltire and the Welsh dragon.

However, it depends on the context for the St George flag. Around the time of sporting events where England, rather than GB are competing, then no, not racist. A whole town festooned with the flag, no, I would not consider it to be racist. In these situations, I think it’s patriotic, brings the community together, and actually is rather lovely thing to see.

Unfortunately, whether we like to admit it or not, the St George flag has been co-opted by certain racist far-right groups. In combination with a constellation of other factors, I would find the display of the flag to be a marker that I might be under threat from an individual just from the colour of my skin.

I think there are usually enough other signifiers to show whether the intent of flying the flag is benign or potentially more dangerous.

(Just like for example itching is very common, and in the vast majority of cases is of no concern at all, but in combination with other features may be a sign of very serious pathology).

I think those commenting above are probably correct -maybe we should fly the flag more to reclaim it.

Non white here and this post says everything I was going to say.

It's slightly worrying the number of seemingly racism-illiterate people on this thread who apparently can't fathom how a flag could ever be linked to racism, as if it's never occurred to them before. "How can a flag be racist?". Context is absolutely everything.

Silvertulips · 18/08/2025 14:26

I no longer live in England where i live they fly their flags with pride. I think it’s wonderful that love their country. I am happy to live here amongst those who feel pride! It’s a sense of community - I am not threatened by it, no one has made me feel like i don’t belong here or aren’t welcome.

A lot of homes on the main road have flag poles attached to their second floors - let them fly their flags.

TheGoldoffEternal · 18/08/2025 14:26

I'm white, non Brit and adooore St George, my Christian Europe. I posted. Now eff off

HolidayInCambodia25 · 18/08/2025 14:26

UsernameMcUsername · 18/08/2025 14:16

I'm Irish, long resident in England, & am just sick of flags generally at this stage - Union Jack, George's Cross, EU, Pride, Progress Pride, all the endless sexual orientation flags, Palestine - they can get in the bin. When I was growing up in the Republic we used to eye roll at the Northern Irish obsession with 'flegs' strung up everywhere to mark tribal territory. It's sad to see it happening here thirty years later. And all flags are about territorial marking - Pride's just as much about claiming territory for Progressives, Palestine flags can mark an area as Muslim etc etc. So I guess the English/ British right might as well have their 'flegs' out too.

This. How about we see the English & British flags on display everywhere, and ALL other flags removed. No reason we need the flag of any other nation, or political agenda on display in public spaces. These should be confined to private spaces. Sounds like a win-win.

Whammyyammy · 18/08/2025 14:26

Royal residences, military stations and ships, religious buildings etc have all flown flags of the nation for centuries.
Its not racist at all.

I visit the U S a lot, all govt buildings fly the stars and stripes as do many residential homes, I respect their proud patriotism.

Cloudymonday · 18/08/2025 14:26

Mixed race immigrant household and we actually talked about this at the weekend.
Don't see reason why Brits can't fly their flags. The only reason these are being taken down is because they are unauthorised, isn't it?

Re "but it's far right flag now😭" stop hand wringing. So is everyone's flag. Far right always waves their national flags. It's really only here people willingly stop using their flag because bunch of far right uses it (logically as it's their nation's flag, what else should they use?). Thinking like that means that basically no country could use their flag because they are all used by local far right nationalist groups...

Fandango52 · 18/08/2025 14:27

TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:21

Cappadocia is in Turkey, national boundaries change.

Yes, but I think @Judashascomeintosomemoney is perhaps trying to say that Cappadocia wasn’t in Turkey when St George was alive, so he can’t be described as Turkish. I think he was actually Greek rather than Turkish, after doing a bit of Googling.

SerendipityJane · 18/08/2025 14:27

It's a shame they are flying them at half mast. It gives the impression they are a bit thick. Which I am sure is not the case.

AInightingale · 18/08/2025 14:28

I'd imagine they're being put up in reaction to and defiance of the proliferation of Palestinian flags, Pride flags, Pakistan flags, that we've seen in recent years. It's all just tit-for-tat and it's very tedious. It will become like Northern Ireland with areas marking territory with flags on lamp posts.

Whammyyammy · 18/08/2025 14:28

HolidayInCambodia25 · 18/08/2025 14:26

This. How about we see the English & British flags on display everywhere, and ALL other flags removed. No reason we need the flag of any other nation, or political agenda on display in public spaces. These should be confined to private spaces. Sounds like a win-win.

Agreed. No other nations flags should every be flown in another country, unless diplomats visiting, as a mark of respect.

LittlleMy · 18/08/2025 14:28

@PicaK as a brown British born person, when I see flags put up as part of a specific celebration eg Queens Jubilee, war remembrance or sports event, I really like the sense of community and pride it creates.

On the other hand, when I pass through residential areas (usually deprived areas) and I see flags randomly flying from outside peoples bedroom windows, I do feel a little frightened as I sense them as more intimidating as it’s communicating a different message to my former example.

Cel77 · 18/08/2025 14:28

I'm white but French. I don't like the subtext either. The UK is not a country at war. People don't realise how lucky they are sometimes. I understand why the Ukrainian and Palestinian flags are being hung or raised in protests as they are conveying a message from victimised countries.
The UK is not a victimised country. I dislike the French flag being paraded for the same reason.
I think flags are ok if they're to celebrate a country's pride such as during football matches, or on a National Day such at St George/Bastille day and the Armistice days too.
They recognise the good in a country, and are not used as a defensive,dividing weapon.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 18/08/2025 14:29

RitaRetro · 18/08/2025 13:40

I think over time it's been hijacked by white nationalists who are too thick to realise that St George was actually Turkish.

St George wasn’t ‘Turkish’, for the simple reason that when he was alive, Turkey didn’t exist. It was part of the Roman Empire, and he was ( probably) a Roman soldier.

The Turks didn’t emerge onto the European scene until 14th century, about a thousand years after St George. Maybe check your facts before calling other people ‘thick’.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/08/2025 14:29

Arlanymor · 18/08/2025 14:21

And someone asked about the Union Flag - it doesn't have the same connotations. But as a Welsh person, it means nothing to me, we're not included, it's just a non-thing for me, it doesn't represent anything about Wales.

I think the red bit does (represent Wales)😂

Arlanymor · 18/08/2025 14:29

Fandango52 · 18/08/2025 14:27

Yes, but I think @Judashascomeintosomemoney is perhaps trying to say that Cappadocia wasn’t in Turkey when St George was alive, so he can’t be described as Turkish. I think he was actually Greek rather than Turkish, after doing a bit of Googling.

Yes, he was definitely Greek - land boundaries changing after his death don't alter his nationality when he was alive!

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