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To ask those who are not white brittish how they feel about the flags?

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PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

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SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 12:54

randomchap · 19/08/2025 12:17

German civilians were involved in the Holocaust, both directly and indirectly

Ordinary police units were involved in the rounding up of Jews
Those working on the trains helped transport them to concentration camps
Civilians informed on Jews in hiding and on German's who helped them
German companies like Krupp used forced labour.

Try reading one of these:

Christopher R. Browning - Ordinary Men: Reserve Police Battalion 101 and the Final Solution in Poland (1992)
Christopher R. Browning - Ordinary Men: Reserve Police Battalion 101 and the Final Solution in Poland (1992)
Peter Fritzsche - Life and Death in the Third Reich (2008)

So.... That makes their people in 2025 accountable? And that makes you think of those followers of a nutcases regime when you look at their flag?

randomchap · 19/08/2025 12:59

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 12:54

So.... That makes their people in 2025 accountable? And that makes you think of those followers of a nutcases regime when you look at their flag?

You said

"So you believe German civilians were at fault ? Wow!"

"were at fault" therefore talking about the civilians at the time, not now.

You're just moving the goalposts when presented with facts.

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 13:01

Prettyrosess · 19/08/2025 12:42

Are you always like this? Or just on mumsnet?

Are you trying to silence my right to free speech? I suggest you move on, if you are not happy.

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 13:04

randomchap · 19/08/2025 12:59

You said

"So you believe German civilians were at fault ? Wow!"

"were at fault" therefore talking about the civilians at the time, not now.

You're just moving the goalposts when presented with facts.

Ok. I personally don't believe the heart of the fault lays with German civilians. It was a dictator who was evil that orchestrated the lot. Done people do terrible terrible things because they are utterly petrified of the leader. So ultimate blame lays with the cunt we call Hitler

randomchap · 19/08/2025 13:09

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 13:04

Ok. I personally don't believe the heart of the fault lays with German civilians. It was a dictator who was evil that orchestrated the lot. Done people do terrible terrible things because they are utterly petrified of the leader. So ultimate blame lays with the cunt we call Hitler

It's very easy to point the finger at one man, and say it's all his fault. But that ignores the collaborators, facilitators, direct perpetrators, and the ones who benefitted from the properties stolen from Jews. It's a simplistic and basic view.

Please read some of those books, learn more about it. One of them is even online, you don't need to buy it

https://archive.org/details/B-001-014-069

What We Knew: Terror, Mass Murder, and Everyday Life in Nazi Germany / An Oral History : Eric A. Johnson : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive

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https://archive.org/details/B-001-014-069

faffadoodledo · 19/08/2025 13:10

@SquishedMallow How do you suppose that dictator came to power? How were the conditions made right for that to happen?

I happen to think the German people did a blimmin good job post war of coming to terms with what they and their parents did or allowed to happen. And are to be applauded for that. But to say I personally don't believe the heart of the fault lays with German civilians. It was a dictator who was evil that orchestrated the lot displays an alarming lack of education on the subject.

We're a long way from the 1930s now, but I was born just thirty years after Kristalnacht, and my parents and grandparents' memories stretched back to the war and pre war period. There's no way they would have accepted that German civilians were entirely innocent bystanders.

bombastix · 19/08/2025 13:36

They elected him! A minority government who despised Jews and quickly put in camps for undesirables. Some German people thought it was a good idea. Some still do. Nazi Germany was an elected government.

Namechange4466543 · 19/08/2025 13:42

LavaHoover · 18/08/2025 13:38

I am Scottish and our flag doesn't have racist connotations. But if the English flag genuinely is considered to be racist by the majority of the population, then obviously it needs to be changed. You can't have a national flag which people/companies/councils cannot display without accusations of racism. Is it the case that this flag is widely perceived to be racist, or not? If not, it's obviously fine to keep it as England's national flag, and it's fine for it to be flown.

No, our flag doesnt have rascist connotations except to the English. I used to like our flag but now im ashamed to see it. It just reminds me of the yes to independence mob

TommehTenNamesIsAWanker · 19/08/2025 13:46

ACynicalDad · 19/08/2025 09:16

I'm way more concerned by the Palestinian and Pakistani ones than the English flag in England. We should reclaim it so it's not a far right thing, the amount of English who hate their country is so odd.

This is a really odd comment.

First off you acknowledge that the St George’s cross has become a symbol of far right activism and sentiment (otherwise you wouldn’t say we should reclaim it so it’s not a far right thing).

You then accuse people who object to that symbol of xenophobia of ‘hating their country’.

