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To ask those who are not white brittish how they feel about the flags?

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PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

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TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:30

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 14:25

So the rest of us just have to let them have it do we ?

No, read my comments. I said it needs to be reclaimed so it isn't seen as a far right symbol.

gannett · 18/08/2025 14:30

Non-white British. I have experienced racist abuse in my life. If I see a St George's Cross hanging outside a pub or painted on someone's face I will assume they are racist and for my own safety I will give them a wide berth. I do not need to justify this (and have no interest in doing so).

Obviously the flag "itself" is not racist - it is just a basic red and white pattern on material - but flags have no actual meaning beyond what people use them to signify. And for several decades the English flag has been used to signify racism. If I see it, I know I'm not welcome there.

And no one is trying to ban it or silence you lot. I don't give a shit if you fly it. I'm happy for you to - the more visible warning signs the better. I prefer my racism visible to me ahead of time rather than to be ambushed by it.

I am not sure why those who apparently feel sad about this state of affairs haven't been bringing it up with the racists for the last few decades? Go talk to them and leave us POC out of it please.

randomchap · 18/08/2025 14:30

Whammyyammy · 18/08/2025 14:28

Agreed. No other nations flags should every be flown in another country, unless diplomats visiting, as a mark of respect.

That's a bit mad and rather intolerant

Arlanymor · 18/08/2025 14:31

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 18/08/2025 14:29

I think the red bit does (represent Wales)😂

I guess you're joking! But in case anyone thinks you are not... no it doesn't! To represent Wales it would need a yellow/gold cross or black somewhere in the background.

skippy67 · 18/08/2025 14:31

ayepecking · 18/08/2025 14:16

?? Would love to hear how you know what colour people are? I thought we were all colour blind now anyway?

Instinct.

CantWaitForOctober · 18/08/2025 14:32

My mum is white English but my father is black, so I guess I’m ok to comment? The England flag doesn’t bother me and I’d honestly rather see it than Palestine flags or Ukraine flags personally (that people still have in windows near me 😒)

Soontobe60 · 18/08/2025 14:32

randomchap · 18/08/2025 14:04

Nope, not a me problem.

Racism and the far right are on the rise. That's a problem for the whole country.

If you can't see how the flags are being misused to stir up racial and religious intolerance then you are being naive

If you think that the sight of an England flag is going to change someone’s opinions on race or nationality, and suddenly make them support people like Tommy Robinson then you’ve got a very poor opinion of most people.

PropertyGuy · 18/08/2025 14:33

softlyfallsthesnow · 18/08/2025 14:13

I think the issue in Birmingham is that the England/UK flags are being put up in largely white areas and the council are removing them (from lamp posts etc), but Palestine flags are not being as readily removed from lamp posts in largely Asian/Muslim areas because police presence is also needed to achieve this. The police bit was in a statement from the council who own all lamp posts, street furniture etc.
So there's a perception of unfairness.

I didn't think the police bit was in a statement from the council, rather in an email that has apparently been leaked:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15003113/Fury-Labour-run-council-tears-dangerous-St-Georges-Union-Jack-flags.html

Two-tier policing / enforcement of rules is nothing new in Birmingham though and has arguably contributed to why there are areas where a group of people are now hanging these flags.

Fury as Labour-run council tears down 'dangerous' St George's flags

Scores of St George and Union Jack flags have sprung up on lampposts and buildings across parts of Northfield, Birmingham , in what organisers have described as a 'patriotic outpouring'.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15003113/Fury-Labour-run-council-tears-dangerous-St-Georges-Union-Jack-flags.html

gannett · 18/08/2025 14:33

TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:30

No, read my comments. I said it needs to be reclaimed so it isn't seen as a far right symbol.

The ship has sailed. It IS seen as a far right symbol. If you don't want the far right to turn flags into symbols of racism then the best and most useful thing to do is to fight against the far right, not moan about how unfair it is that the flag they use all the time is associated with them.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 18/08/2025 14:33

Funny how nobody ever says it’s jingoistic for French people, Spaniards,Italians, Germans, or any other nationality, to fly their own flag.

Nor are the Scots or Welsh ashamed of theirs.

It’s only the English, or a certain section of us, who are apparently ashamed of their own country.
And please don’t anyone put it down to colonialism - other European countries had their colonies, and don’t seem to beat themselves up about it. As for Germany, well, Hitler did his best to acquire a lot more ‘colonies’ than they’d managed before the late 1930s.

LondonPapa · 18/08/2025 14:34

PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

Tower Hamlets has had the Palestinian flag up which is arguably disgraceful considering the actions of Hamas. This is all down to the corrupt mayor of Tower Hamlets. The St George’s flag is a welcome addition but it isn’t being put up by the council, rather private groups and they want to take it down.

Justchilling07 · 18/08/2025 14:34

skippy67 · 18/08/2025 14:14

Not too difficult.

