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To ask those who are not white brittish how they feel about the flags?

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PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

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randomchap · 19/08/2025 10:18

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:15

You haven't explained your hypocrisy - I'm still waiting. Why do you think it's acceptable to call somebody gammon but not weak?

I responded to your insult as it was directed at me. I'm not here to respond to every post and perceived insult

Is that clear enough?

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:19

randomchap · 19/08/2025 10:18

I responded to your insult as it was directed at me. I'm not here to respond to every post and perceived insult

Is that clear enough?

Was it aimed at you? There are many weak apologists, appeasing against their own country. Keep trying.

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:21

randomchap · 19/08/2025 09:38

Weak people? Resorting to insults now? Lol

@randomchap just to give you some assistance. I didn't refer to you, specifically.

randomchap · 19/08/2025 10:22

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:19

Was it aimed at you? There are many weak apologists, appeasing against their own country. Keep trying.

No, I have no further time for your foolishness.

Playing chess with a pigeon

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:24

randomchap · 19/08/2025 10:22

No, I have no further time for your foolishness.

Playing chess with a pigeon

Foolishness - isn't that an insult?

randomchap · 19/08/2025 10:25

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:24

Foolishness - isn't that an insult?

No, it's a description

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:25

randomchap · 19/08/2025 10:25

No, it's a description

So is being weak.

EllyRoff · 19/08/2025 10:33

It’s racist to fly your own country’s flag?! In your own country?!

People like you are driving the far right. Well done.

Whatafustercluck · 19/08/2025 10:38

I feel British first and foremost, despite being English, and weirdly.the British flag doesn't provoke the same kind of conflicted feelings in me that the George Cross does. It's because the George Cross has been hijacked by the far right, such as EDL. And while I agree that nobody should be ashamed of displaying their country's flag in principle, the reality is that it has become a weapon of the far right and I want to disassociate myself from that. There is also part of me that believes patriotism is often the alternative term used when nationalism is what people really mean - and I don't agree with exclusionist and isolationist policies. Look at how MAGA, for example, use the US flag. It makes me wholly uncomfortable.

Sorry I'm not your target demographic, op, but I think if you start a thread you need to be prepared to hear from those you're not aiming it at.

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:41

Once again, this constant reference to the far right. There is a proscribed terrorist group, operating in this country and they are not far right.

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 10:44

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:24

Foolishness - isn't that an insult?

Ahhh, but the Far left are allowed to insult. It's their modus operandi....

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 10:45

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:41

Once again, this constant reference to the far right. There is a proscribed terrorist group, operating in this country and they are not far right.

100%

Piggywaspushed · 19/08/2025 10:45

There are several Far Right proscribed groups. Or did you think we only have one?

Oakcupboard · 19/08/2025 10:46

I’m Irish, living in the north of Ireland, and to me this flag is a symbol of sectarianism, oppression, colonialism and genocide 🤷‍♀️ unfortunately I'm forced to look at it every day

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 10:49

I'm going to put this point up again :

Has nobody picked up how racist the poster who's trying to be so unracist has been ?

She was particularly interested in hearing from non white people. That directly translates to "you can't be British if you're black or brown " - she's just given you her unconscious opinion ! It's absurd.

So she isn't interested what Helga Kozlowski a polish immigrant feels, but she is interested in what Dame Kelly Holmes thinks about people flying her own countries flag ?

It's honestly like something out of a David Brent sketch from the office.

Julen7 · 19/08/2025 10:53

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 10:49

I'm going to put this point up again :

Has nobody picked up how racist the poster who's trying to be so unracist has been ?

She was particularly interested in hearing from non white people. That directly translates to "you can't be British if you're black or brown " - she's just given you her unconscious opinion ! It's absurd.

So she isn't interested what Helga Kozlowski a polish immigrant feels, but she is interested in what Dame Kelly Holmes thinks about people flying her own countries flag ?

It's honestly like something out of a David Brent sketch from the office.

Yeah I reported the whole thread because of the opening post, but of course nothing happened.

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 10:53

Oakcupboard · 19/08/2025 10:46

I’m Irish, living in the north of Ireland, and to me this flag is a symbol of sectarianism, oppression, colonialism and genocide 🤷‍♀️ unfortunately I'm forced to look at it every day

But in a way, that's a you problem that you see it that way. Do you view the German flag and think "war, genocide, evil, concentration camps " ? Or is all this contempt for the British flag just because we allow people to bully/insult us because we're weak compared to the patriotism and pride of other nations ?

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 10:55

Julen7 · 19/08/2025 10:53

Yeah I reported the whole thread because of the opening post, but of course nothing happened.

Not surprised unfortunately 😞

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:55

Julen7 · 19/08/2025 10:53

Yeah I reported the whole thread because of the opening post, but of course nothing happened.

Quelle surprise. Like I say white English is the only fair game. We are now responsible for genocide 🙄

PInkyStarfish · 19/08/2025 10:58

Lovely to see this being shared all over Facebook.

To ask those who are not white brittish how they feel about the flags?
Sdpbody · 19/08/2025 11:00

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 10:53

But in a way, that's a you problem that you see it that way. Do you view the German flag and think "war, genocide, evil, concentration camps " ? Or is all this contempt for the British flag just because we allow people to bully/insult us because we're weak compared to the patriotism and pride of other nations ?

Edited

I really do agree here!!

I do hate how people are allowed to say whatever they want about white people, or English people, or British people. We just have to take it and accept it.

People are absolutely fed up with it, hence the flag situation.

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 11:02

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 10:55

Quelle surprise. Like I say white English is the only fair game. We are now responsible for genocide 🙄

Indeed.

How much would you bet that not one British person (the white ones I mean, according to the op we all know the black and brown ones aren't really British) would dare post: "when I see the Irish flag I think of thieving gypsies, low IQ and terrorists" (waiting for the deletion to even have that written down albeit in context 🙄)

Yet here we have an Irish person that feels very comfortable staying the British flag represents genocide.

Only Britain is allowed to be attacked brazenly like this. (Moreso England) Yet we allow it wholly and self deprecate. We are perhaps the most liberal and fair nation in the world. It's got us really far hasn't it? Everyone respects us ..

Goldenbear · 19/08/2025 11:04

Sdpbody · 19/08/2025 10:01

Well, people who are British by birth, are British, and should be proud to see their countries flag.

However, if they would prefer to leave for a different country because they are offended by their own countries flag, then they to, can piss off.

Do we all have to think the same them.

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 11:05

SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 11:02

Indeed.

How much would you bet that not one British person (the white ones I mean, according to the op we all know the black and brown ones aren't really British) would dare post: "when I see the Irish flag I think of thieving gypsies, low IQ and terrorists" (waiting for the deletion to even have that written down albeit in context 🙄)

Yet here we have an Irish person that feels very comfortable staying the British flag represents genocide.

Only Britain is allowed to be attacked brazenly like this. (Moreso England) Yet we allow it wholly and self deprecate. We are perhaps the most liberal and fair nation in the world. It's got us really far hasn't it? Everyone respects us ..

👏 👏

DeLaRuiz · 19/08/2025 11:05

I think this question about flags is mentally ill. This is the UK, the Union Jack is the national flag. It’s good to be proud of your country. Nation positivity is healthy.

This question is hate speech, suggesting a nation should be suppressed. Horrifying idea.

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