Would also suggest that maybe you don’t feel threatened by the visibility of the far right on our streets and in our communities, because you don’t belong to one of the minority group they have targeted with their violence.

Sdpbody · 19/08/2025 13:52

bombastix · 19/08/2025 13:36

They elected him! A minority government who despised Jews and quickly put in camps for undesirables. Some German people thought it was a good idea. Some still do. Nazi Germany was an elected government.

But in the same vane, we can say that the Palestinian's voted in Hamas in 2006 and Hamas hates Jews. So, the Palestinian's knew that when they voted in Hamas, they were voting in someone who wants to persecute Jewish people.

LizzieW1969 · 19/08/2025 13:53

faffadoodledo · 19/08/2025 13:10

@SquishedMallow How do you suppose that dictator came to power? How were the conditions made right for that to happen?

I happen to think the German people did a blimmin good job post war of coming to terms with what they and their parents did or allowed to happen. And are to be applauded for that. But to say I personally don't believe the heart of the fault lays with German civilians. It was a dictator who was evil that orchestrated the lot displays an alarming lack of education on the subject.

We're a long way from the 1930s now, but I was born just thirty years after Kristalnacht, and my parents and grandparents' memories stretched back to the war and pre war period. There's no way they would have accepted that German civilians were entirely innocent bystanders.

^This 💯. Without widespread support from within the German population, the Nazi regime wouldn’t have been able to do what they did to the Jews. It was widely known that Jews were being sent to ghettos and then concentration camps.

bombastix · 19/08/2025 14:01

Sdpbody · 19/08/2025 13:52

But in the same vane, we can say that the Palestinian's voted in Hamas in 2006 and Hamas hates Jews. So, the Palestinian's knew that when they voted in Hamas, they were voting in someone who wants to persecute Jewish people.

Not really. The power imbalance is vast between Israel and Gaza. A more apt analogy is that the UK elects a government that persecutes say Muslims, and then decides a year or so later no elections are needed.

The point is that the Nazis won a popular vote. A lot of people agreed with their ideas.

CrispySquid · 19/08/2025 14:26

I’m not white British but Asian. Born here, lived here all my life. Parents were immigrants that came over in the 1960s. Absolutely love this country.

To me, the St George’s flag isn’t racist per se as it’s a bit of material. It’s just there’s just such a strong connotation with football hooligans and the far right so that’s what I associate with it. The Union Jack flag on the other hand to me at least is a thing of beauty. It doesn’t have the same connotations to me. When I see the Union Jack, I think of the monarchy, last night at the proms, the Olympics, festivals, VE Day, sporting and music endeavours, expeditions etc. Fills me with love and pride and represents everything wonderful about this country. I have union jacks in my classroom on my British great scientists display.

R0ckandHardPlace · 19/08/2025 14:55

bombastix · 19/08/2025 12:16

Yes of course. It is foolish to imagine that there were not a lot of ordinary Germans who approved of what the Nazis did. They were voted in. They sent their disabled and children to be rationalized into hospitals. Some of them despised Jews and regarded them as sub normal, some enjoyed the power they had over their fellow citizens and got to be sadists with state backing.

There are always people with these instincts. It’s just that unusually in Germany they were voted in.

Anyway, the generations after are not guilty of their crimes.

I agree completely that modern day Germans are not guilty for the crimes of their grandfathers.

However, the Germans have done a lot of soul-searching since the war. They haven’t shied away from examining how the rise of the Nazis came about. They could easily have said “That wasn’t our generation, don’t blame us”, but they have tackled it head on to make sure it never happens again. It is very admirable.

Justchilling07 · 19/08/2025 15:25

MavisandHetty · 19/08/2025 12:44

I've just seen this! A poster tells an account of being verbally aggressed, being groped under their skirt, spat at, in a racially aggravated way - and your response is "You are being judgmental and putting yourself on a pedestal", and "it happened to you once, 20 odd years ago", slipping in a token "it's not acceptable" immediately undone by "but it's also not common place".

Who ARE you?! How do people think this way? It's not fair to judge everyone in the same way, you say? Why don't you go find my aggressors and tell them that - those male aggressors who could have knocked me out with one blow if I'd dare try to do anything than run away. How PRECIOUS has your life been that you can think this way? Would you say the same to a woman at the receiving end of domestic abuse? That if she goes on to be wary of men who look and act and wear the same football strip as her husband, she's no right to be wary and that in fact she's being judgemental and putting herself on a pedestal?