Yes agree it’s not too difficult to spot judgemental attitudes, like you’re demonstrating.

turkeyboots · 18/08/2025 14:34

As a non British person in my 40s I only ever saw the St George flag associated with football hooligans and the National Front. It not a racist flag. But id associate it with racism. I found English people mainly used the Union Jack instead which implied to be they also thought there was something wrong with the St George flag.

Yellowdresses · 18/08/2025 14:35

I'm white but not British - and it's clear from my accent. I wouldn't go into a pub which was flying the English flag, unless during a major international sporting competition.

I might be being prejudiced, but I would be concerned that it would be hostile - there was so much anti-European feeling during Brexit, and I just don't want to be in a place where I'd worry that there were people who felt I should 'go home', and might want to tell me why.

It is really sad that the St George's Cross has these connotations for many people. It's a bit like the Union Jack and Irish flags being flown in different areas in Northern Ireland, it's a symbol of an identity which isn't necessarily welcoming to people not from the same community.

The Union Jack flying anywhere else in the UK wouldn't make me nervous, or the Welsh or Scottish flags.

HennyPenny27 · 18/08/2025 14:35

Non-white Brit here, if I’m allowed to have a voice, my thoughts are... Unless it gets reclaimed, it immediately makes me think of angry skin-heads. It gives me slight chills, in the same way looking at a US confederate flag makes me think of white supremacists.

I think English people have a very weak understanding of their history and their ancestors antics globally, so am weary of what they want to take pride in…

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 14:35

PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

‘Please don’t post if you’re white’ ? Really ?

randomchap · 18/08/2025 14:35

Soontobe60 · 18/08/2025 14:32

If you think that the sight of an England flag is going to change someone’s opinions on race or nationality, and suddenly make them support people like Tommy Robinson then you’ve got a very poor opinion of most people.

That's not what I'm saying at all.

TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:36

Arlanymor · 18/08/2025 14:29

Yes, he was definitely Greek - land boundaries changing after his death don't alter his nationality when he was alive!

So show us a Greek map showing Cappadocia on it. If you point to where he was born on a map it is in Turkey.

My father was born in the UK but after partition, I don't think anyone would deny he was born in Ireland.

Judashascomeintosomemoney · 18/08/2025 14:36

TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:21

Cappadocia is in Turkey, national boundaries change.

So because Cappadocia is in modern day Turkey, you think that makes someone who was born in the third century ‘Turkish’.
🤣🤣
As I said, ironic.

Whammyyammy · 18/08/2025 14:37

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 14:35

‘Please don’t post if you’re white’ ? Really ?

Agreed. Racism right there.

skippy67 · 18/08/2025 14:38

Justchilling07 · 18/08/2025 14:34

Yes agree it’s not too difficult to spot judgemental attitudes, like you’re demonstrating.

😊

Dweetfidilove · 18/08/2025 14:38

I'm black and it really pissed me off when I heard it on the radio and hour ago. There is enough racial tension at the moment, and shit like this just adds fuel to the fire.

Yes, there are racists who have commandeered the flag, but if idiotic officials purge cities of the flag, then it actually becomes theirs.

There are so many far more useful things we could be doing to improve race relations, instead of removing flags few people actually care about.

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 14:39

HennyPenny27 · 18/08/2025 14:35

Non-white Brit here, if I’m allowed to have a voice, my thoughts are... Unless it gets reclaimed, it immediately makes me think of angry skin-heads. It gives me slight chills, in the same way looking at a US confederate flag makes me think of white supremacists.

I think English people have a very weak understanding of their history and their ancestors antics globally, so am weary of what they want to take pride in…

So you think only English people should be ashamed of their ‘ancestors’ antics’ ? If that were the criteria for every country in the world flying their national flag, there wouldn’t be many left to fly.

Soontobe60 · 18/08/2025 14:39

gannett · 18/08/2025 14:33

The ship has sailed. It IS seen as a far right symbol. If you don't want the far right to turn flags into symbols of racism then the best and most useful thing to do is to fight against the far right, not moan about how unfair it is that the flag they use all the time is associated with them.

Would a similar situation be where the word “queer” was once a homophobic insult whereas now it’s seen as a positive descriptor used with pride by those who identify as “queer”?

ForZanyAquaViewer · 18/08/2025 14:39

PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:45

I was really hoping to hear non-white views.
There's a group who have decided to put up flags on lampposts without permission. They state this is to celebrate being English and for VJ Day. But in interviews they can't but help lapse into the "getting the country back" diatribe and it shows they are abusing the flag. They certainly werent rushing to put them up for VE Day. There's nothing wrong with the flag itself. But the way it's being used is disturbing. It's every lamppost on long lines of streets. It's heavily reminiscent of nazi flags.

I am Black and I don’t care. Complete indifference.

You could try posting on Black or South Asian MN if you want non-white opinions.

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