To think holidays with kids are 90% shit

[hagridshair]

Currently away with DH and 3 dc (13, 10 and 2) and it’s just not been fun so far. Lovely hotel, loads going on but eldest just wants to be on his phone. He refused to wear a hat today and has been complaining of headache tonight so has been in a bad mood. Middle child is quite easily pleased, toddler too but obviously they are demanding in different ways. Between running around after them all and trying to make sure all are fed, hydrated, sun creamed and entertained me and dh are both knackered. No time to relax.

Eldests attitude has annoyed me a bit even though I know it’s typical teen behaviour. Just not really bothered about chatting or watching the entertainment with us during the evening. It’s also very hot 35 degrees pretty much everyday so I’m worried about keeping them all safe in the sun.

We look forward to this holiday all year and when it happens it always feels like a big anti climax. There have been some good moments, love watching my toddler dancing and enjoying things here for the first time. But it’s very hard work.

Well.... You can 😵‍💫

You can TRY

When my husband was a Curate and our children in their early teens we were given a free holiday to Butlins. Shock horror! NOT A HOLIDAY CAMP! It was brilliant. The 14 year old took himself off to the snooker hall, swimming pool and just did his own thing. Our 12 year old daughter did a sports award programme which took up lots of her time. WE read books, provided meals [it was self catering] took ourselves off to the local town knowing our kids were safe in a compound with Camp Staff around. There was plenty for them to do on site without our having to worry. There were also activities we did together, like crazy golf etc. There were nursery facilities for younger children and holiday club activities for the Primary school age group. I know we didn't need them ourselves but parents certainly didn't have to stress about different ages needing different things. Both of our children quickly made friends too. So never groan in horror at the holiday camp holidays. Lots of companies have cabins and caravan s available with and without full catering. It won't be long before the kids are grown and you'll have plenty of time for your own relaxation.