I think some of the anger from the OP towards a male poster is based on this...
Women are allowed to talk about their own experiences without men talking about their own or without including men.
The second reply on the thread was from a man talking about his male experience when the thread title was about women. Not male violence in general but about her experience as a woman and she invited other women to share their experiences of being women in this respect.
He then went on to say that he felt 'just as threatened' on occasion when this simply isn't true because a) he is a male so doesn't share the female experience and b) he doesn't know the OP to know whether his perceived levels of threat are the same. And, rather than listen and understand, he persisted. As men so often do.
As a general rule, I'm not too scared to go out but, when I do feel wary or a moment of fear, I'm not scared of being stabbed or mugged. I'm scared of being raped and sexually tortured.
I'm aware that, if it did happen, my moral character would he called into judgement, what I was wearing, how much I'd been drinking, why I was walking where I was alone would be questioned.
As others have said, it's not just physical violence women are scared of, it's the threat of it from comments, leering, intimidation and laughing about it that women are fearful of because you don't know where that is going to go next. And, even if it goes nowhere, you have, once again, been reminded that you were 'lucky' that time.
Men behaving aggressively/threateningly would probably make men feel intimidated too, yes, but men generally aren't fearful if they are walking alone and encounter another man walking alone but women often don't have that luxury.
I've discussed this with men. Men I know, male friends and men in my family. And, yes, they've all said they've felt wary when a drunk man is behaving threateningly or unpredictably or when it's a group of men but never just at walking past a man in the street.
Some of them have initially thought they were 'just as threatened' until they realised they weren't. Because none of them have worried about being rounded on and cornered and sexually assaulted by a group of teenage boys at a bus stop (as I was); none of them has worried about having their hands full when walking through a crowded pub and being sexually assaulted (as I routinely was as a younger woman); none of them has ever worried that they would be sexually assaulted by a friend whose house they visited because they trusted them (as I was); none of them has ever worried about a man turning nasty and threatening to rape them on a train because they weren't being 'nice' enough (as I was); and all of them would leave their (ground floor) bedroom window open at night without fear of someone climbing through the window and raping them as they slept (as happened to me) and so on and so on...
I'm not scared of men. I don't isolate myself or stay at home. I still go to places on my own. I used to run in a secluded woods alone. But am I wary? Of course I am.
There's a music venue near me where the smoking area is up some stairs and out on a roof. If my partner goes up there and finds himself alone with another man, they nod, say hi and might chat about the band, say, "Catch you later, mate!" and go back inside.
He doesn't worry that the might get stabbed or mugged or beaten up in that moment. Why would he? I don't worry about that either. And I'll happily nod, say hi and chat about the band too. But then I might also be asked who I'm there with, if my husband is there, if they can have my number or can they buy me a drink or they'll 'come and find' me in the bar and that's the point at which the risk starts for me as a woman. In a way it never (or very, very rarely) does for men.