There sure are some crazy people in the world. I hope, really really hope, you're not a woman.

I am a women, l don’t have to justify that to you on this thread, as far as l’m aware, neither does anyone else on MN.My life hasn’t been precious actually, l have been on the receiving end of being sexually assaulted by 2 men, who were Asian, does it mean l hate all Asian people, of course not, because l know, it was a one off, as awful as it was, this could have happened to anyone, not just me and this doesn’t reflect on all Asian people.
My comment stands, on 1 experience you’re tarring everyone with the same brush and now anyone who’s patriotic about England are in the wrong and it disgusts you.
You are, putting yourself on a pedestal, you said with your flawless educational record, not a parking ticket to your name, you’ve apparently contributed more to taxes, good deeds and charity acts, to all colours in the uk!! Hmm if that’s not putting yourself on a pedestal, l don’t know what is.
Who am l? I’m a British citizen, who’s proud to be British, who respects every nationality and doesn’t sit in judgment! And when l travel to different countries, l’m respectful to all cultures.
Goodness your comment to me, completely over the top! Go and vent somewhere else, with your pent up anger.

faffadoodledo · 19/08/2025 15:42

Upthread I listed some of the things that made me proud to be British - from music to literature to landscapes and events and from sporting wins to scientific breakthroughs. The flag is a teeny part of that, and only when attached to one of those royal or sporting or saints events.

My question to those who find the flag a vital part of their identity and patriotism is this: what else makes you feel patriotic and proud of your country?

Horsie · 19/08/2025 15:43

Meandmyguy · 19/08/2025 09:36

When I lived in the UK I did find it to be quite a racist country.

I left in 2004.

I'm so sorry to hear that. 😢 As a white British person, I'm oblivious because I don't hear anyone saying anything racist, but people of colour tell a different story. It's pretty alarming.

When you found Britain to be racist, was it like people yelling insults on the streets, or was it more subtle, like being passed over for promotion that you'd have been great for?

Horsie · 19/08/2025 16:25

Charlthg · 19/08/2025 11:38

So immigrants come here for safety, and the country is racist and safe for immigrants at the same time.

The argument does not stack up.

Those always going on about the country being racist and national flag being racist simply cannot explain this.

It's extremely safe compared to some of the countries that the immigrants are coming from. It's not a war zone or a country ruled by a bloodthirsty dictator, for a start. But that doesn't mean there isn't racism.

Charlthg · 19/08/2025 16:29

Horsie · 19/08/2025 16:25

It's extremely safe compared to some of the countries that the immigrants are coming from. It's not a war zone or a country ruled by a bloodthirsty dictator, for a start. But that doesn't mean there isn't racism.

So the British flag is racist?

JudgeJ · 19/08/2025 16:34

Agreed. And don't fly the flag of your country either. It offends me.
Unbelievable! The uproar there would be if this was the other way around.

But this is MN, the spiritual home of hypocrisy, if you're not toeing the party line on any topic the Report button is hot!

MiloMinderbinder925 · 19/08/2025 16:47

Charlthg · 19/08/2025 16:29

So the British flag is racist?

The reason behind this sudden wave of patriotism seems to be.

xanthomelana · 19/08/2025 16:47

I’m glad I’m Welsh and we can fly our flag without being accused of racism. I’ve never understood why the English beat themselves up so much over a flag and the rest of the UK proudly fly theirs.

I don’t understand the link between certain groups and the English flag either. The Welsh independence movement use ours and even though I don’t agree with what they stand for it doesn’t taint the flag in any shape or form. One group of people doesn’t own a national flag and disapproving of people who display it is madness.

xanthomelana · 19/08/2025 16:49

MiloMinderbinder925 · 19/08/2025 16:47

The reason behind this sudden wave of patriotism seems to be.

The disapproval over the English flag has been going on for years, let’s not pretend it’s a new problem.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 19/08/2025 16:53

xanthomelana · 19/08/2025 16:49

The disapproval over the English flag has been going on for years, let’s not pretend it’s a new problem.

The thread is about people putting up flags on council property which I'm referring to.

justasking111 · 19/08/2025 16:54

xanthomelana · 19/08/2025 16:47

I’m glad I’m Welsh and we can fly our flag without being accused of racism. I’ve never understood why the English beat themselves up so much over a flag and the rest of the UK proudly fly theirs.

I don’t understand the link between certain groups and the English flag either. The Welsh independence movement use ours and even though I don’t agree with what they stand for it doesn’t taint the flag in any shape or form. One group of people doesn’t own a national flag and disapproving of people who display it is madness.

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